The 38 -year -old doctor of women need 800,000 in the late stage of cancer. Husbands begged for divorce: You let me go

"You let me have a way!"

In August 2020, in a hotel in Zhengzhou, a man knelt on the ground in front of the house and begged his wife to divorce.

The man is named Zhang Hai and graduated from a well -known university in Shanghai. He is currently an associate professor at a university in Nanchang.

His wife, Yang Nan, was his classmate when he was a doctor, and at this moment he looked at his husband with resentment.

A doctoral couple was originally an enviable fairy family member. At this moment, why should I tear their faces under the public?

All of this stems from an accident.

In 2012, when she was a PhD in Shanghai, Yang Nan, who was shy, met Zhang Hai, the senior who was two sessions.

Zhang Hai is from Anyang, Henan. He is 2 years older than Yang Nan. He is gentle and elegant and easy -going. Similar family backgrounds, study experience, and the same planning for the future make them feel like to meet each other.

Soon, they walked into the marriage from the campus and became a double doctoral couple that made their family proud and envied relatives and friends.

Yang Nan's personality is very good, simple and intimate, Zhang Hai after marriage is also very gentle, housework is robbed, and his life is warm and never hesitated to Yang Nan.

In 2013, Zhang Hai went to work in Japan, and Yang Nan continued to study for a PhD.

The separation between the two places does not affect the feelings of the couple. Every weekend, they have a video of a day. Sometimes Yang Nan is doing experiments, and Zhang Hai can also guide one or two at the other end.

With her husband's support, Yang Nan also achieved good results in his studies, and also received the second scholarship of the school.

During the period, Yang Nan would also fly to Japan to reunite, or Zhang Hai returned to China to surprise her. The two returned to Henan to see their parents and travel all over the country.

For future life, they are full of expectations, and they have even considered which city to live after graduation and give birth to a few children.

Unexpectedly, unfortunately suddenly came.

In the summer of 2015, Yang Nan was about to graduate with a PhD. When she was doing scientific research at school, she suddenly felt uncomfortable and dizzy. She thought it was heavy graduation tasks and caused a lot of pressure, so she didn't care too much.

After the completion of the scientific research, Yang Nan returned to Luoyang's hometown for recuperation, and the symptoms have not improved significantly.

After returning to Shanghai, Yang Nan went to Huashan Hospital. The doctor's paper diagnosis letter, such as the thunderbolt, fell on Yang Nan's head.

"Hepatitis caused by the disorders of autoimmune function", what these words mean, Yang Nan, who is a doctorate, is very clear that if there is a problem with the immune system, the medicine is inseparable for life.

If it is not treated quickly, liver cirrhosis will become hepatic ascites, and even worsen into liver cancer.

Yang Nan couldn't believe that her beautiful life had just begun, and she was going to face such bad luck. When she thought of these, she felt painless.

After learning that Yang Nan was sick and hospitalized, Zhang Hai immediately bought a ticket to return to China and appeared in front of his wife.

At that time, Yang Nan was lying on the bed for treatment, and Zhang Hai accompanied her for 24 hours on the lounge chair next to her.

Zhang Hai has only one wish, that is to cure his wife's illness. To this end, he asked for medical treatment.

In October 2015, he took Yang Nan to Beijing 302 Hospital. After Yang Nan's condition was stable, Zhang Hai found a job in Chongqing, and Yang Nan returned to his mother's family to raise illness.

Yang Nan had no financial source. In order to treat her, Zhang and Yang's old man took out for many years of savings, and looked for friends and relatives to borrow money.

But her illness was like a bottomless hole, and the money kept throwing it in, but she had no effect. Although Yang Nan has been actively treating, her condition has deteriorated, and blood stool and ascites have begun to occur. Most of the day can only be lying on the bed, which makes the two families who are not wealthy worse.

In this situation, the Zhang family's parents began to shake, and they did not want their son to consume Yang Nan in this life.

At the beginning, Zhang Hai would also give Yang Nan to Yang Nan every three differences, but from March 2018, Zhang Hai broke the economic support to Yang Nan.

As a result, the burden of seeing the doctor's doctor fell on the Yang family.

Yang Nan's parents did not have any complaints. In order to make more medical expenses for the girl, the 70 -year -old old couple went out to enter the vegetables at 5:30 every day, and then dragged the trembling body to set up a stall. Fifty pieces.

However, this income was just a matter of salary for Yang Nan's illness. Yang Nan had to cancel the retransmit once every two months and stopped some medicines. Only the minimum dose was retained, only to prevent the condition from worsening rapidly.

Later, Zhang Hai settled down in a university in Nanchang. Yang Nan thought that her husband was stable. She could go to Nanchang. When she was better, she could do housework and reduce the burden of Zhang Hai.

But Zhang Hai refused to tell Yang Nan's residence on the grounds of renting a house. Every time Yang Nan went to Nanchang, Zhang Hai arranged for her to live in the hotel.

In July 2019, Yang Nan came to Nanchang again. During a quarrel, Zhang Hai even held Yang Nan's neck.

The consequence of the quarrel was that Yang Nan's condition worsened. He stayed at the Second Affiliated Hospital of Nanchang University for more than a month and spent more than 20,000 yuan.

After that, quarrels and evil words between the two became the norm. Zhang Hai's mouth was "you go to death" and "waste", and even the heart was about to divorce.

And Yang Nan hugged her husband's life -saving straw tightly, and begged her husband to give her hope, she wanted to live.

But her husband's begging for her was indifferent.

Yang Nan was sad for herself. She used to be as good as her husband, but now she is like an abandoned kitten puppy. Due to her psychological suffering for a long time, Yang Nan's liver disease gradually increased, and she became yellow and thin.

Moreover, she may be bleeding due to emotional excitement at any time, and her coagulation function is not good. Once she encounters a sudden condition, she may not be able to rescue.

The doctor told Yang Nan that if her illness wants to cure it, only the liver transplantation is only 800,000, which does not include the later costs.

Although 800,000 in their home is an astronomical number, Yang Nan still saw hope because she wanted to live.

She feels that her husband is now a university professor and has a stable income and can bear the cost.

Yang Nan kept sending WeChat to Zhang Hai and told him his physical condition, but Zhang Hai asked her to be realistic every time, don't do too much.

"Knowing that this disease is a bottomless hole, why should you drag two families into the abyss that is not repeated?"

Yang Nan, who was rejected by Zhang Hai several times, still sent information with Zhang Hai every day, but each time they were unhappy, and finally Zhang Haili darkened Yang Nan.

In July 2020, after WeChat was black and could not be contacted by Zhang Hai, Yang Nan asked Jiangxi Radio and Television to find help.

With the help of the media in the two provinces, Yang Nan and his father came from Luoyang to Nanchang. In front of the reporter, he called Zhang Hai's mobile phone again, but the other party's phone was either in the service area or no one answered.

Helpless, Yang Nan and his party had to come to the school where Zhang Hai worked. After the help of the hospital leader, the reporter finally contacted Zhang Hai.

After learning about the reporter's intention, Zhang Hai said that Yang Nan's illness, the more he spent money, the more the ordinary people looked down on.

He also said that he had nothing to take care of his parents at the age of 40, and he had to work off his debts while working in the summer vacation.

In the end, he said that if the reporter is convenient, Yang Nan is willing, he can meet his time to meet his hometown in Anyang.

Although full of exhaustion, Yang Nan rushed to Anyang as appointments, but Zhang Hai did not wait at home as agreed, and only his parents and sisters at home.

Seeing Yang Nan, Zhang Hai's sister and father were very excited. When they mentioned Zhang Hai's marriage, Zhang's father began to pour water.

He said that he was about to enjoy the blessing of the child, but Yang Nan's illness was hollowed out of the bottom of their family.

Facing the complaints of the elderly, Yang Nan did not refute in a word. She knew that, as Zhang's father said, only the things between her and Zhang Hai could solve them by themselves.

Under the persuasion of Sister Zhang Hai, Zhang Hai agreed to meet again and met in Zhengzhou.

On August 1, 2020, Yang Nan finally met Zhang Hai.

Instead of being late, he did not answer the reporter's question first, but made a surprising move that made everyone very unexpected.

He held Yang Nan and faced his husband's sudden care, Yang Nan was a little confused and resistant.

Everyone thought this incident had a good ending.

Where to know, after hugging, Zhang Hai said, "We have no feelings long ago, so it is not good for anyone to drag, do you want me?"

Looking at the familiar and unfamiliar husband in front of her eyes, Yang Nan couldn't figure it out. She shook her head and said, "We used to fall in love with each other so much. I didn't want to drag you so much.

Listening to Yang Nan's saying, Zhang Hai couldn't help but wet his eyes. After he proposed to divorce, Yang Nan went to live in his hometown in Anyang. He would take care of her with his life guarantee.

Both Yang Nan and Yang's father refused to this plan.

Now they have not divorced, Zhang Hai ignored her, and even had a personal attack on her, and Zhang Hai's mother was also sick. At that time, anyone could not take care of anyone.

Hearing this, Zhang Hai interrupted Yang Nan's words. He said that since the certificate was received, he had given Yang Nan a total of 200,000.

However, Yang Nan said that only 46,000 were used to treat the disease, and the others were the living expenses of the two. In the meantime, she had to let go of her self -esteem, looking for Zhang Hai for money to buy medicine again and again, and was hit again and again.

Zhang Hai has no objection to Yang Nan. He admits that since March 2018, he has the idea of ​​divorce.

Because Yang Nan became sensitive and suspicious after being sick, he only remembered his husband when he asked for money. For the rest of the time, he did what he did.

Especially when they returned to their hometown for the New Year, Yang Nan was on the first day of the New Year. Because of his trivial matters and mother -in -law, he was unhappy, which made the Zhang family feel somewhat.

The meaning of Zhang Hai's words is Yang Nan's wayward impulse, which makes his divorce thoughts more and more firm.

It was also from that day that Zhang Hai disappeared from Yang Nan's life.

The reason why Yang Nan must find Zhang Hai, in addition to saying something clearly, she has another reason that her parents are actually her adoptive parents.

In order to treat her, the mother with endometrial cancer stopped treatment and saved her money for her. Her father wanted to do everything to raise money for her.

Knowing that she was a child, Yang Nan was shocked to almost collapse. For this kind of kind old man, she was inseparable from her, and her husband Zhang Hai, who didn't know where she was.

Yang Nan decided to find Zhang Hai and return to her legitimate rights and interests.

With the help of psychological experts, Yang Nanping returned to his mood. Since each other has become a grudge, it doesn't make any sense.

Yang Nan told Zhang Hai that she was willing to divorce him into all of him, hoping that he could find a healthy girl to get married and have children, but because she had no financial source, the 520,000 people spent these years were raised by her parents, and her credit card was 12 Wan, she hopes that Zhang Hai can help her solve this problem. Zhang Hai believes that he can only bear at most 300,000, and is willing to take out 2,000 yuan a month before divorce to ensure Yang Nan's basic treatment.

In order to show sincerity, he transferred 500 yuan to Yang Nan on the spot.

However, Zhang Hai regretted the next day. He said that yesterday was an impulse. After his monthly income deducts the rent, the elderly, and the money repayment, only 1,000 yuan was left.

He even came to the community of Yang Nan's house in Luoyang and held a brand and said that he took his wife home. Everyone asked Yang Nan's house where he lived, saying that Yang Nan's parents would not let her go back.

Seeing Zhang Hai so shameless, in order to force Yang Nan to divorce and perform this out, Yang Nan couldn't bear it. With the help of the Luoyang Women's Federation, she decided to go to the legal channel.

The rush of the two provinces and three places has made Yang Nan thinner. Because of Zhang Hai's back, Yang Nan felt that she could not face all her parents for her. She chose to abandon and abandon her, not eating or drinking, and planned to give up herself.

Now two years have passed, Yang Nan still has not performed liver change operation; she and Zhang Hai finally got married. The court decided that Zhang Hai paid Yang Nan's drug fee of 2,000 yuan per month, until 300,000 was clear.

Yang Nan's story tells us that no matter how good the love is, we will eventually go back to Chaimi oil and salt. This has nothing to do with your status. In the face of disease, life is often vulnerable.

Just like Zhang Hai and Yang Nan, even if they read doctors, they will still choose to escape in front of unfortunately.

Some people say why Zhang Hai couldn't help but treat his wife, and it should not be difficult to borrow 800,000 for a doctor. This can be ascended even if there is no good result.

It is also said that Yang Nan's illness has been dragged down the two families. Zhang Hai took a timely and stopped loss. Between his parents and the seriously ill wife, it was right to choose filial piety to his parents.

Others say that Yang Nan is too selfish and has the IQ of a PhD, but there is no emotional intelligence of a doctor. Although he can't find a job, many things can be done at home, and he will not let her husband look down on her.

However, after all, we are just outsiders. We do n’t know that others are suffering.

Is Zhang Hai wrong?

When others reach middle age, there are multiple pressures from career, economy, and parents. Humanity has made him the most favorable choice for himself.

Is Yang Nan wrong?

She was unfortunate enough. She just wanted to survive, so she tightly hugged her husband's life -saving straw.

It is said that the husband and wife were the same forest birds, and the difficulties flew each other.

The stories of Zhang Hai and Yang Nan make people sigh and make people feel weak.

I hope that in this world, there can be less complaints and more tenderness.

Author: kite. Source: Chai Chai Academy (ID: kanchaishuyuan) reading and writing is a kind of power, not limited to expressing yourself, but also not only to make money to support his family.

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