Parents should pay attention to the key issues of "Xiao Shengchu"

The school is about to start soon. For students who are "small in the beginning", they have ushered in a new turning point from elementary school students to junior high school students. For parents, children may be puzzled and anxious. On the evening of August 20, the "small ascension" connection of the "Connection of the All -in -Section" Education theme Forum invited three guests to the live broadcast room to discuss it. In the 50 -minute live broadcast, guests analyzed the differences in elementary and junior high school stages from different aspects of environment, learning, psychology and other aspects, and gave key strategies for the "small promotion" connection period. 90,000 netizens watched the live broadcast on the day.

Yu Fen, Teacher in the Experimental Primary School of Fenghua District, Ningbo City, the first famous class teacher in Ningbo City, a Teacher -level teacher in Zhejiang Province, host of Zhejiang Class Teacher Studio

The child is "small as the beginning", and the parents are very anxious

The focus of "Xiao Shengchu" is the adjustment of psychology, habits, etc.

Yu Fen shared a parental case around him: the child is about to go to junior high school, and the parents' anxiety follows. The most worried is the academic performance.

This parent is worried: there are more subjects in junior high school, the rhythm is faster, can children adapt? So, as soon as the summer vacation, the parent was busy. Zhang Luo took the child to make up some junior high school courses, took the child to participate in swimming training, and prepared for the swimming middle school entrance examination in the second summer vacation.

Right now, this parent is even more anxious: Can children divide in a good class and meet a good class teacher? Can children adapt quickly? In the new environment, can the relationship between classmates be dealt with? What should I do if the child is old? What if there is a rebellion?

At the same time, the anxiety of the parent also affected the child.

Why is it so anxious? Yu Fen's analysis believes that on the one hand, it is unknown to children's junior high school. Psychologists believe that the reason why people feel anxious is often because of fear of unknown. Because I have never encountered it, I do n’t know how to face it. On the other hand, it is derived from academic pressure. There are more studies in junior high school, more homework, more tests, and academic "three more", which also makes parents feel more pressure.

Wang Fei, Vice President of Zhenhai District Liren Middle School, head teacher in the first famous class in Ningbo City

So, in order to do a good job of the "small promotion" connection, do you need to learn from the summer vacation? Wang Fei clarified a concept at the live broadcast site: the connection of "Xiao Sheng Chu" is not to report the knowledge of junior high school in advance in the training course, but to adjust and prepare for parents and children to adjust and prepare in various aspects of physical, psychological, habits, knowledge, and abilities. To adapt to the study life of junior high school. Parents should transform anxiety into action, understand the characteristics of junior high school, understand the child's growth law, so as to better allow children to adapt to junior high school life.

Zhang Hongbo, Deputy Dean and Associate Professor of Education and Training College of Education and Training, Ningbo Education College (Ningbo Institute of Education), the first famous teacher in Ningbo

In response to this issue, Zhang Hongbo said that students in the "small promotion" connection stage are in a psychological semi -naive and semi -mature stage. They are very eager to independence and strong self -esteem, but they lack self -management ability, emotional instability, and self -awareness has improved significantly. Increased knowledge.

In addition, changes in interpersonal relationships will bring a lot of uncertain factors to the development of children. After children enter middle school, interpersonal relationships are more extensive, and the family situation between students is more complicated. The concepts and standards of making friends and standards have changed with the development of physical and mental development. How to help children properly handle interpersonal relationships have become a new topic that parents need to face.

Good primary school grades only take sixty or seventy points in junior high school

After fully understanding, answer the questions

Can't use the way of learning in elementary school anymore

Several guests said that they often received many parents' questions: "Why can my children take 80 or 90 points in elementary school, and they can only take sixty or seventy points in junior high school?"

In this regard, guests believe that in elementary school class, teachers will use diverse teaching methods to create a variety of teaching situations to attract students; teachers will use their rich expression language and body language to infect students. During the teaching process, the teacher will teach students to solve problems step by step. Where the students do not understand, they will explain twice and twice, and strive to grasp the basic knowledge of each student.

With the increase of age, children's thinking has changed from image thinking to abstract thinking, and the independence and criticality of thinking have been significantly developed. Therefore, the teaching content, teaching difficulties, and teaching progress of junior high school must also adapt to the development of students.

The difficulty of learning in junior high school will be significantly improved. The knowledge of memory and repetitiveness will be reduced, and the knowledge of understanding will increase. Students need to have the ability to fully understand things and master their principles. Primary school exercises are basically similar to example questions, and compared with the example questions, the question type has changed greatly. Therefore, even if students understand in class, they may not do questions after class. And junior high school classroom teaching progress is faster.

Therefore, if the child enters the junior high school, it is still a primary school learning method, and the learning effect is naturally not ideal.

In addition, "Xiao Shengchu" is connected. Parents must not only pay attention to changes in their children's learning, but also pay attention to the children's internal psychological changes. During this period, children transitioned from childhood childish to adolescents, and at the same time faced the new campus environment, companions, and teachers. Once they could not be adapted quickly in the early stage, they may cause a certain psychological gap, and even there will be. For some resistance, parents should observe it carefully.

【"Points"】

After the "Xiao Sheng Chu" connection period, after discussing the differences between elementary and junior high schools from different aspects such as environmental, learning, psychology, three guests shared several key points for parents of new junior children.

Agree. Children from primary school to junior high school, junior high school teachers and elementary school teachers have many different places. Parents should trust schools and teachers, because parents' attitudes towards schools and teachers will affect their children's feelings for new schools, new classes, and new teachers.

adapt. Adapt to the role of junior high school students, such as taking children to the junior high school campus in the summer, ask junior high school students to talk about the rhythm and communication methods of junior high school with children, and have awareness in advance.

develop. Parents cultivate their children with their development vision. How the child's growth is a marathon long -distance running. Each stage may be overtaking, and the child should be given to continue to surpass their strength.

confidence. If a person is always confident, the internal driving force will be strong. Therefore, parents should pay special attention to their children's first time after entering junior high school: first arrival, first class, first assignment, first exam, first activity, etc.

companion. After entering the adolescence, the "important others" of a person are companions. Parents should encourage their children to make friends and make good friends; they must also cooperate with the teachers to work hard to build a class collective.

Promise. Many parents will find that their children's awareness is enhanced, and they often say that they are locking at the door; they do n’t like to communicate with their parents, and even learn to “talk” and write their minds on the diary that will always be locked. At this time, if we still use the command, a tough attitude, and the words of words will only make the child's "door" close tighter. What we have to do is to grow up with the growth of children, understand children, respect children, equal communication, gentle and firmly hold the bottom line.

Mental. During the connection stage of "Xiao Sheng Chu", most parents have high expectations for their children's learning. Parents' mentality is actually not conducive to children adapting to junior high school learning well. Children and parents must give themselves a accurate positioning to formulate the actual expected goals.

communicate. Understanding children is the prerequisite for educating children, which requires parents, teachers, and children to conduct appropriate communication.

trust. When the child encounters difficulties, parents should help their children analyze the problems, give them comfort, encourage and trust, and let their children get motivation and confidence. Conversely, if parents reprimand and fight their children, they will cause their children's self -esteem and self -confidence. Of course, trusting children do not ignore their children. Parents still have to do a good job of supervision. For children who are more fun and lack of self -control, parents need to formulate an executable timetable and conduct moderate supervision. And reminder.

Reporter Ma Tingting

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