People have to learn to be silent

Wen | Ling Mai

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Silence is a kind of cultivation and self -discipline of life.

Learning to silence is an elegant temperament, a indifferent feeling.

Hold your mouth and know how to silence. In fact, it is a great wisdom of life. Only when life can live up to loneliness can you be able to keep prosperous. Keep a heart balance, no argument, no noise or noisy.

Really mature people do things, do not have to measure others' lives, let alone point at the back. Never be fast or tongue.

"Book of Rites" said: A gentleman is not enough to others, it is not losing to others. Confucius warned us: To be a person must be positive, do things bright, not to mention the length of people, no matter whether it is right or wrong.

Those who hold their mouths are wise people. If people pass fifty, they must learn to be silent and not to talk about these three things.

[1] Don't talk about your family contradictions to outsiders.

Between loved ones, there is a relationship between blood. Why do you have to torture each other? You can't say to outsiders.

Some things you know between husband and wife, don't talk to outsiders. Do not talk about these family contradictions outside, otherwise it will not only hurt yourself, but also make the family unfavorable.

A family faces a life every day. It is normal to have contradictions. It is necessary to communicate in time and solve it in time. Do not talk to outsiders. Because these family contradictions are your weaknesses, it will give the bad guys a chance to take advantage of it, and it is yourself who is injured in the end!

Family ugly, if the relationship is getting worse and worse, in the end, it cannot be accepted, and it can only be separated. In fact, some problems are not serious. If you are used by someone with ulterior motives, it will only lead to increasing contradictions.

[Two] Don't talk about your own wealth.

It will be lost if you say a lot of words. It is even more valuable.

The dullness of wealth is not only low -key, but not just silent, but also a protection! Wealth cannot be exposed to the outside world. When you have money, you should keep a low -key way. Do not tell others how to make money.

Rockefeller said: "There are many benefits to you silently, and you have a low posture and become humble. In other words, hide your cleverness."

Because if you are exposed to money, your friends around you may be jealous of you. If you do n’t borrow it, they are likely to remember you. Therefore, if you don't want to add unnecessary trouble to yourself, try not to talk about your true wealth to others.

[3] Don't talk about the privacy of others.

"Others are right and wrong, it is better to say nothing; hypocritical words are worse than words; people are cloudy, better than words;

Knowing things do not speak, knowing people do not comment, it is the kindness that people should have. Seeing through, not to mention breaking, it is a kind of wisdom that can cleverly relieve the situation. Smart people know how to silence in a timely manner, and get along with such people like such a spring breeze. They know what to say, what should not say, can protect the privacy of others well.

There is such a sentence in "Disciples": "People are short, do not expose; people are private, so do not say."

The meaning of this sentence is that it involves the privacy and secrets of others, don't talk nonsense. Everyone has their own dignity. Even if you understand the privacy of others, don't discuss it behind. Once you are known by others, you should rot it in your stomach.

Wheat message:

As the saying goes: the disease comes in from the mouth, the disaster comes from the mouth, the speaker has no intention of listener.

Some people have unobstructed population, and they unknowingly offended others in the process of interaction with people, making their interpersonal relationships unknowingly. People who have passed fifty, real transparent people do not talk about these three things.

"The water is deep, and people are stable." Instead of explaining to others desperately, it is better to keep silent and let time respond to everything.

Silence, sometimes to think better and better. Silence is gold. When we go through the vicissitudes of the world, we will eventually understand: encounter misunderstandings, do not justify, work hard to be ourselves, and time will clarify everything.

After fifty years old, the best way of life in life is to look at your own scenery, take your own way, not anxious, and calmly live your own life.

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