Cultivate a rich child, you may wish to take him to do these 5 trivial matter

"Children are rich in spirit to better spend this life."

Dong Yuhui shared a story in the live broadcast, and it was also a suggestion for his parents.

One student wanted to drop out of school, and Dong Yuhui mistakenly thought that it was difficult for his family conditions.

Later, I realized that the father just felt that reading was not significant. After a few years, he had to go home to take care of business. It was better to prepare earlier.

Many parents love their children to help children build a foundation for survival.

Find a comfortable job, make more money, and have the richness of material, this is not a happy life.

But in fact, happiness is a rich sense of feelings.

Read the satisfaction of a good book, share the happiness of dinner with your family, help others solve the value of the problem, and choose the joy of gifts for friends ...

These seem to have nothing to do with wealth, but can support the meaning of the child's life.

Compared to the richness of material, the richness of the spirit is the destination of the child's life.

If you want your child to live a good life, parents should pay more attention to the children's spiritual satisfaction.

From the childhood childhood, we can do these 5 things with the child and let the child have a wealthy experience, which is to save his wealth capital for him.

Director Zhou Yijun, director of the documentary "The Childhood of the Government", created the "2 minutes before bedtime" in order to maintain a good communication with the child.

After turning off the lights, for a few minutes per person, talking about what happened today can be felt or unhappy.

She will talk about work with her children, and the child is willing to share the school with her.

By going to bed before going to bed, she successfully opened the child's heart and learned about the child's psychological situation in time.

But for children, parents can listen carefully to themselves is an expression of love.

Because we love you, how important you want to share your views, feelings, and secrets with you.

Child education expert Zhang Juan pointed out in the book "Meeting with Children in Life":

Give children enough love, his life state will be fuller, and he is more likely to focus on the construction of his own life, and to obtain his sense of self through inner peace and joy.

Yes, when children can express their own self -explanatory and live happily according to their wishes.

Even if you meet frustration, think about the trust and dependence of parents, and the child can live freely without psychological concerns.

Every night at 10 minutes, let us really belong to children. This small satisfaction will become the wealth of children's emotions.

When the child is always surrounded by richness, his life will have a lot of difference.

Zhihu asked, "How to make children fall in love with reading from childhood?"

A mother shared experience: Take the child to the library every Sunday to let the child experience the sense of ritual.

After persisting for a while, every Sunday, the child knows that this day is used to read.

Different from reading at home, the library not only cultivates children's reading interest, but also allows children to learn to focus and quiet.

Zhu Yongxin once said: The history of a person's spiritual development is his reading history.

Because of the value of life, it actually depends on the quality of the inner spiritual life. The richness of the spirit is the true wealth of the child.

Parents can insist on accompany their children to the library and guide their children to read a good book, which is to help children find the answer to life.

During the exploration, parents helped their children find themselves, and their children would also be grateful for their parents.

Moreover, the solemn and quiet atmosphere of the library, the rich types of books, can easily stimulate the child's good and knowledgeable heart.

Of course, the original intention of going to the library is to cultivate children's reading interest.

In terms of book selection, we try to respect the children's preferences, rather than forcing children to read utilitarian reading.

In addition to reading, parents encourage their children to talk about the inspiration of a book, different views, what they have learned.

Because compared to the answer in the book, the child's answer is the answer to his life.

A mother cultivated two billionaires. What is the secret of raising?

Shanghai Jewish mother salad shared in the book "Site's Mother's Finance and Business Education" book: open a children's account for children to make children save money from elementary school.

Because you do n’t decide how much money you make, how much money does it determines the rich and the poor.

Our children may not all be a rich man in the future, but we imitate the practice of salads and open a bank account for children.

By taking care of money in person, children can not only learn basic savings knowledge, but also understand the logic of wealth:

Small money can also become wealth, big money is not counted, rich will become poor.

Sometimes vivid practice makes children's experience deeper.

One of my friends will educate children in this way.

When the child was 9 years old, he had his own bank account.

In addition to saving the New Year's money, on weekdays, the child will also encourage the child to put the child in the deposit tank.

When the money in the deposit tank is too much, she will save the money in the child's small account with the child.

Now that the child understands the interest, and see the magic of money to make money, he is becoming more and more rational for consumption.

Every parents are willing to do everything for their children and have no reservation.

But real love may not spend money for him, or it can teach him to save money.

We gave our children a healthy concept of money, so that he could enjoy all his life. Parents have visionary love, which is the precious spiritual wealth of children.

He Lingfeng, a psychologist, taught his daughter's must -have skill in life, is cooking.

When her daughter started from the kindergarten, she stepped on a small bench to learn tomato scrambled eggs.

Although a wolf borrowed at the scene, cooking made the children a very satisfying sense of satisfaction.

Because she can cook, during the study abroad, she can not only take care of herself, but also develop warm friendship through food. Cooking is a labor that cure the soul.

Parents and children cook together is a warm and interesting family activity.

Children can not only learn a life skill, but also experience precious love from their parents little by little and patient professors.

When the whole family do it together, taste the masterpiece together, the easiest time to shorten the distance of the parent -child, the most common food can also taste real happiness.

Teaching children to make a few dishes is a survival skill and ordinary wisdom.

When children understand our intentions, understand that a good life comes from the ability to love life.

Even if you cook with your heart and eat well, the children's spiritual world will have unexpected peace and stretching.

The happiness of life lies in the control.

Even if you buy fresh vegetables, the external surprise is not a sense of satisfaction in the heart.

Pediatric expert Zhang Silai has shared the story of Sun Mingming.

Ming Ming was held by the whole family from an early age, and he didn't know what was suffering, and he had never tasted the poor taste.

The family is worried that a comfortable life will spoil the child, and the son -in -law decided to take him to participate in public welfare activities.

In remote mountainous areas, there are no high -rise foods, only difficult life, the hardships of studying, and longing for the outside world ...

These unusual experiences have impacted Ming Ming's cognition, and also made children understand "gratitude and dedication".

We bring children to participate in public welfare activities to make opportunities to let children see the same world and another face of life.

"Small Window Young Ji" has a paragraph that speaks well: if a person is not as good as those of me, he is content.

When children see many people live a happy life, he is more likely to have internal satisfaction.

As parents, we hope that children to have a high -pattern outlook on life, we must guide the child to understand that human value comes from dedication.

Children understand that people cannot live for themselves, and they are more lively for others. The more valuable he is, the richer his heart.

The happiness of life lies in interpersonal flow.

In the growth of the child, his parents educated him more in his heart. In the future, the world of others can accommodate the child.

Teaching children to love others is to love themselves. This great love of parents will make children the ultimate beneficiary.

Perhaps our parents did not realize that we raised themselves as the first bucket of gold in the child's life account.

Parents give their children attention and love, and the background color of the child's life is warm.

Parents lead their children to understand, and their children's life rules have faith.

Parents dial the child's wealth mystery, and the child's life desires have directions.

Parents cultivate their children's hands -on ability, and the child's life practice has love.

Parents teach their children to help dedication, and the child's life pattern is grateful.

The pursuit of material is endless, and the richness of the heart can make the soul reach the other side.

There will be countless forks for children in the future. Only a rich heart can guide the direction he wants to go.

Author | Tao Ruosu, two -child mother, freelance writer, psychological counselor.

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