Aesthetic text ｜ Marriage is the most important step in life. Author: Lin Yutang Reading: Wang Hui

Author: Lin Yutang Reading: Wang Hui

Marriage is the oldest and most primitive move.

Even in the most remote unprepared place, men and women there must still be able to camp together through the wedding ceremony.

However, today there are some people who can have been married, but do not embark on the road of marriage;

Many women would rather be unwilling to get married if they can be engaged in occupation;

There are also many men and women who have got married, but they divorce and separate;

There are also many married and married after divorce.

Why do some people unwilling to get married? Why do some people divorce after getting married? This is really worthy of our face -to -face.

For this issue, marriage experts have analyzed the following conclusions on several cases:

Experts have found that many men are unwilling to get married because they think that marriage is the loss of personal freedom, and they do not want their independence and freedom because they are bound for marriage;

Similarly, many women lived their career alone, and they were unwilling to sacrifice their independence and freedom to get married. Until when they wanted to get married, the years had left cruel marks on their faces;

At that time, the ideal object of the year had long been a husband and father, and eventually he had a low eye, and only had been recovered.

There are many men and women because the ideal of the spouse is too high, and the facts cannot find this object, so they are unwilling to get married.

Some men and women are not married because they cannot get a chance.

In addition, there are many men and women who are not married because they are in love with their first love, or they are disappointed from love, and they get unpleasant results.

This result often causes psychological response. After the first time of dating of men and women is frustrated, he may not be dealt with well in his impression or relationship with other men and women.

Sometimes, young men and women are unwilling to get married because of their family responsibilities. Perhaps his father died early, his mother was a widow, and a group of siblings made him feel that he had no power to get a spouse.

But no matter what the reason, the biggest reason is that they lack a sound attitude, making them unable to cater to the ideal of marriage.

They are responsible for marriage, fear, and unwilling to compromise.

But marriage is just like a partnership. It must be coordinated, sacrificed themselves, and seek common interests, but they cannot bear the responsibility of coming with marriage.

There are also many life that come to life, and their psychological disadvantages often cause their future spouse to escape.

There are many people, especially women, who are afraid of revealing their physical secrets and fear of getting married.

Although these people have a reason to not get married, in general, married people often live longer than unmarried people, especially when they are married and lived alone, and their life span is much shorter than the former.

According to a comprehensive report of life statistics from various countries, men and women between the ages of 30 and 45, the mortality rate of single Han is doubled;

In terms of women, the mortality rate between married people between the ages of 30 and sixty -five is one -tenth less than unmarried.

In addition, married people who have crimes, crazy and suicide are much reduced than unmarried.

After the marriage, men are often more responsible than unmarried and become more persistent and reliable.

At the same time, a person who is married is more likely to make people have a good impression.

If a man does not get married, it will make people feel unnatural.

Psychologists once said: "If a woman never gets married, it is most likely to have perverted psychology."

Married people are not as boring and lonely as they are when they are single. They can enjoy peace together, to cross the difficulties together, and produce hope and volunteers together.

For men, at least more comfortable after getting married. He can enjoy the dishes he loves at home, and some of his clothes can be sorted on behalf of them.

Marriage is a manifestation of the spirit of division of labor and cooperation. If a man wants to cook and sewn it by himself; a woman must compete like a man to survive. How trouble do you say?

The above are obvious reasons for marriage. In addition, there are many invisible benefits. For example, most men want to be a master -brain character, and marriage can satisfy their wish.

Everyone has a hope of feeling safe, such as someone cares when sick, some people are comforting when they are worried, some people take care of them when they are tired, and marriage can meet the hope of human beings.

After getting married, the couple can formulate their goals, plan and struggle, make ideals a fact, and get endless fun.

Therefore, marriage can be said to be the most important step in life. Everyone should work hard to learn how to get along with others, choose appropriate lifelong partners, live together, and don't think that marriage is a "burden" and fear.

Anything in the world is relative. If you have the right to have obligations, how can you only enjoy the rights and do not have the obligation?

When you bravely bear the responsibility of getting married, you will find out how beautiful your life is!

Maybe you want to say that it is not that I do n’t want to get married, but I do n’t get the opportunity to meet the opposite sex. For your question, marriage experts give their answers.

They said that anyone has a 100 % marriage opportunity, and some people do not get married is the relationship between them would rather live a single life.

There are several points below. Friends who are choosing a spouse should pay special attention:

1. The age of men and women, it is best to be a few years older than women, but it is advisable to be no more than ten years old.2. The education level of both sides should be equal, and the gap between men and women is too large.

3. It is best to temperament and hobby.

4. The best economic ability is almost the same. If the family situation of both sides is too disparate, it will often affect personal self -esteem after marriage.

5. If you are a man, you should have a legitimate occupation that is enough for family food and clothing.

If you are a woman, the object you choose should pay more attention to this problem. Although love is valuable, it is still necessary to build a "material". Otherwise, its danger is like a building in the desert and poured into the night.

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