Academy of Information Academy · Counselor said (29th) -the like water, born to the sun

The competition in today's society is ubiquitous. Many students shoulders huge academic and employment pressure. They hope to use their own efforts to exchange for their longing life and realize their social value, but they do not realize that the ideal life is essentially because of the essence of life. Decisive in your own thoughts and mentality.

So what is a sound mentality?

A sound attitude is a sunny, positive, optimistic, and confident attitude, and it is better than all kinds of wisdom.

01 optimism

In learning life, everything has its double -sidedness, and interpretation of different perspectives will also have different impacts on their own development. We said that active people see a chance in each worry, while negative people see some kind of worry on each opportunity. There is a story about Xiucai's rushing exam. It was said that there was a show before entering Beijing to rush to take the exam. The night before the exam, I had two dreams. The first dream was to dream of growing cabbage on the high wall, and the second dream of wearing a bucket in a rainy day and holding an umbrella. After waking up, he felt that both dreams hidden the meaning, so he found a fortune teller to interpret the dream. After Xiu Cai said with the passage of Meng to the fortune teller, the fortune teller shook his head and said: You should go home, do you think: Does n’t plant cabbage on the high wall mean that he is busy? Isn't it a lot of way to bring an umbrella and an umbrella on a rainy day? Xiucai was frustrated after listening, so he returned to the store to pack his clothes and go home. The shop owner saw strange when he saw it, so he asked: Are you not ready to take the exam? Xiu Cai said truthfully with the dream of the dream and fortune teller's dream. When the shop owner listened, he said, "I will also interpret the dream, and I feel that you have to stay to take the exam. Do you think that it is high school to grow cabbage on the high wall? It does not mean that you bring a bucket of buckets and umbrellas on a rainy day. Be full of preparation, is there any preparation? "Xiucai heard that it was more reasonable, so he stayed in the exam, and as a result, he was in high school.

This story tells us that things have two sides. The key is to see what kind of mentality of the person treats it. A positive mentality creates life, and a negative mentality consumes life. There is a person with an optimistic attitude, who is good at observing the positive side of things. In the endless, heart in Taoyuan, even if they are in adversity, they can adjust themselves, relying on their open -minded attitudes and firm beliefs, and continue to struggle.

02 confidence

In many cases, you are dissatisfied with your current situation, always constantly doubt and deny yourself? Some students said, "Teacher, my dream is too far away, far away from me to give up"; some students say: "Teacher, whether my current grades are my future"; some students Said: "Teacher, my family is average, I don't want to participate in these activities."

Yes, everyone is imperfect. All we have to do is to accept ourselves and believe in ourselves. First of all, listing your own advantages is not only self -comfort, but also to observe yourself from another perspective, find those advantages that you are ignored, affirm your growth every step, and give yourself some rewards appropriately. Second, face your own shortcomings. If you can accept it calmly, don't force it, you can strengthen your advantages in another aspect. For example, Wei Renlong, a student of Peking University, has difficulties in family situations and his parents died early, but he can still calmly take talents and ability to prove his value. Believe that sometimes it is not the disadvantage you think must be the disadvantage in the eyes of others. Self -confident people will not be arrogant, nor will it be lighter because of a few words of others. They firmly believe that even if the dream is higher, as long as they are willing to tiptoe and do their best, they can always go further.

In June 2022, level 19 students are about to graduate and officially enter the society. Level 20 students will walk out of the campus and enter a new chapter of internship. Level 21 students will also end their freshman learning life. Since then, every student is willing to be born to the sun in the new stage of life, like sunflowers, facing the sun, and positive.

the world is huge

scenery is beautiful

Have a lot of opportunities

Life is short

about the author

Li Zhuoyao, female, member of the Communist Party of China, a master's degree, graduated from the University of Southampton University in contemporary curatorial, and a counselor at the School of Information Engineering.

Dubbing student

Yan Qin, 21st in the second class of the four class, the director of the Ministry of Film and Television of the Academy, the top ten hosts of the college, and the top ten hosts of the school.

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