How did male stars apologize publicly?

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Today I want to talk about one, maybe everyone doesn't care too much, but it is worth thinking about the topic: How does male star apologize publicly?

In the past two days, the love incidents of actors Zhang Tianai and Xu Kaiyu were hotly debated. On August 25, Zhang Tian'ai posted a recording on his personal Weibo at 18:23, with a text, "I was used to the offender, I hope all the girls are brightering their eyes." The recording content was that Xu Kaizheng apologized for Zhang Tian'ai in the relationship.

At 20:32, Xu Kaiyu issued an apology statement on his personal Weibo. The content was very long. I extracted two keywords, "misunderstanding" -the breakup time line written from his own stand, " Take care of your feelings so that you have misunderstood your heart. "

Another word is "error". He quoted the word "wrong" and said, "He has been suffering from the above 'error'."

The text of an apology is interesting. The words "misunderstanding" and "error" "are actually argued for their situation.

What's more interesting is that the word "apology" comes from Greek, which means "defensive words". The Greeks first apologized for self -defending in court.

We also know that the content of public apology comes from teams or others to write and assist in. But whether I send it or other people, the purpose is the same -let everyone see, he came out to apologize.

We studied dozens of public apology statements and got some interesting discoveries. You are also welcome to put forward your different views.

First, "as a man" is a high -frequency word. And, it is often the first sentence of male apology statement.

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"At the beginning of my feelings, I was from me. As a man, I did not protect Xiaotong, which caused her to suffer a lot of damage in this relationship, apologize."

—— On October 5, 2017, Chen Xiangfa apologized to Mao Xiaotong.

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"Thinking about it, men should still bear all responsibilities. I no longer do any explanation and justification, have no good marriage, bring trouble to their families, and do not give the public the image that Idols should have. . Here, I apologize to the children of the parents of the parents. "

—— On December 20, 2011, Wang Lihong apologized for a Weibo for the divorce.

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"As a man", sometimes in an apology statement, even as the reason why the original committee did not explain the incident.

"As a man, I do n’t do more justification for myself, but my behavior hurts my family. I apologize to my family here."

—— On November 17, 2016, Lin Dan apologized for the scandal of marriage.

Second, "misunderstanding" is a high -frequency word for apology statement.

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"When I broke up, I didn't take care of your feelings very well. It was your heart that had misunderstandings."

—— On August 25, 2022, Xu Kaizheng posted Weibo to apologize for the breakup incident.

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"No matter how good friends, no matter how good the relationship is, you should pay attention to the size. You should understand that this behavior will cause misunderstandings."

——In July 17, 2021, Yu Xiaoguang apologized for a Weibo for the shooting incident.

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"When I was together, I was deliberate, and no existence outside the two. Cherish each other's feelings, but regrets that the processing method causes misunderstandings. The more worried about the harm, the more harmful it may be.

—— On December 6, 2020, Xun Xujia apologized for the love incident

Third, it is very unexpected, "wine" is also a high frequency word.

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"I feel deeply regretful for my disappointment and unsuccessful behavior after getting drunk with my friends last night! It caused great harm to my family, I hope to get the forgiveness of my family, and I also sincerely apologize to the public! At the same time, I am sincere! I also decided to quit alcohol, setting this as evidence! "

—— On August 16, 2020, Wang Yuelun apologized for the filming of the incident after drinking.

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Some apologies were even born, such as Chen Haomin, because of alcohol, it caused, "my inadvertent move."

"I apologized to her with her family and her friends again, because my inadvertent move, drinking too much, and bringing her so much trouble. It makes her friends who love her around her."

"I promise you that I will work hard to quit alcohol in the future and see the doctor. If the doctor thinks I need to receive the treatment of alcohol. Because I really want to cut off the relationship with alcohol."

—— On November 25, 2011, Chen Haomin launched an apology.

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But some people understand that they can't blame "wine" at all.

"I am a ugly person, so I came here today and wanted to take on my own responsibility. I did drink a lot of wine that night. It was definitely not an excuse to commit these."

—— On April 16, 2019, Xu Zhi'an was photographed kissing with the female star car and an apology of the development meeting that night.

Fourth, the apology statement will emphasize your pain, collapse and sadness.

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"I know that this incident is disappointed, and I am also very painful now. This kind of thing is because I am too light. I feel very regretful, and I also deeply realize that as a public figure Responsibilities. "

——Li Bingxian apologized for the emotional scandal.

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"Over the years, my body and mental state have deteriorated every time, and once I was alcohol, insomnia, and trouble. The most important thing is that the people around me also followed me to bear the fame and endure torture." —— Chen Xiang apologized for emotional disputes for emotional disputes. Essence

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"My behavior made my wife and children lose a happy family, and the behavior of betraying marriage left the wounds of my wife's heart. Now after reflection, I have fully understood the fault of the commit. Child, but you can only meet through a video connection every day. "

——Ending apologize to Dongcaichang Dawei in marriage

Fifth, I will reflect on why I do this. However, there are often no clear answers.

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"I did drink a lot of wine that night. It was definitely not an excuse to commit these things.

I regret it very much, and it is difficult to face myself. After seeing the report, I felt that I was embarrassed, wrong, and hate it. gross. So unfamiliar. I have a deep reflection, and I feel why I can't control myself and make this mistake. This color heart. "

"I don't know how to take my own way. At this moment, I have no soul. I am a bad person. I hope everyone can, give me time, and find myself. Finally, I am sorry to all my friends again. ","

—— On April 16, 2019, Xu Zhi'an was photographed and kissed the female star car, and an apology was launched that night.

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"I know, no matter how this explanation, it makes everyone difficult to accept. After watching the video, I reflect a lot and regret it. I also worry about those who care about us. I don’t know what language to express my guilt in my heart. "

——In July 17, 2021, Yu Xiaoguang apologized for a Weibo for the shooting incident.

6. "Regret" is also a high -frequency word.

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"Because of my impulse, I made the last thing I regret in my life. I felt guilty to Xiyuan, children, and Xu. Publicly apologize to them again. "

——Wang Xiaofei apologized for all kinds of improper speeches

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"I have been spending regrets and remorse this month. Sorry, my impulse behavior hurts you and your family. No matter what the reason, I should not do it. I am ashamed of my behavior. , I will take responsibility for my actions and accept punishment. Here, I sincerely apologize to everyone. "

—— Jiang Jinfu apologized for domestic violence. Delete an apology statement.

Seven, in the apology statement, a few will directly express, "bear all consequences."

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"I want to be so solemn to my@「 「「 「「 「「 「「 「「 「「 「「! In these nine years, I paid me all for me. I do n’t know how to cherish this relationship. And lucky mentality to deceive you again and again to make you hurt and sad. I did make a lot of mistakes. I have to apologize to all women who have been deceived and disrespectful. Sorry, I will bear the consequences of this cut. "

——Lo Zhixiang apologized for derailment.

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"I have taken my own fault to myself, and the mistake is wrong. It has nothing to do with anyone. I am willing to bear all the consequences today."

——Is an apology for the marriage.

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Xu Zhian directly stated in the apology statement that the suspension was.

"I feel that when I take this responsibility, I will divide two parts. In the first part, I will suspend all my job until I find a real self, and to review myself to learn to be a person. The second part is in me On the soul, I don't think I know the so -called, and because of my mistakes and behaviors, everyone who loves me around me is suffered such a great pressure and pain. Those with pain can be fine. "

—— Xu Zhi'an developed an apology.

8. Sometimes, his wife and them apologize.

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"Husband: I hurt important family members because of her light behavior. It has caused great unhappiness and trouble to everyone, relevant persons and sponsors who support me, and apologize for comparison. Discuss the future together. I'm really sorry.

Wife: This time, due to Daye's behavior, it caused great trouble to everyone, sponsors and related persons who supported usual, very sorry. In the future, we will discuss how to restore everyone's trust in us and our families. "

——The Japanese male star Seto derailed and sent an apology letter with his wife Ma Yuan Youjia.

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"Including friends who support me, my fans and my family, especially my wife around me, I really was wrong. Also, BB, who was about to be born, I really regret it. Play, I don't know how much I can do to make up for my current fault. Unfortunately, I was trusted by my wife, giving the opportunity to make me new, let me be a dad and a dad who have been assumed and willing to change. husband."

——The wife Jiang Lisha attended the press conference and apologized with Chen Haomin.

【Write in the end】

Psychologist Garry Chapman wrote in "Five Language of Aplinkable", "Apology comes from such a kind of understanding, that is, his own words and deeds have disappointed others' trust or offended others. If the existence of offense,The relationship between the two parties will break. "The first step of apology is to first know their mistakes.

Written article: YY Aju Shuangzai

Editor: Ding Ding

"You can apologize to me, but I can also choose not forgiveness.

If your apology is just for yourself, then I will not forgive you.

Because no one has always stipulated that apology will definitely be forgiven. "

- "Ma Nan Pojack"

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