The son was accepted by Fudan, the mother's circle of friends was ridiculed, and the cruel truth of the adult world was torn away.

I saw a news two days ago.

A boy from Xinxiang, Henan, gave the father who was repairing the car after receiving the admission notice from Fudan University.

Through the screen, you can feel the pride of his father's heart.

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Many netizens leave a message in the comment area:

"Great, all the hardships are worth it!"

"Where to repair the car? I have to get angry too!"

Seeing this scene, I couldn't help sighing:

Also admitted to Fudan, his cousin Dilei was treated very differently.

Yesterday, Da Lei received the admission notice from Fudan University.

"Reading hard for ten years, my mother is proud of you!"

The picture was stood at the table with a notice, and smiled very brightly.

My uncle walked early, the aunt did not remarry, and a person pulled Da Lei alone, and the mother and son were not easy.

Now that Da Lei is admitted to Fudan, he finally comes hard.

Among the many messages, everyone is mostly blessed, but one of them is particularly dazzling:

"The college students ran away all over the ground. Even if I read it, I was just a job for people. I didn't care about several college students under my hand."

The aunt did not debate, but silently deleted dynamics.

The person who said this is a distant uncle.

In his early years, he started a business and made a lot of money.

Later, when he failed to start a business, he returned to his hometown to open a small shop, and he always boasted his early experience from time to time.

Before he had no energy to manage his son, he threw his son to the elderly.

As a result, my cousin was used to it, and the book was not read well.

Every time my cousin went home to see us in the New Year, he always said in the tone of the person:

"What is college student? You have spent tens of thousands of family in college for four years, and I can earn tens of thousands of people in my family in the past few years!"

I have to admit that in this world, there are always people who do not want you.

Many times, people who can't see you are often the people around them.

Can't see others good

Is a stupid evil

Mo Yan once said in a program:

"People, in this world, there will always be many unsatisfactory, and there will be many unfairness; there will be many lost and many envy.

"You envy my freedom, I envy your constraints; you envy my car, I envy your room; you envy my work, I envy you always have a break every day."

In fact, no matter who life is, each has its own difficulties and each.

Envious of others' lives is humanity.

But the jealous of others, even if they can't see others, are stupid evil.

In early July this year, a girl with a score of 601 college entrance examinations in Henan was unfortunately killed.

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The murderer is not someone else, it is the uncle of her village and the same surname.

This man is suffering from disability, no family, and poor economic conditions.

According to the family members of the victims, this person usually has no holidays with their family.

Some people say that the reason for the murder is to see the girls who have achieved good results, and they are jealous of her and her family, so they hurt the killer.

This maliciously made many netizens angry:

"18 years old and 601 points, which one is not the future?

"She got up at 5 o'clock in the morning of 3 years, and she was preparing for the Henan college entrance examination at 11 pm; she was still looking forward to which university to go to and what major to learn; she has passed more than 1 million people, but she did not escape that person! "

His life was inactive, and he would be woody; and her life was vibrant and flowers.

Just because of jealousy, the life of a girl was buried.

I have read a word:

"The greatest evil of human nature is to see that others are good.

"You will never know how malicious people who seem to be close in life will be behind you."

The most feared in life is not the bright gun from the opponent, but the dark arrow from the side of the body.

There are always some people who have red eyes, and their hearts are dark, and they can't wait to hurt others.

As everyone knows, the more you don't see others, the lower the pattern. In the end, it can only harm others.

See others good

The pattern

I have read a post online.

A netizen said that he was a particularly jealous person, especially for friends and relatives.

In the past two years, a relative asked him to borrow money, saying that there was a particularly good opportunity.

But the first reaction in his heart was particularly afraid of his relatives.

After a few days of consideration, he decided to find a reason to refuse.

Later, the relatives did that, and the family suddenly became wide.

However, netizens feel uncomfortable in their hearts. Sometimes when they meet relatives, they will deliberately derogate a few words.

There is a proverb in the West very good:

"Smart people, pray that people you know can have a good future."

A person's attitude towards others can often reflect the size of the inner pattern.

Those who love the love return, blessing and blessing.

In the recent hit drama "Happiness to Wanjia", He Happiness encountered the same thing.

He Happiness is a elder sister. In order to study for her sister He Xing, she dropped out of school in junior high school and did not get married until her sister graduated.

At the wedding, He Xing was married, and the only one who stood up to discuss her.

He Xing was just working, and he was driven out by the landlord to live without a place.

Later, He Xingxiang wanted to open the passenger and find his sister He Xing to borrow money.

Seeing this, many people in the barrage felt chilling:

"She just doesn't want her sister to live better than her."

On the road of life, no one is an island.

Those who really have a pattern will bridge others, and the road of life will become wider and wider.

Some time ago, some netizens showed a photo of Jia Ling and Zhang Xiaofei in 2014.

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At that time, they had no fame, and they were green on the stage.

Later, Jia Ling was on fire and established an entertainment company. The first signed was Zhang Xiaofei.

In the end, after Zhang Xiaofei won the movie "Hello, Li Huanying", Jia Ling also became the highest female director in China.

Walking with the tiger and wolf must be a beast; fly with Phoenix, it must be a handsome bird.

The higher the level, the more you will appreciate each other and complete each other.

To achieve others is actually to achieve yourself.

People who can't see you

Stay away early

In Zhihu, a netizen asked: "What should I do if my university works hard and is isolated by my roommate?"

She said that she had lost the college entrance examination and did not go to the ideal university, so she planned to work hard when she was in college to strive to get a graduate student in prestigious universities.

But every time she came back from the library, she could always hear a roommate saying that she "pretended":

"Dadu college, what are you pretending to be a good student?"

She didn't want to have a conflict, so she couldn't ignore it.

But for a long time, the other people in the dormitory began to isolate her.

She was very painful, but she didn't know what to do: "Am I going to change herself in order to get together?"

There is a praise from the comment area and replied:

"This circle is too late to hide, don't change it for the sake of groups.

"The more you work hard, the more anxious they are.

"They just want to pull you down and become as mediocre as them."

Excellent people strive to move forward, sometimes they are not gained flowers and applause, but malicious ridicule and slander.

Some time ago, Tong Xing Shao Yibu's mother asked for help on Weibo.

Her 14 -year -old daughter climbed to the 6th floor alone and jumped off from the balcony.

Fortunately, the rescue was timely, and her daughter's life was kept.

However, the daughter's body was injured in multiple organs and caused permanent damage such as traumatic pancreas.

It wasn't until the mother issued a post on the social platform with Shao Yibu's account that she torn out the cruel truth behind her.

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It turned out that Shao Yibu had starred in works such as "Dream Chasing Boy" and "Galaxy Tutoring Class". She had a big screen and versatile, and her achievements in the school were also among the best.

But her excellence became the original sin in the eyes of others.

Out of jealousy, some classmates took the lead in fabricating rumors to incite her in the class together.

Someone deliberately skipped her when she issued a test papers or homework;

Some artificial rumors have problems with her private life, insulting her in many unbearable words;

Some people cursed her family in front of her ...

The insults and endless exclusion in person eventually led to tragedy.

Higashino Keigo wrote in "malicious":

"Some people's hate is no reason. They are mediocre, talent, and inaction.

"So your excellence, your talent, your kindness and happiness are the original crimes."

In fact, there is no problem with excellence. Those who are not good at other people are good.

We don't have to invite everyone into our lives, and we don't have to put all their voices in our hearts.

As mentioned in the movie "A -Gump":

"Life is a process of constant removal, and slowly know what important things are and what are not important."

Some people, don't hesitate to say goodbye; some friends, don't drag water if you should give up.

People who can't see you are broken when they are broken.

Because the person who leaves the wrong person can connect the right person.

Light [watching], I hope we can stay away from those who are barren in our hearts and get more than those who can nourish ourselves.

Live up to life, live up to yourself. mutual encouragement.

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