Fudan Goddess Chen Guo: In the years, cultivate herself

I have a variety of styles and no dispute with the world.

Author: Eyela

Fudan goddess Chen Guo once said that each of us is a seed.

The seeds are buried in the soil, which does not mean that it can bloom.

In spring, see the beautiful scenery of flowers.

You need to continue to cultivate yourself in the years.

1

Be a real self

Chen Guo once told a story that the Jews asked their God:

"Who are you (who are you)?"? "

The answer given by God is: "I am who I am. (I am me)" "

——In other words, I know who I am, and I am what I am.

So Chen Guo said with emotion: God is God because he always knows who he is, and he always lives as his true look.

After Chen Guo became popular, some people thought that the content she said was too superficial, and she was all chicken soup floating on the surface.

Some people think that she is single by herself, and also said a large paragraph of "love quotes", but just talked about the soldiers.

Later, in a lecture, she read a word wrongly, and was questioned by netizens to question her education and true talents.

In the face of these criticisms, Chen Guo soberly said: "Noisy letters noisy, I have a lot of self -style, there is no consequences with the world!"

In our lives, we are always easy to be controlled by other people's public opinion, so we can't see ourselves.

Are you like this:

In order to look like a group, it is better to find all; in order to cater to the point of view of others, I would rather violate my own heart.

In fact, we can live as ourselves and live a bit more true and more real.

You don't have to say hypocritical words in order to maintain the harmony of the surface.

You don't have to do things that violate your preferences in order to satisfy others.

Chen Daoming said:

When people live, they need to give their own heart a home. Keep yourself yourself, self, self.

Learn to block the bad noise of the outside world to hear your inner voice.

Only when you live a real self, can you live soberly and vividly in this impetuous society.

2

Be a quiet person

Chen Guo said:

When the pond water is very quiet, it is often precipitated, and you can see it at a glance. In the same way, when a person's heart is very quiet, looking at things is often clear.

In this fast -paced society, there are too many people who are busy.

For houses, cars, tickets, and seats, it turns itself into a high -speed machine.

In the full schedule, you can't even drink a cup of hot tea slowly and listen to a autumn rain.

So in the bustling anxiety, it became more and more confused and confused.

Franklin, the founding of the United States, has proposed the famous "five -hour principles":

From Monday to Friday, no matter how busy his work is, he will leave him for an hour every day.

Because only by letting himself calm down can he truly clarify his thinking and see the nature of things.

There is a saying: "The real taste between the heavens and the earth can taste it."

The hustle and bustle of the world, the heart is not as good as the mood, and realize the tranquility of life.

In the quiet, avoid the hustle and bustle of the car, and repair the chrysanthemum in your heart.

Shoujing is a kind of spirit, a state, and a kind of wake.

3

Be a self -introspective person

Chen Guo once told a story in "Little Prince".

The king on a planet said to the little prince:

"Judging himself is much more difficult than judging others. If a person can judge himself, he must be a real smart person."

So Chen Guo said with emotion: "A person must have self -knowledge in order to really learn how to evaluate himself."

Sitting quietly and looking at the heart, it is really delusional.

Being a man, if you only stare at the outside world, you will never see your own problems.

Zeng Guofan's younger brother, Zeng Guohua, recognized his talents when he was young, but when he released the list, he found that he was named Sun Shan.

So he blame God that he did not give himself good luck, and the strange wife did not restrain himself while studying.

He found all the reasons, but he couldn't see his own problem.

In contrast, Zeng Guofan's scientific research road is more twists and turns than his younger brother.

But he was not discouraged, but continued to reflect.

He found that his article was too restrained and not atmospheric.

So with a problem, bitter work is advanced. Later, he successfully took the talent and Jinshi, and became famous in the end.

Mencius said, "You can't do it."

It means that when things cannot be done, we must reflect on yourself.

Those who complain about the heavens will only fall in faults.

Only those who look at their own minds can seek a more outstanding life in the province.

4

Be a self -discipline

When I was a kid, I thought that freedom was to do whatever I wanted.

Later, I realized that freedom is to do nothing if you want to do whatever you want.

As Chen Guo said: "The seeds of self -discipline can bloom free flowers."

When it comes to self -discipline, I have to mention Murakami Haruki.

As a best -selling writer who can write for more than 20 years, Haruki Murakami has always lived a very restrained life.

Since 1982, he got up at 5 o'clock in the morning every morning and then wrote for 5 hours.

Run 1 hour in the afternoon, or swimming for 1.5 hours.

Read and listen to music before going to bed.

Sleep at 9 o'clock in the evening.

For more than thirty years, it has never stopped.

He also stipulates that he must write a 10 -page paper article every day, 400 words per page.

If you ca n’t write it, you must insist on writing 10 pages, and Wen Siquan only write 10 pages.

Murakami Haruki said:

When you develop the habit of self -discipline, doing other things have become a easy thing.

In the second half of life, if you want to achieve an excellent self, you can't get it anymore.

If you want a healthy body, you must persist in exercise and build a reasonable eating habit;

If you want a plump heart, you must persist in reading and continue to increase the thickness of the soul.

Self -discipline is difficult and bitter.

But those suffering for self -discipline will eventually become sweet, and it will make life better and better.

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Zhou Guoping once said: "The mission of life is to take care of life and settle the soul."

In this huge dojo, we are all practitioners.

Only by cultivating your body and mind can you live a taste, live and fragrance.

Click a praise, cultivate a better self.

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