17 years ago, the college entrance examination was 763 points, and she was carrying Huang Lai, who was paralyzed with her father, to Wu Da.

"That's the most desolate Spring Festival. My father cough, constipation, diarrhea, and tossing every day. On New Year's Eve, he finally fell asleep. The house was cold and it was raining outside ..."

In 2005, Wuhan University.

A shabby apartment near Luojia Mountain.

On the happy winter night, a young girl lived in a 10 -square -meter corridor compartment, taking care of the father on the sick couch day and night.

Although she was tired of her body and mind, her eyebrows were always resolute.

One year ago, the girl was admitted to Wuhan University from Hepu University in Guangxi with the excellent score of 763 points (Guangxi College Entrance Examination Standard and 900).

Unexpectedly, this joy continued to the second Spring Festival, and his father couldn't afford hemiplegia because of sudden cerebral hemorrhage.

The school was about to start school.

So the girl secretly made a decision: with a paralyzed father to college.

One year later, the girl's deeds appeared on the "News Broadcast", were written into the People's Daily, and walked into millions of households.

She is Huang Lai.

This name has moved countless people and witnessed the storm of a cold student student.

In 1989, Huang La Nu was only 4 years old.

Mother's unbearable pressure left home, and since then, there was no news.

Soon, the county's cultural group where his father worked temporarily also dissolved.

Fatal blows followed.

This poor family is about to collapse in the wind and rain.

In helpless, my father could only work around with his young daughter.

They went to the beach to dig a conch and push the tricycles with pastries to drill through the remote mountain village ...

The father and daughter had hardly passed in one place for a long time. Where there was business, they ran.

Due to the outlook and hardship of life, Huang Lai Girls dropped out of school twice in elementary school, only to third grade.

For many people, this childhood should be gray, but Huang Lai daughter told us:

"Although I have been bitter since I was young, I never felt desolate life."

In those dull days, his father dyed his daughter's childhood with his optimism.

Huang Lai Nu can never forget. His father taught herself to read the face under kerosene lamp;

Also remember that in the bitter night, her father pulled her erhu and sewed her clothes for her.

Because my father can always make fun, as long as the father is there, Huang Lai Nu has never lost the warmth of the house.

There is a problem on Zhihu:

"Who do you think is the best? Why do you think so?"

I really like a message from Gao Zan@很 很 很:

"The real cattle are not those deeds that can be boasted casually, but the mortals who still keep smiling in the predicament."

A few years later, the father and daughter returned to their hometown.

Later, because of the excellent grades, the tuition fees for high school were free, and the college entrance examination ran through the Duling Bridge in thousands of horses and admitted to Wu Da.

"People must not have thought that the little girl who pushed the tricycle and went to the remote village to sell pastries would one day go to college, and it was such a beautiful Wuhan University."

Under the cherry tree standing in Luojia Mountain, Huang Lai's father and daughter were full of flowers in the future.

But the reins of fate, at the moment of the dawn, once again silently tied to the waist of the bitter life.

The disaster came suddenly.

At first, his father came to work in Wuhan and planned to accompany Huang Lai to celebrate the New Year.

The hospital was sent to the hospital, and was diagnosed with cerebral hemorrhage, and the hospital also issued a notice of illness.

Because the rescue was timely, his father finally survived the crisis.

He was discharged less than 6 days and was sick again.

Subsequent examinations also found that his father had diabetes, cerebral infarction and bladder cancer.

This time, his father not only paralyzed his right body, but also lost his mind and couldn't speak, and he didn't even know his daughter.

That day was the third day of the new year.

The new year has just begun, but happiness belongs to others.

His father's disease treatment cycle was very long, and the burden of life was completely pressed on Huang Lai's shoulder.

Therefore, she desperately worked part -time. At most, she did three tutors a month, and she was still working hard at school.

In order to take care of her father, Huang Lai Nu rented a small compartment near the school.

In those days, she got up at 6 am every morning, preparing breakfast, helping her father, and injection.

After class at noon, you have to rush back to make lunch to cook medicine for his father.

After settling in his father at night, he took a bus for more than an hour to Hankou as a tutor. It was usually 10:30 when he returned home.

In addition, Huang La Nu strictly controls her food costs every day within 10 yuan.

In order to make her father better recover, she also learned the basic physical finger.

Girls are small, and every treatment is exhausted.

Even in the cold winter, it will be sweaty.

Perhaps the father and daughter are connected, or maybe the world is really affectionate.

One day, Huang Lai Nu was doing physical therapy for his father, and suddenly he heard his father's throat and made a "oh oh" sound.

Then the two kinds of kind and soft eyes fell on her face.

My father woke up.

At that moment, Huang La Nu cried.

His father couldn't help crying.

Although he couldn't move, his daughter's suffering made him feel like a knife.

Later, under the careful care of Huang La Nu, his father gradually recovered. Even doctors are incredible.

The wheel of fate crossed Huang Lai's thin back, almost pushing her into the dirt of life.

However, she struggled to walk forward for a long time.

"I don't think I can give up anyway. This is what my children should do. Dad paid so much for me.

"The saddest thing in the world is that Zizi wants to raise it without waiting. I will never let this happen."

Is this a miracle?

This is just the belief of a daughter.

Huang Lai Nu once said a word:

"The most beautiful place in the world is the school. The happiest thing in the world can go to college."

In the days of taking care of his father, Huang La Nu did not delay her studies.

You can see her under the dim light of the night, open the book;

In front of the bed, she kept her father and studied.

Huang Lai's classmates have told the visiting reporters a trivial matter:

"Once, I helped her take care of her dad, and saw the circles in her English version of the professional class textbooks, and suddenly felt ashamed.

"Although there are more time than her, we rarely look at those textbooks."

I don't know how many people can bite my teeth after being beaten again and again.

But whenever Huang Lai's woman was forced to the corner of the wall, it was shown in front of the world with the Jedi counterattack.

She said: "I can't choose living conditions, but I can choose a life attitude."

While taking his father to cure the disease and seeking medical treatment, he studied hard.

Huang La Nu's academic performance is not only among the top every year, but also harvested scholarships. Before graduation, she also received a place in Baoyan and became a graduate student at the computer major of Wuhan University.

After that, we witnessed Huang Lai's wonderfulness together.

In 2006, the top ten people of the year of Chinese college students.

In 2007, national moral model.

In 2008, he passed the torch to the Olympic Games in Wuhan ...

However, I prefer to share with you two trivial matters after "becoming famous" with you.

Once, a reporter from the People's Daily went to interview Huang Lai Nu.

In the rude compartment, there are a few stickers on the wall, and a small plastic flower on the coffee table in front of the bed ...

Although a bed occupies a lot of space, the room was taken care of by the girl "although the sparrows were small, and the five internal organs were all available."

You ask her, what is happiness?

She laughed lightly:

"There are always some beautiful things in life. When the sun goes down the mountain, you can go home, instead of going to the hospital, that is happiness."

In the most difficult days, keep a touch of gentle and delicate. Such people can always live out the life.

The second one is when Huang Lai's "backfraater goes to school".

An unknown reader donated 500 yuan to her through the news media.

At that time, the college classmates donated her more than 30,000 yuan spontaneously three times, and the school had provided her with a diligent and thrive position.

After surviving the most difficult time, she basically declined the donations in society.

The 500 yuan was anonymous donation. She couldn't find the caring person, so she transferred the money to another poor student in the college.

Huang Lai Nu said that she had received so many help, and there was no way to return to the people who had helped themselves.

But when she is capable of helping others, she tries to help more people and pass love.

Sometimes the world is really bitter. If you can be grateful and illuminate each other, life will have a little sweetness.

Huang Lai Nu gives public welfare inspirational speech for poor students

In 2009, Huang La Nu graduated from Master of Information Security in Wuhan University.

Since then, she has rarely appeared in the public's vision.

It wasn't until a report from Chu Tianjin News that we knew she had worked hard in Guangzhou for many years.

At that time, Wuhan University intentionally recommended her to stay in school, but after we weighing, she chose to go to the distance.

"Stay in Wuhan, I may always be the Huang Lai girl who loves the elderly and loves relatives. In fact, there are many possibilities in life."

At the time of graduation, she deliberately revealed the poster of the "Inspirational Youth -National Advanced Devil Report on National College Students" on the wall of the dormitory.

With his father, he embarked on a new journey.

Later, she entered a Fortune 500 company, where few people knew the name "Huang Lai Nu".

"What you do, what I do. Pulling materials, adding materials, repairing equipment, although tired, but tired and happy."

Wait silently, and when he saw the newspaper again, Huang Lai Nu had already achieved production management positions in the company and stood firmly in large cities.

However, Huang Lai also regretted that her father had left her many years ago.

Fortunately, she accompanied her father from beginning to end, and her father also witnessed the day when her daughter was suffering.

To be honest, the probability of our life will not be as difficult as Huang Lai Nu, but we are indispensable to encounter such difficulties.

The story of Huang Lainer just tells us a very important truth:

There are too many things in this world that we cannot control, but because of this, we need to read books and live well.

Because this is rare in our lives, as long as we pay, there must be two things to return.

Finally, I will share with you a paragraph written by Huang Lai's "Disaster Is Not All Life":

"I often smile on my face. I don't think that after the hardships of life, I must have a vicissitudes of face and a cold attitude." Even in the most difficult days, there will be some beautiful things, some worthy of happiness What happened. When the disaster is inevitable, since the cry cannot solve the problem, why not laugh?

"I have always believed that disasters are not the whole of life. The hardest time will always pass."

Reference materials:

CCTV International: "Huang Lai Nu who takes his father to learn: I can choose the attitude of life"

People's Daily: "Hard the Road"

Guangming Daily: "Her smile is always so bright"

Guangxi News Network: "Father and reading can not give up Girls in Hepu with illness and father go to college"

Chu Tianjin News: "Huang Lai women's foreign companies work hard to stand in Guangzhou"

Huang La Nu: "Disaster is not the whole of life"

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