The survey found that the children who "do not kiss their mother" when they grow up are usually the mother neglected these 3 points

Children's attachment to mother is often irreplaceable.

With the age of age, the intimacy between the child and the mother on the surface is getting smaller and smaller. The child does not seem to need a mother, but in fact, the needs of the mother have never stopped.

It is just to prove that they have grown up or growing up, the children will consciously push away their mother, but the difference and real strength they pretend to be pretending to be very obvious.

Today, children and moms have not been kissed have become the norm

In a parent -child show, the host asked Huang Shengyi's son Andy: What is the happiest memory between you and your parents? Andy thought for a long time and watched the host shook his head. This move makes it difficult for Andy to be affectionate. The host does not know how to follow it for a while. Even Huang Shengyi saw tears.

Is this problem so difficult? For a child, happy should be the most often emotional performance in life! For example, I feel happy with my mother, and I feel happy to swim with my dad ...

But just after Andy thinking about thinking in the brain so hard, he still couldn't find the answer to satisfy himself, which shows that Huang Shengyi has little care about him. Is this the normal state of young couples with baby today? Or is it involuntary as a star?

No matter what the reason is, it is obviously a kind of resignation. Even if you are busy at work, it is not difficult to take out time to accompany your child! In the final analysis, there are problems with the subjective consciousness of parents, and forcing their children to stay away from themselves.

The survey found that the child who "does not kiss his mother" when he grows up is usually the mother neglected these 3 points

Before the age of 6, my mother did not often accompany the child

Before the age of 6, in addition to the child about the father about his father about his father, most of the time, most of the time still longed for his mother to accompany him. This inexplicable sense of pragmatic is from the stage of breastfeeding after birth. It is accustomed to the body temperature of the mother and the smell of the mother.

In addition, the mother's tone and tone are very gentle. Even if the expression is very serious, the child feels that the mother cares and loves her. A mother is by her own side, that is, their strong backing.

Perhaps it is like that children's song sang. The child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother looks like a grass. Compared to mothers who provide themselves with a high -quality living environment regardless of themselves, children are more eager to keep their mothers be with her at all times. When she needs it, the mother can meet her various needs.

Before the age of 12, the mother did not give the child the encouragement to the child

After entering elementary school, many mothers will force their children to label the children. Whether they can mature enough to complete the goal of his mother for him, but this is not important. Where?

Such behaviors are obviously excessive and inappropriate. The conversion of the mother's attitude will only make them feel more insecure. I am afraid that my mother will be more disappointed and sad, without more energy to summarize and think.

In adolescence, my mother does not have more tolerance and understanding

When entering the adolescence, children often can't control themselves. After encountering a problem, the hormones in the body have soared sharply, and negative emotions and inappropriate behaviors are also manifested. On the body.

At this time, the mother's attitude is also very important to the development of the child. If the mother can give the child a little more patience and understanding, knowing that they are not a bad child, they will not speak those words that make people unacceptable.

If the mother's attitude is more milder, the child will definitely reflect and reconcile after venting his emotions, and the sense of guilt will be born. When the next time he encounters the same situation, the child's behavior will have the behavior Convergence.

Conversely, mothers always have to go back. Even if they don't think so, in order to vent their emotions, they will only push the child further and farther, rather than the so -called collapse therapy.

Summary today:

How do you have a relationship with your son? How did you get along with him? Welcome to share your thoughts with us!

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