Don't stretch your "string" too tightly

Life is the art of the door. Sometimes we need to sing high, and sometimes we need to keep their hands and leave white.

Don't stretch your "string" too tightly.

Because, in this marathon in life, there is Zhang Youchi to laugh at the end.

01

Too tight "string"

Will break

In the film and television drama "Beyond", Xiang north is a very talented short -track speed skating.

She has worked hard and humble, and her career development is relatively smooth. She has worshiped all the way. From the local team to the national team, she won a lot of championships.

Before an important game, she was also required to increase the amount of training by the Enlightenment coach and national team coach.

To the north, he practiced as well as the national team coach during the day, and continued to increase with the supervision of the Enlightenment coach at night.

However, overload training has not been greatly improved.

Instead, she became very tired before the game.

Even when the preliminaries were just halfway, the physical strength was overwhelmed in advance, and the finals did not even enter.

In life, we must work hard, but we must also master the scale. Remember: "string" that is too tight will be broken; people who are too tired will lack.

Only by learning to relax and dense can you get your life to obtain your due stretching, and create greater possibilities for life.

If you always keep your body in a state of work, make your mind in a highly tense state, and you will not be able to handle things.

Because there are high and low, there are urgent and slow, there are Zhang and relaxation, so that life can make life spectrum the most beautiful music.

As mentioned in the Book of Rites:

"Zhang but not relaxed, civil and martial arts can also be;

02

smart person

Everyone knows how to give yourself a holiday

When singer Li Yuchun first debuted, she announced one by one. She turned around in various satellite TVs like a rushing, appeared in major businessmen, and was tired of running.

She once said in an interview that she was confused in the face of high -intensity notices. At that time, she woke up every day and didn't even know where she was, let alone calm down to write songs.

One day, she woke up in the middle of the night and thought, is this really her ideal life? Should I really take advantage of the so -called heat, so frequently expose my face?

The answer is of course negative.

So, from that day, she learned to refuse, and learned to leave her own time in these tasks and leave the body and mind.

If you like music, learn guitar and learn piano; if you like styling, you chase fashion and popularity; if you like to think, you can read more books and let it go.

One day, she was lying in a daze, watching the moon rising outside the window, and inspiration suddenly came.

A "Moon on the Sea" came into being, soothing the hearts of many people.

She found that she would jump out by her holidays and leave her life.

In this kind of relaxation, she released her original albums, which has also become a world -class fashion icon. The control of life is also more handy.

You see, people who are really powerful know how to "holidays" themselves.

They understand that proper whiteness can give more surprises to life; just relaxing can make their minds more dexterous.

When you are tired, stop and give yourself a little time to rest;

When you are tired, slow down to relax yourself.

Let yourself be drawn from busy to see a wider world; let yourself get away from burnout, so that you can set off again.

03

Proper stop thinking

To run better

In the hit drama "The Year of the Never Work", He Yu never took a day off for 10 years after work.

Every day, the earliest who arrived in the job was her, and the late get off work was her.

Even if you are dating with your boyfriend, you are also wearing work clothes to rush back to the unit to work overtime as soon as possible. The boyfriend felt unable to understand. In the end, the 8 -year relationship ended with a breakup.

She thought that the love scene was lost and could find a supplement in the workplace, but things were contrary to their wishes. Her hard work plan was put on hold, the business of hard work was ignored, but hard work was affirmed by the leadership.

She suddenly didn't know what to work hard for so many years, so she rushed her courage to resign and started to rethink. Is the previous job suitable for herself? How can I make my efforts more effective?

While using the time of leisure at home, she devoted himself to the ocean of professional knowledge to improve herself;

At the same time, sort out the connections of the past and seek better development opportunities.

Later, she found a new company with flat management, and finally showed her hands and feet with her professional ability.

This is an era of real -time information. It seems that as long as we do not work hard, we will be fell.

But the premise of hard work is that you need to know what suits you, otherwise everything is different.

After all, in this world, what is more important than hard work is thinking.

Einstein once said such a sentence:

"You can answer a problem for an hour, and I will spend 55 minutes to understand what the question is asking. Once the core of the question is grasped, it is more than enough to answer the question in 5 minutes."

Facing the test of life, people who are truly smart will never run blindly.

They know how to stop properly, think carefully, and then find a way that makes them run faster and live better.

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May wish to leave a little white for life

The writer Su Cen said:

"The retention of those life makes you look richer. A person who will lay out will never stuff life too much." Indeed, smart people will never make your "string" tighten too tightly too tightlyEssence

After all, life is a long journey, and the most afraid of is exhausted.

People who are really amazing know how to leave their bodies and leave their minds.

After all, with the empty gear, you can give surprise time; with a crack, you can leave the sun for the sun.

Light at the end of the text, I hope you have a relaxed and light life.

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About the author: Natto, I traveled around the earth between my fingers.

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