In the era of excess cleverness, reliable is the greatest cleverness of people

Author: Insight · Annabe Su

Smart, more reliable but rare.

Chatting with friends a while ago, talking about the most valuable quality of people.

I thought that everyone would think it was smart, kind, and visionary. I did not expect that the consensus answer was reliable.

If a person is exquisite and can speak, he will come in particular, not the high emotional quotient. The real high emotional quotient is the unlimited trust of everyone.

Today, society is full of routines, more clever, and rare.

Smart may be able to overcome people's hearts for a while, but reliable people can often be distributed from God to extra luck.

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Reliable people will always put their integrity forever. I have seen a case shared by a company.

The boss once had his own trust, because the young man was so good and clever, he was very popular, and his execution was very strong.

But in the two key things, the boss changed his view of him.

One thing is that when dealing with a violation of disciplines, the young man did not want to offend people, so he played a means to make him a good person and pushed the offenders to the company's head.

Another thing is that the young man said on the surface that he would follow the boss for a long time, but he found another company behind him, and then suddenly resigned and left. He was caught off guard by the boss, which caused a lot of losses to the company's business.

The boss said that since then, the company's recruitment standards are good, their character is good, and they are honest, and they have been put first.

A philosopher once said: The mortals stand in the heavens and the earth, and they must be "sincere" in the event of an incident, and later generations believe that it is a person.

Reliable people always put their integrity first.

When Luo Yonghao founded an English training school in his early years, he was extremely lacking money.

After a long -not -in -law who has not been in contact for many years, he said it to 3 million without saying a word.

Luo Yonghao asked, this money is not a small number. Besides, we have not contacted for so many years. Why do you believe me?

I don't remember novels, you don't remember. When we were young, we all liked to recording video tapes and exchanged each other.

At that time, many people slid their heads, divided a story film into five plates, and then changed five -set video with others.

Gradually, everyone did this, but you didn't.

Seeing novels, seeing the character, I thought you were reliable and worthy of deepening.

Later, Luo Yonghao failed to start a business and was forced to live broadcast on the debt. Until the final account was cleared, he kept his integrity.

Cao Dewang once said:

"Everything in life is every brick of your historical building.

A certain brick is broken. When you cover it high, the pressure is a lot, and the place cannot be scrutinized, and the building is destroyed. "

The biggest bankruptcy of a person is the bankruptcy of credit; a person's greatest wealth is an upright and reliable character.

Real smart people will never overdo their credit, nor will it disappoint the trust of others.

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Reliable people are not perfunctory. The writer Liu Ye once explained his daughter to water the flowers.

The daughter was anxious to go out to play, and the flowers were poured three or two times.

Just when she was going out, Liu Ye stopped her.

He took his daughter to the flowerpot and asked, "What is the difference between you see the flowers poured by your dad?"

The daughter shook her head, and Liu Xun raised the two pots of flowers, showing the root of the flower to her daughter, and the daughter's face immediately became red.

It turned out that the flowers I poured only on the surface, and the flowers poured by the father had penetrated into the roots.

Teach your daughter with a long heart:

Do not only do superficial efforts, you must do thoroughly to achieve "roots"; being a person should also become a responsible, responsible, reliable person.

Whether a person is reliable, you don't need to have much professional skills, you just need to do things well.

After graduating from Harvard University, Chen Yisun, a well -known economist in my country, returned to Tsinghua University to teach.

At that time, the content of the intercom of Tsinghua University did not clearly specify, but Chen Yisun spent three hours a day to prepare carefully.

Large logic, as small as a punctuation symbol, all strive to be accurate.

One day, a classmate was absent from a class and wanted to find Chen Yisun to copy it by lectures.

Chen Yisun told the classmate that you need to wait a while, because I have new opinions on the original content, and I will give it to you when I add it.

The classmates asked with some puzzles: "Isn't it already finished, why do you need to add?"

Chen Yisun replied: "No matter how many times I have said, I will add new ideas in time. In order to be responsible for you, I would like it even if I changed it a hundred times."

The rigorous style and the attitude of excellence have continuously improved his academic accomplishment, and helped him to establish a good reputation.

Teacher Chen Danqing once said: "Do everything seriously, don't bother, don't give up, don't perfunctory."

Relief is not perfunctory.

Smart people are busy taking shortcuts, and reliable people step by step.

Pay attention to every detail, do not let go of every small mistake, and use 100 % intentions to find a deserved heart.

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Reliable people are reassuring. From the media people Qingge said:

"No matter how high your education is, or that you are so talented that everyone is ashamed of not daring to open your eyes, but what you can make people respect and look at you will always be your reliable professionalism.

Because talent does not allow a person to respect you, but reliability can do it. "

Writer Aiyang has a strong partner.

For a while she heard that many people came to dig her, and these people had a good deal with her. Some of them often deliver meals to the partner and go abroad to take the initiative to help her buy their legs.

But in the end, the partner still did not leave.

Ai Xiao sheep asked curiously why, the partner said frankly:

"Because of these people, only you tell me what to do, how to do, what is the profitability, and what I can get after the goal, your professionalism makes me trust."

In life, many people say that they have high emotional quotient, they are exquisite, and they are at the source.

But no matter how much skills are, it is not as good as a down -to -earth attitude.

Revisiting the TV series "Big River" a while ago, it was impressed by a plot inside.

Lei Dongbao, secretary of the village branch of the Xiaolei family, led the women in the village to raise a long rabbit. After dating people, they were ready to sell the rabbit hair directly to Shanghai.

Lei Dongbao sent two people, one four treasures, and one old.

When I came back, Sibao Xing talked about the interesting things in Shanghai. When I was asked by Lei Dongbao, "How can others evaluate our rabbit hair quality", "Is there anything else can I improve", "If we produce more rabbit hair, we produce more rabbit hair hair Can they accept it? "

The four treasures couldn't answer, so anxiously grasped their ears.

In contrast, the old man took the initiative to invite the secretary at home, not only reported in detail the market value and development prospects of Changmao Mao in Shanghai, but also talked with several stores in advance for two years of ordering contracts.

In some comparison, high standing.

Four treasures look at the clever on weekdays, but they can do something without chapter while, so that many years have passed, and he is still doing nothing in the village;

Lao Xun looked silent, but he had a careful work and was all available. Later, he was promoted to be the webmaster of the Rabbit Mao acquisition station.

Writer Chi Li said: "Reliable, simple to say, and complicated."

Relief is that it is reassuring.

No matter how glorious the title, no matter how clever means, it is better than being a person, and there is a head and end.

Reassuring is to get luck to your life, and when the opportunity comes, you can catch it firmly.

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Some students once asked Mr. Nan Huaijin, a master of Chinese studies: What kind of people are more likely to get the favor of others?

Nan Huaijin replied that a stupid man, a person who does not play, and is very sincere to do things.

Reliable people may not be surrounded by halo often, but that solidity can be trusted by others for a long time.

They may not be good at communication and cannot immediately catch people's attention, but the sense of security can make people automatically surround them.

Standing in the world, reliable is the top talent of a person.

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