Late Yue Reading | The four realms of being a man, which one did you do?

01

Take yourself as someone else

Have you ever had such an experience: I encountered an opportunity, obviously at hand, but always hesitated, and finally watched the opportunity to settle others; conduct a certain attempt, others say you can, but you repeatedly tangled, but you repeatedly tangled, but you repeatedly tangled, but you repeatedly tangled. You can always find a variety of reasons to prove that you can't.

Seeing the world, first of all, see yourself.

When a person is always in his own vision and lacks objective evaluation from the outside, it is easy to lose himself. Either arrogance and self -esteem, bring unnecessary failures;

Only when you jump out of yourself, look at yourself as others, and with the reference of internal and external references, the strengths and disadvantages of individuals will gradually become clear.

Father, like son. When life is so confused, take yourself as someone else, look at life and yourself.

02

Take others as yourself

I have read such a paragraph: You are a customer and think that the merchant is profitable; you are a merchant, complaining that customers are fussy; you are a child, and you think your parents are embarrassed; you are a parent, complaining that the child is naughty.

Everyone has their own opinions, so it is right to distinguish.

To go to the lives of others with the world you see, it is actually a blindfold and not seeing Taishan.

On the contrary, when you stand in the position of others, you will find that many problems do not need to be arguing right or wrong. You only need to consider the other person's thinking.

One thing is right and wrong, everyone has their own standards.

The greatest wisdom in life is not to convince others, but to try to understand others.

Taking others as yourself can we communicate frequently and make progress together.

03

Take others as others

There is a saying good: "The best relationship is not to not distinguish between you and me, but to be familiar."

Without the sense of boundaries, it is a taboo for people.

Respecting the independence of everyone is the basic etiquette of people interaction.

Get along with others, leave room for each other. Too close, under the banner of the other person, impose your own ideas to others, while changing others, you are also gradually pushing others.

Too far away, less consolation, more gap between each other, and eventually drifting away.

When you enter the field, you should avoid when you enter the field.

It is independent and close to each other, not disturbing each other and guarding each other. In this way, a relationship can last, and then achieve each other.

04

Take yourself as yourself

I have seen some people. When they are popular, they are imitated with a nest, even if they do not understand the risks at all; watching others buy a certain product, they must follow the trend, and do not consider their needs and actual situation at all.

Maybe they all made a common error: fearing that they would not match.

However, a truly excellent person knows how to treat himself as himself, not only can he be sober in the evaluation of others, but also to be able to resist loneliness, keep himself in the world, think steadily, constantly achieve yourself, and gradually move towards your ideals.

Life is alive, and the mind is cultivated, and the mentality is cultivated. In the future, I hope you can settle yourself.

Photography 丨 West Mountain Watch

Source 丨 Xinhua News Agency, the article is deleted and modified

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