The old man in the seventies of the elderly does not leave to take care of the sick wife: she is my "round heart"

□ Changde Daily reporter Cai Wenlong Correspondent Wang Zhiyi

On July 15th, in an old -fashioned residential building in the Metal Metal Community in the urban area, Zhang Dongchu, who was burly in a white cloth, feeds milk to the bed -paralyzed wife Zhao Xiuzhen, "Come, drink slowly!" Zhao Xiuzhen lying on the bed slowly sideways, put the straw into the bowl. After drinking the milk, Zhao Xiuzhen slowly fell asleep. I saw her silver hair, her expression was peaceful, and the wrinkles on her face were clearly visible.

From the laundry to cooking, wiping your body, to cleaning up to urinate ... Zhang Dongchu, who was already a rare year, became his wife Zhao Xiuzhen's "male nanny". In the past 4 years, after Zhao Xiuzhen was paralyzed, Zhang Dongchu took her as a circle. Against the help of her children, she carefully took care of her life day after day. No complaints were complained, and relatives and friends moved.

The change suddenly, break the tranquility

The 78 -year -old Zhang Dongchu and his wife retired from the original German Metal Materials Corporation. After retiring, Zhang Dongchu was keen on punches, dancing, insisted on exercise, and his body was very tough. He also took his wife to Beijing, Shenzhen, Fuzhou and other places to play, and his life was very comfortable.

A sudden change broke their quiet retirement life. In October 2015, Zhang Dongchu's brother died, and he took Zhao Xiuzhen to hang it. That night, Zhao Xiuzhen fainted with a sudden heart disease and was taken to the hospital for rescue. Due to the timely rescue, she retrieved a life, but she fell into disability and limped when she walked. In April 2018, Zhao Xiuzhen was paralyzed in bed due to strokes and lost his ability to take care of himself. A variety of complex emotions such as distress, sadness, guilt, and guilt came to Zhang Dongchu's mind. Both daughters were in the field, and he also tried to invite a nanny, but after all, he was not satisfactory, and the burden of taking care of his wife fell on his head.

One ancient old man takes care of the other old man, and his life is difficult to imagine. Zhao Xiuzhen's eating problem made Zhang Dongchu the most worried, because her teeth were gone, chewing and swallowing function were damaged, and she could only eat liquid food every day. Zhang Dongchu prepared milk products such as milk for her breakfast. Chinese food is a biscuit mixed with oatmeal mixed with powder. Dinner is mashed vegetables, rice, and soup.

Zhao Xiuzhen can only eat a little at each mouth. If you are not careful, you will spit out what you eat. Zhang Dongchu put a stool in front of her nursing bed. There was a square plastic box and a roll of paper on the stool to facilitate her vomiting. Sometimes, Zhao Xiuzhen will vomit everywhere. Zhang Dongchu helped her wipe her in time, and then cleaned the house and cleaned it.

After watching Zhang Dongchu alone, Zhao Xiuzhen was not a taste in his heart. He often couldn't help crying, and his mood was very low. At this time, Zhang Dongchu would comfort her to be positive and optimistic, and not to lose confidence in life easily.

Care carefully, no regrets

Since Zhao Xiuzhen was paralyzed in bed, Zhang Zhuchu's life has narrowed into a small circle, and his wife is his heart. Zhao Xiuzhen's daily care, daily care and other daily care of his daily care.

Every morning, he will adjust the volume of Zhao Xiuzhen to watch the TV, turn on the air conditioner in the summer, and then go to Quyuan Park morning exercise. The morning exercise time will not exceed half an hour. After the morning exercise, he hurriedly rushed to the vegetable market, pharmacy to buy vegetables and medicine. The whole time of going out generally does not exceed an hour. If it exceeds one hour, he will call his neighbors or relatives and friends to help take care of it.

After knowing the difficulties in Zhang Dongchu's home, the surrounding neighbors will often come to the home to help. The staff of Fuqiang Community, the Fuqiang Community of Bai Mahu Street, Wuling District, will also help them, and help them. The community also listed them as the key care objects, and often came to help to condolences.

Because Zhao Xiuzhen was bed for a long time, last year, she had a bowl -shaped rash on her butt. This rash Zhang Dong had also got it, and went to the hospital for examination. After Zhao Xiuzhen got the rash, it was extremely itchy, often tickling with hands, and even scratching her skin. If Zhao Xiuzhen goes to the hospital for treatment, it will not only be troublesome to go upstairs, but also the process of seeing a doctor. He can only use his experience to be a "doctor" with experience. He put Zhao Xiuzhen's medicinal medical boxes every day in an orderly manner, and tried to use the medicine he had taken and applied before he used it on his wife. It is magical that a month later, Zhao Xiuzhen's rash healed.

Like many paralyzed patients, Zhao Xiuzhen also had constipation and could not defecate.

Once, in order to help his wife defecate, Zhang Dongchu used chopsticks to pierce the hard feces blocked in front of the anus, and then pulled out the feces with a spoon ... Zhang Dongchu admitted that at the beginning, he had been nauseous and had an appetite. But he endured all kinds of discomfort and persisted.

Speaking of this, Zhang Dongchu choked, Zhao Xiuzhen looked at him, his eyes full of affection and silent.

With a lifetime, happiness

"The marriage certificate is a lifelong contract, not a temporary contract. As long as I have a breath, I will definitely accompany her and take care of the end." Zhang Dongchu said that he couldn't say it in his heart. Tired, but he couldn't show it in front of his wife, let alone make her sad.

Zhang Dong also suffered from a variety of diseases such as hypertension, sinus arrhythmia, and insufficient blood supply to the brain. He had occurred due to acute appendicitis, and the acute bleeding infarction was sent to the hospital for emergency rescue. In 2019, he was rescued by the huge abscess of the abdominal wall, and he recovered his life from the hands of death.

The daily care of his wife was tiring, and as he was older, he obviously felt that his physical strength and energy were not as good as before, and he often felt overworked. While taking care of his wife, Zhang Dongchu fainted at home twice due to strokes. Fortunately, he got timely treatment before he got away from the danger of life. One day last year, Zhang Dong suddenly fell to the ground when he got up after lunch. "I have been a soldier and learned some self -rescue knowledge." After falling to the ground, Zhang Dongchu chose to lie on the ground, slowly moved forward, climbed into the toilet hard, and kept vomiting.

At this time, Zhao Xiuzhen lying on the bed was very panicked, and couldn't help it, so scared to cry. In a hurry, Zhao Xiuzhen called the relatives and friends at home with his mobile phone.

After coming to the relatives and friends, they found that the door could not be opened, and she was anxious to turn, and kept patting the door. At this time, Zhang Dongchu, who fell to the ground, moved forward again, and made his best to open the door. Relatives and friends were divided into two groups, one group left to take care of Zhao Xiuzhen, and the other group was sent to the hospital to rescue Zhang Dongchu.

The daughter -in -law also distressed Zhang Dongchu very much. He not only bought a care bed, nutrition and daily necessities for him, but also took the initiative to take care of his mother. Zhang Dongchu waved his hand and told them: "Your mother is used to me to take care of, you can take care of her."

Last year was the 50th anniversary of Zhang Dongchu and his wife. During the Spring Festival holiday, the daughter -in -law and son -in -law who worked in other places also returned to their hometown and held the "Golden Wedding Memorial Forting Banquet" for the two olds. At the banquet, Zhao Xiuzhen's eyes flashed with tears, and they said moved: "In recent years, I was paralyzed in bed, and Lao Zhang paid a lot. Take care of me. "Zhang Dongchu was full of happiness, laughing without saying a word.

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