How to "accept" in the summer?Teacher Ningbo Fenghua "supports" for parent -child relationships

In the first summer vacation after the "double reduction", there were fewer training courses and more parent -child spending time. How to effectively communicate has become a topic that parents face every day. On the evening of August 10, three class teachers and psychological teachers in Fenghua District, Ningbo City, Zhejiang Province entered the district Rong Media Center to explore the discussion of parent -child communication with the public and parents on topics of training, summer homework, mobile phone use, etc. Essence

Summer homework does not keep up with the teacher's progress bar

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Regarding learning habits, Wang Pu, a psychological teacher in Fenghua District Experimental Primary School, shared the "little tricks": "When the child insists on completing a certain task, parents must give their children positive feedback, encourage them in time, and even give him (her) they want Reward ... In addition to learning habits, we must also pay attention to lifestyle habits, hygiene habits, and labor habits. These have great correlation with our children's learning habits. A person is careless in daily life. Habits are difficult. You can use "10 minutes of target" and "environmental creation" and other methods.

The summer vacation operation after the "double reduction" has innovated in content and form, and the disciplinary operations have also made scientific planning in stages. After half of the holidays, some children are studying well, but there are students who do not keep up with the teacher's progress in the summer vacation. Parents are more anxious than their children.

"In this regard, I understand the parents very much." Jiang Yingfei, the class teacher of Fenggang Middle School, said, "Parents can assist their children from now on, make planning to adjust them on a regular basis." She also reminded parents that there is no tear operation. , To scold the child and other rough lines. The child is the receiver of the parents' emotions. It has a natural sense of dependence and a sense of security for parents. Don't easily destroy it. If necessary, you can ask for help from the teacher and class teacher.

The three teachers in Fenghua explore parent -child communication skills

How to "accept" from the mobile phone more than half of the holidays?

Three teachers to support

In response to the "boss" problem "how to use mobile phones", the three teachers also shared their experience. Teacher Wang Pu suggested that parents should not buy mobile phones for their children before their children. If they are equipped with smartphones for various reasons, they can adopt the "Contract Law" to formulate use rules with their children and sign contract.

Jiang Yingfei, the class teacher of Fenggang Middle School, suggested that parents let their children take care of their children in advance. They can accompany their children to participate in useful activities, pull his attention from the mobile phone, and slowly reduce the time of the child's mobile phone. After retracting the mobile phone, put your mobile phone in a fixed position. For example, everyone can see areas, avoiding some children from seeing the mobile phone and distracted.

For children who are addicted to the virtual world, Mr. Sun Lili, a psychologist in Fenghua Middle School, suggested that parents find the root cause of their children's obsession with the game. It may be that they cannot find a sense of accomplishment, belonging, and happiness in the real world. At this time, parents must not force their children too tightly, so that he has no way to retreat. You must pass such a message to the child -no matter what happens, you can come back safely. We will always be your most solid backing! If you encounter more difficult problems, parents can actively ask for professional forces. Each primary and secondary schools are equipped with a full -time and part -time psychological teacher, and all middle schools have opened a psychological hotline.

Parent -child communication

In addition to imparting parent -child communication skills through Volkswagen Media, the Education Bureau of Fenghua District will also organize some teachers and students to regulate emotional regulation and adapt to the two themes of the students. Confused, guide students and parents to respond in a proper way. According to Cai Weibo, secretary of the Youth League Working Committee of the Education Bureau of Fenghua District, starting in mid -August, these six psychological dramas will be pushed in the form of short videos. Teachers and students and parents can watch them together to jointly protect students' healthy growth.

Reporter Wang Dongxiao Correspondent Cai Weibo Wu Wenwen

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