The most comfortable relationship between people: get along with each other, nourish each other, and cure each other

Text/malt anchor/child child

Moloa once said: "Friendship is the same as love. Only by living in friends who can get along naturally and do not need to disguise and lie, you will feel happy."

Walking in the world, everyone is eager to have a simple and free interpersonal relationship.

But the more you grow up, the more you understand, not every relationship is happy, not every friendship is comfortable.

Only in the same frequency circle can we meet people who are not tired of seeing each other and getting along with each other.

It is the best health with people who nourish you and cure you.

Get along with

When Feng Zikai taught in Chunhui Middle School in Zhejiang, he became a friend with Zhu Guangqian because of poetry wine.

Once Zhu Guang dives his birthday, his colleagues booked a table for him. Although the scene is not luxurious, it is solemn.

When colleagues came to the hotel, they brought various gifts, but Feng Zikai came empty -handed.

A colleague reminded him of Feng Zicai aside: "Teacher Zhu celebrates his birthday today, how can you eat white food?"

Feng Zikai laughed: "Isn't everyone happy, why do you want to get so tacky?"

After eating, Feng Zikai asked the waiter to come to the paper and draw a painting for Zhu Guangqian in public.

The colleagues said with a smile: "Lao Feng, a painting can't be eaten as a drink, you can get it."

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Zhu Guangqian carefully put away this painting, and said, "This is good, this is good, unusual, I like it."

In this life, there are many people who will have a lot of people, but there are not many people who can get along with them.

I have heard a word: "Everyone who needs you to work hard to cater to the ability to maintain is wrong."

During the relationship with others and not tired, it is a pitch of long -term relationship.

At the time of gathering, you can speak freely, unrestrained, and even tease each other, no scruples; when you separate, you are busy, taking care of each other, you don't have to contact us frequently.

Don't worry about being misunderstood by what you say, you don't have to care about others' ridicule behind the back, let alone to please and cater.

Follow the heart, and the one who gets close is approaching, and those who can't close are away.

It's the best way to get along with for a long time.

Nourish each other

Writer Tonghua said: "There are many encounters in the world. The most beautiful thing is to meet you in my most beautiful time."

Yan Ning and Li Yinuo, the "most bullish girlfriend in China", are probably the same.

When Yan Ning first entered Tsinghua, because she was not adapted to school life, the high -number results in the first semester were bad. She was depressed and decided to use the holiday to stay in school for tuition.

I happened to meet Li Yinuo, who had also played abnormally in the same exam. The two talked very well, and the relationship quickly became close.

After becoming a friend, they played together, made trouble together, and encouraged each other to grow together.

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Li Yinuo Kao TOEFL, Yan Ning also followed the exam; Li Yinuo bubble the self -study room, Yan Ning held the book with the book; Yan Ning entered the laboratory, Li Yinuo followed; Yan Ning went to the library, Li Yinuo was earlier Occupying a seat……

With the along the way, Yan Ning not only counterattacked into a high score, but also found the ultimate goal of struggle in life.

Many years later, Yan Ning sighed:

"Because of Yinuo, my Tsinghua years are colorful, and it seems that outsiders have achieved a lot of achievements. God knows, I just followed her all the way."

Teacher Chen Guo once said: "Only people of the same energy can recognize each other; only people of the same energy can appreciate each other; only people of the same energy can become confidant friends."

In his life, people who can meet like -mindedness are really good.

A good relationship must be empowerment and achieve each other; not pulling each other, becoming a burden of each other.

Some people say: The wrong person consumes each other; the right person nourishes each other.

Those who work hard to nourish you can achieve a better self.

He is a wise man, walking with the good, attracting each other and growing up. Such a life is rich and rich.

Mutual healing

In the movie "Can't reach", Philip and Dell's friendship moved countless people.

White rich man Pielip was paralyzed in bed and kept changing the caregiver to take care of his daily life.

Dell, a black guy, is a little confused that has a previous family of theft and is unable to do business all day long.

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Both of them are very different in their status and character, but Philip sees this young man who does not treat him as the disabled.

While taking care of Philip, Dell, who was careless.

The shower solution and cream are not clear when bathing, and the cream is applied to Philip's head; when feeding the meal, we can look at the female assistant and put the rice on Philip's eyes. His legs ...

This made Philip's assistant shock and speechless, but Philip was happy.

Dell's horse tiger, informal, is not only a kind of relaxation for Philip.

He took Dell to enjoy elegant music and participated in the exhibition, and also assisted Dell to complete the painting, selling more than 10,000 yuan.

Dell did not treat Philip as a disabled, but continued to encourage him to cheer up.

When it's okay, he will accompany Philip to smoke, drink, massage, and even take him to play gliding umbrellas.

Under the influence of Dell, Philip became optimistic and cheerful, and re -ignited hope for life.

Under the infection of Philip, Dell has become reasonable and no longer relying on violence to solve the problem and become a person who has a chance. In life, no one is always smooth, and no one is always happy.

Luo Zhiyuan once said, "Life is injured and healing."

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A good relationship is not to accept or give, but to appreciate each other and achieve each other.

In this life, the happiest thing is not Gao Peng's seat and famous.

Instead, someone can help you, help you, and have the same heart that can help you and give up.

The writer Su Yan once said:

"Be comfortable with whom with who you are, including friends. If you are tired, you can hide a little more. Those who can enter my heart, I will wait for the king, and those who do not enter my heart, disdain or perfunctory."

In life, the most comfortable thing is to be with the comfortable people, relax and calm, warm and calm.

Feelings have no templates, only sincerity with each other; there is no form of getting along with each other.

For the rest of your life, I hope that you can see you in the years, all of which are tender;

Author: malt, many years of financial workers who have lived in the old and learned, and loved writing. Editor on duty: Zhang Aoyang.

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