Adolescent children became "cute little clay people" in her

Children enter the adolescence that it is not easy to teach and unhappy. Mr. Chen Siqing, the first junior high school in Wuhan Zuoling, has compared the children of junior high school to "cute little clay people". ", Will rebound without hard work. How to grasp the scale? She summarized a set of "psychological integration" methods, focusing on "listening" and "dialogue", and guiding children to examine themselves.

Teacher Chen Siqing. I have a picture

She is "psychological" with students

"In the long -term teaching interaction of teachers and students, the most afraid of love is not the law." Teacher Chen Siqing taught for 17 years. She believes that the good teacher -student relationship can not be allowed to give up blindly. "It is not allowed to obey and lack dialogue, then students will face the lack of personality and thinking, and emotional indifference between teachers and students is prone to emotional indifference.

"To rebuild a good teacher -student relationship, you must establish two -way communication and effective interaction dialogue mode. I understand your hard work, you are grateful to my efforts, and in a relaxed and happy environment to become a community of destiny for knowledge and learning, and work side by side." Chen Siqing Said that this "psychological integration" state is the most benign teacher -student relationship.

Since teaching, Chen Siqing has been working hard to build a platform for equal communication with students. Students often write the distress and confusion that they encounter in their lives on the small note, and then clamp it in the workbook, or communicate with Chen Siqing through the QQ message. No matter how busy she is, she will read and reply carefully.

Chen Siqing and the students. I have a picture

In a weekly book, a girl in Chen Siqing clasped a long note for her and made 10 questions in a row. The child talked about what he did not know what to do. "When I was young, I had to study desperately and not to do what I liked. When I grew up, I had to work hard to make money and have no time to do what I like. When I get old, I ca n’t do what I want to do ... ”From the walking of this child, Chen Siqing heard a murmur that had no goal and felt confused, and felt her uneasiness and confusion.

With the student's note, Chen Siqing was pleased that the child was willing to expose his heart and talk equally with the teacher. This is a good start to help the child find a goal and promote her progress. In the note of the reply, Chen Siqing told the child about what life is "value" and "responsibility", and guided her to feel the sense of fulfillment and value of the heart obtained in the hard work. In the "note" dialogue where you come and go, teachers and students can "open" and "accept" to establish trust and gradually integrate psychology. Chen Siqing also helps girls find the direction of struggle.

With love but not controlled

During the class teacher, Chen Siqing insisted on going to school with the students, worked with students, studied together, and sat with the students to participate in the discussion of the theme class ... She knew that to reach a tacit understanding with the child, it was by no means a hard hopper. Don’t want to Try to control the children in everything, but give them the most reasonable rules and the most appropriate environment.

Chen Siqing and the students. I have a picture

In the class brought by Chen Siqing, there was a "unprepared" student Xiao Meng (pseudonym). She often asked the teacher directly in the classroom without raising her hands. Sometimes the class was half unknown. Crying, a little criticizing her was unable to extricate herself in her emotions, and had confrontation with the teacher, so that no one dared to control the teachers. Xiao Meng changed to school to a private school, and after a period of time, Chen Siqing took the initiative to receive her.

Chen Siqing sincerely accepts Xiao Meng, without rude and powerful control, but taught her how to express her emotions correctly and adjust her psychology in the little care. Chen Siqing fully respects her rights to express herself, listen to her true thoughts, clarify the rules and right and wrong, and truly give her reasonable rules and appropriate environments. Xiao Meng's art is good, and the blackboard newspaper has become her stage; she dares to do it, Chen Siqing let her go to the organization of the class activities; she violates discipline, and Chen Siqing inspires her to conduct self -criticism at the class meeting ...

Later, Xiao Meng's English poster was affixed to the class exhibition wall. The first reading of the Chinese language was the first to endorse Xiao Meng. There was also Xiao Meng on the list of serious completion of the work prizes ... Before New Year's Day, Xiao Meng quietly worked in Chen Siqing in Chen Siqing. Put the red apple and the long note full of hearts on the table ... Xiao Meng's mother saw her daughter's transformation, and called several times and thanked school.

The portrait given to her from the student Chen Siqing. I have a picture

Holding a sincere love for the children, Chen Siqing's class won the "urban -level advanced class collective", and I also won the honor of "district outstanding class teacher", "district outstanding faculty group cadres", "district discipline leader" and other honors. In January of this year, Chen Siqing was also awarded the honorary title of "Optics Valley" in 2021 by the Civilization Office of the East Lake High -tech Zone.

(Changjiang Daily reporter Yang Feng)

【Edit: Yao Hao】

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