Those who really have a large pattern have these three characteristics on their bodies

Author:reader Time:2022.07.28

Zeng Guofan, the minister of the late Qing Dynasty, said: "Those who seek big things, the first pattern."

Many times, the quality of one thing does not depend on it itself, but it depends on how we look at it.

Those who really have a large pattern can often be calm, turning, and stabilizing the bureau.

Calm

In this era of rushing coloring, everyone wants to see the results at the fastest speed, otherwise, people will be anxious and even choose to give up.

"Will this really succeed?"

"Is there any need to continue?"

"Forget it, let's do it later."

But as the saying goes, it is not fast to be fast, and everything is only pursuing speed, and the result may get worse.

People with high patterns can often sink their breath. Even if the situation is unfavorable, they can tolerate their breath and consider long -term goals.

In the movie "Shawshank's Redemption", the innocent and innocent Andy was sentenced to life imprisonment for the murder of his wife's death.

This means that if there is no accident, his second half of his life will spend in prison.

On the first night of "Shawshank", Andy witnessed the scene where the prisoners who came by were killed by the prison guards.

Since then, he has calmed down his mind, even if he has suffered from sudden abuse and insults, he has never changed color.

Andy's various performance made Prison Friends Ryde feel that he was a very special person.

At first, Ryde believed that young Andy would not be able to withstand the test of prison. But it turns out that he spent a day and after a day after day, and secretly planned to leave the prison.

When Ryde learned that Andy was going to dig a hole in a hammer and jailbreak, he said that it was impossible to achieve it, and it took at least 600 years with it with its tunnel.

But Andy calmly digged for more than 20 years.

Finally, on a thunderstorm night, Andy drilled into the tunnel and climbed nearly 500 meters of bad smelling into the sewer.

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There is a saying: "Life will not continue to be better, nor will it be broken all the time. This second will be sinking, and the next second will be even more confident."

Bamboo takes 4 years and 3 cm long. From the fifth year, it only takes 6 weeks to grow to 15 meters.

The same is true of people. The more people who can be able to hold their breath, the more they can see the moon after they have been practiced.

The old saying said: "Those who are irritable, have nothing to do;

Bend

The thinker Liang Qichao once said: "The change is passing, but the passage is long."

Its meaning is: a person's life will always experience the wind and rain. Only those who know how to change can stand out.

Irinbayeva, known as the "Queen of the Ringjump", has broken the world record 28 times.

In fact, what many people don't know is that she has dreamed of becoming a gymnastic champion since she was a child.

When she was 5 years old, she was sent by her mother to learn gymnastics. In the physical school, she spent a lot of time training every day, her lower waist, jumping, and turning over ...

This persistence is 10 years, and Irinbayeva has never had a slack.

But as she was older, she grew taller and taller, and her height reached 1.7 meters.

In the gymnastics team, such height does not have an advantage, but will affect her achievements in the game.

At that time, the athlete was selected at the high support rod jumping project. At a glance, the coach saw that Irinbayeva was a good seedling of the rod jump.

For her who loves gymnastics, this is a difficult choice, but she also knows that her conditions are not allowed. In order to prevent dreams from being stranded in waiting, she decided to give up gymnastics and start learning to jump.

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This change has not only made Yisinbayeva the era of her own rod jumping, but also made her a beautiful figure in the world sports.

In the face of life choices, Yisinbaya did not rush forward, but chose to turn around.

Because she understands that not all efforts are worthy of persistence. Only by choosing the right direction can work more meaningful.

Sometimes it is not an advantage not to hit the south wall. On the contrary, learning to turn is the highest wisdom in the horns.

Perhaps everyone understands such a reason, but when it comes to problems, few people can jump out of the "dead end."

After some people settled in the college entrance examination, they have been disappointed in the future;

After some people are injured in love, they can't figure out all kinds of, torture themselves, and torture their families.

After some people's career failed, there was no courage to continue, and less confidence from scratch.

But everything has two sides. People with a pattern will always try to reconcile with life and turn around to see the problem. Maybe there will be no world.

The cartoonist Zheng Xinyao said: "When the road is finished, it does not mean that it is the end of the road, but reminds us to turn."

Stable

Someone in Zhihu asked: "What signs are those people who are in a large pattern?"

One of the praise answers: stable.

Yes, life is like a chess game. Only when we are in trouble can we achieve the final victory.

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The 9800 -meter -high life and death were forced to fall, 800 kilometers per hour, and 128 people's lives were saved in just 34 minutes.

This person is not a superman, but an ordinary ordinary Chinese captain -Liu Chuanjian.

On May 14, 2018, Liu Chuanjian drove flight 3U8633 from Chongqing to Lhasa as usual.

When the plane arrives over the Qinghai -Tibet Plateau, the vertical fields can be seen through the porthole.

I thought it would be a smooth flight, but a loud noise could be "bang", and the windshield glass on the right side of the cockpit appeared cracks. For a moment, the glass was completely broken, followed by huge noise, severe hypoxia, and low temperature at minus 40 degrees.

At the critical moment, Liu Chuanjian adjusted the autonomous driving into manual with a stable psychological quality, quickly flattened the plane, and prevented the mountain crashing.

After the plane flight was stable, he worked hard to reduce the height of the flight. In the state of negative pressure and hypoxia, he still insisted on taking the plane out of the mountains for a full 20 minutes.

In the 34 minutes after the accident, he successfully took 119 passengers and 9 crew members back to the ground with superb operation technology.

In the face of the critical juncture of life and death, it is precisely because Liu Chuanjian is as stable as Taishan's heart that he has created a miracle in the history of Chinese civil aviation.

Zeng Guofan said: "Anyone must be peaceful and slowly, if you are in a hurry, you may be wrong."

There are many such situations in life:

The vehicle that is about to miss the exit changes the road in a hurry.

The boss was arranged for a business trip, and everything was pretended to be installed, but in a hurry to put the contract on the table, resulting in the termination of cooperation;

After the child has a fever, the phenomenon of obsession. The father on the side pulled the child's throat with his hand in a panic. As a result, the child stopped breathing by the child ...

It can't be stable when it happens, just like an invisible timing bomb. If it suddenly explodes, it will cause unimaginable consequences.

Real masters often seek victory steadily, which can not only ease the tense situation, but also promote the development of things in a good direction.

To be able to hold your breath, you can make us have the ability to think calmly;