Night Reading | How to change the state of not being unwilling to the status quo and not thinking about it?

French thinker Pierre Laru once said: "The rules of individual life are progress."

The ancient Roman philosopher Senka also said, "As long as he continues to work hard and strives unremittingly, there is nothing to conquer."

However, in life, many people are always "intermittently full of ambition, persistent mixing and waiting for death. Not willing to be at the status quo, but not forging ahead."

Many people understand the importance of progress, but whenever they want to work hard and want to change the status quo, they will be interrupted by various temptations. The aggressive road is difficult.

So how to change the state of unwillingness to the status quo and not thinking about it?

Action immediately, do it when you think of it

Everyone is eager for something, and some people just find such an excuse to stay at the stage of conceived, while others have already taken action.

When we want to do what we want to do, we are unknowingly delayed, tell ourselves "act immediately", let go of meaningless things in our hands, exercise, read, find customers, and find a job ...

The ancients said: "Instead of the envy of the fish, it is better to get back to the Internet." This is not unreasonable. Only by acting alone can you be achieved. Birds want to fly up first, and people are looking for upward reading. If you want to put it into action, you should start with the most basic steps and take the first step in action.

It is normal to make mistakes.

We heard too much chicken soup in the "walking out of the comfort zone", and many people also tried to go out of the comfort zone and change the status quo, but after trying a few times, we chose to give up without the "comfort zone".

Many people have not noticed that changing itself is easy to fail. There is a term in psychology called "status prejudice". If people want to change, they need to pay extra costs to hedge the resistance. This phenomenon that does not want to change is the prejudice of the status quo. People are originally profitable. When we want to get out of the comfort zone and need to pay costs, our brain and body will tell us to maintain the status quo, because maintaining the status quo does not require cost.

Tagore once said: "People always make mistakes, frustration, and brains, but they must not stagnate."

Go to change, then accept the recurrence of changes, and the failure may bring failure. Don't worry about getting the result. When you embark on the road of change, when the change becomes a habit, the status quo has been changed.

Feel the inner love and desire

There is a sentence in "Shawshank's Redemption" saying: "Any place you don't like and cannot be separated from, and any kind of life you don't like and can't get rid of it is prison."

We have a desire, we have a love of life, and we also have the status quo that is helpless or confused. We may all be imprisoned by the prison of life, but we have the right to change and have the right to go out of prison.

When you are unwilling to act, do n’t want to act, and do n’t want to persist, go to feel your inner love and desire, think about what kind of life and what you can become, make love and desire become a steady stream of internal driving force Essence

Mo Dao Sangyu was late, and it was full of Xia. If you want to be aggressive, you want to change, you will never succeed if you don't try it at any time.

The clearest footprints are often printed on the most muddy road. I would like to go to the sea and do not return to the mountain cloud. As long as you go firmly, you will be able to cross the clouds and haze and encounter a clear sky.

Author: Li Yuan

Photography: Xia Shushu

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