[Gansu Jinchang] Brothers and sisters take care of the disabled brothers for nearly thirty years -Remember the second Jinchang moral model Li Baolan

Author:Jinchang Daily Time:2022.07.26

In the midsummer season, in the shade of the Golden Tieyuhe Home District of Xibao Town, Yongchang County, such a picture often appears: an old man is sitting on a wheelchair, puts on his legs with both hands, and there is a middle -aged middle -aged choice. Women.

The old man sitting in a wheelchair was Li Xiaoyu. At the age of 67, he was diagnosed with cerebral palsy since his birth. This is destined to have a different fate from ordinary people. The middle -aged woman who chosen vegetables on the side has taken care of his little girl Li Baolan for nearly 30 years.

On July 15th, the reporter came to the Jinteen Yuhe Homeland Community and mentioned his brothers and sisters. The neighbors gave a thumbs up to praise: his brothers and sisters have a very good relationship.

"Brother is the concern of our family. It is the biggest wish for our brothers and sisters to keep him." Li Baolan told reporters that she has noticed that her brother and others have been different since childhood. "He responded very slowly and loved to speak randomly." When he grew up, his mother told her that his brother was mentally disabled.

"Big brother is 17 years older than me, but I have not been sensible yet. I am always bullied outside. My parents broke my heart for this." Li Baolan recalled that in 1993, Dasao died of illness, his father was paralyzed in bed, and his mother also sprinkled people. Essence The three brothers and sisters of the Li family suddenly realized that the elder brother's diet and lived, from then on, the three brothers and sisters needed to bear it together.

Help Brother Buy, cook, wash clothes ...

It has been 29 years since taking the burden of taking care of the elder brother to the present. Six years ago, Li Baolan's second brother was often hospitalized due to physical reasons, and he wanted to take care of his elder brother.

Easy to say, persistence is difficult. In just an hour interviewed by the reporter, Li Baolan got up several times and paid attention to the big brother's every move all the time.

Hearing the elder brother dragging his chair to move, Li Baolan hurried forward, holding the chair in one hand, and pinching his brother's clothes in one hand to prevent him from slipping;

When I saw my elder brother smashing his mouth, Li Baolan immediately fell into a cup of warm honey water, and coaxed the elder brother to drink like coaxing a child;

As soon as I put down the water cup, the elder brother murmured, and before the reporter reacted, Li Baolan got up and told the reporter sorry: "He wants to go to the toilet." While saying that he helped the elder brother to move to the bathroom ...

From the morning, wipe the elder brother, dress and wash, make breakfast to wash and buy vegetables, and take a cool bend. Li Baolan insisted for decades.

"When my brothers and sisters talk about marriage, they will openly tell the other party that there is a disabled brother in the family who needs to take care of it for a long time." Li Baolan said.

Li Baolan told reporters that since the year of the elder, the second brother came to take care of the elder brother on time every day. The big man's family is not good at washing. Most of these housework is the two -year -old work, and they are also responsible for eating daily. Mi bought noodles, and people in their fifties were not ambiguous to carry their noodles; even her mother -in -law would be intimately prepared for the delicious meals and entrusted her to bring to the elder brother to "relieve" ...

Have you been in your heart for so many years? Facing the reporter's inquiry, Li Baolan lowered his head and his eyes could not help but red. A few years ago, the elder brother fell his legs because of asthma, hypertension and other complications, and could no longer walk normally. He was accompanied by wheelchairs all day, his temper became more irritable, and he could not leave people for 24 hours. At this time, Li Baolan's daughter was at the stage of sprinting in the college entrance examination, and her mother's care was missing, and she would naturally complain.

"After entering the door after school, other classmates have delicious meals, and parents pick up and drop off. You and your father are the busiest."

"Then let your aunt come to take care of the grandmother for a few days. May I cook for you before the college entrance examination?" Li Baolan tentatively asked his daughter. Whenever this time, the daughter would say, "I just sprinkle with you. How can I really take it? You go away from the big sister, he needs your care more. "

The big nephew far away from Pingliang, because he could not go home to take care of his father because of his work, he blamed himself. He saw his loved ones who took care of his father for his father. He repeatedly told his aunt to pay his salary.

Li Baolan always said to his nephew: "Your job has just started, and your little family also needs you, and go to you. Your father is our pro -brother, we will take care of it!"

Since August last year, Li Baolan's elder brother stayed 3 times before and after, each time, his brothers and sisters took turns to accompany meals and accompany the inspection. Even the attending doctor couldn't help but praise: "As soon as you see the patient's spiritual appearance, you know that your family is taking care of it."

"Whenever we hear such affirmation, we will be particularly happy." Li Baolan told reporters that she never felt hard, as long as the elder brother was happy in his later years, he had no regrets.

In 2010, Li Baolan was awarded the honorary title of Moral Model of the 2nd Jinchang City.

Reporter: Wen Xing is an intern Chen Xinyue

Edit: Yu chrysanthemum

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