The best lifestyle of adults: Sanqi Law

Writer Ono Yoko said in "Imagine you are a flying seed":

"Life is concentration and balance.

If you lose your balance and lose your balance, you will fall.

If you lose your focus, you will wither.

Check where your focus is: balance or focus. "

Many people are looking for the highest point of life throughout their lives.

As everyone knows, people who are really smart are looking for the balance of life.

The best life is not open and unconnected, without swaying, often three or seven points, in order to stabilize and far.

Enjoy a three -point loneliness

Accept the seven -point group

Writer Ceramic Rabbit tells the story of a friend in the book.

There is a girl who has a very good relationship with the people around.

She hosted the party, and the most dressed friend came to help her make up;

She prepared for the exam, and the roommates took turns to help her open the water;

She is doing an event exhibition board, and the best -looking classmates will accompany her to stay until midnight ...

Someone asked her how to get along with her friends. The girl said that there was nothing special, just to get a scholarship to celebrate with everyone.

When they watched the show, they talked about it. When they studied makeup, they praised the sentence. Before the exam, I would print notes for everyone. Usually, they should be hacked. They should show weakness.

she says:

"In this life, you need to do too much moment of your own. It's good to be a small thing to be someone else."

In your life, there are always the sound of "doing yourself" around you and me, but if you are alive, no one can live as an island. It is not new and unreasonable. It is a ability to integrate into the group at any time.

Zhou Guoping said:

"There must be a suitable proportion or rhythm between loneliness and groups."

Being a person, seven points to do so, can not let others feel uncomfortable, three points lonely, so that you can make yourself boring.

My friend Du Li has a good personality, and always gets along with her.

She usually likes to watch movies with her friends, and occasionally dinner with her colleagues. Every weekend, she always likes to leave time to herself.

When she was alone, she liked cooking and enjoys the fragrance of lips and teeth brought by food;

Sometimes listening to songs and flowers, enjoying a moment of joy in the quietness;

Or read the book, leave the incense and tea fragrance in the room.

Talk to herself and enjoy it alone. Even if she is alone, she will live a lively and rich life.

Writer Made said:

"Only in the soul of a person can only see the clarity and brightness of themselves."

On the outside world, noisy is noisy, and the heart is peaceful, and it is even more practicing.

Life is alive, there is no need to always be incompatible, seven -point social, moderate in groups, will make each other more comfortable;

Three -point loneliness and enjoying alone will make the soul richer.

Three points of people

Seven points of sober life

When colleague Zhao Mingang moved to rent near the unit, he was tortured by the noise of the neighbor upstairs every night.

After 10 o'clock every night, there are always piano sounds from upstairs, or the child's crying sound.

Zhao Min came to communicate, but did not expect the other party to ignore it at all. The couple opened the door and shouted:

"Suspecting you to buy a villa! I can't hold it, who can accommodate you!"

Zhao Min was so angry that he had made a few complaints and the other party was still indifferent. Zhao Min again went to the door to say that he would fight.

For this kind of unreasonable person, Zhao Min knew that even if she went to theory, she could only ask for hard work, so she bought an earplug and went to bed early every night.

Later, as soon as the rented house expired, Zhao Min found a new residence and moved immediately.

I have heard a "law of garbage trucks":

"Some people are entangled with negative emotions, just like walking garbage trucks, urgently need to find a place to dump.

If you give them a chance, all the garbage will fall on you. "

Some people are like a quagmire. You just make sense to him, but he just wants to vent your emotions.

Don't be entangled, regardless of people, seemingly confused, but in fact, they are sober and away from disturbances. They are the most transparent wisdom of adults.

I have heard such a small story.

A lion took a little lion to walk in the forest. When he met a crazy dog ​​on the way, the lion hurried away.

The little lion is very puzzled, ask the male lion's father:

"Why dare to fight with tigers with cheetahs, but avoid a crazy dog?"

The lion replied:

"It is not glorious to defeat a crazy dog, letting the crazy dog ​​bite a bite and it is very obscure."

Do not fight against the crazy dog. It is the wisdom of the lion and the philosophy of life.

Zhou Guoping said:

"There must be an incompetent wisdom in life."

On the road of life, there will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things and ingenious people. If they are more real everywhere, life will be lacking.

Leave a confused and accept the unsatisfactory life in life;

Sober things are less disputes and more tolerance.

Being confused and sober in life can live lighter and more comfortable.

Know how three points follow

Learn to fight for seven points

I have heard such a small story.

The fox wanted to eat grapes, but the legs were short enough, so I had to wipe off the saliva flowing from my mouth. I said to the surroundings: "The grapes are sour and can not be eaten."

Many animals listen to the words of the fox, even if the deliciousness is in front of it, they still turn around and leave.

Later, the little monkey came over, and it quickly climbed to the tree and tasted the sweetness of the grapes.

Life is alive, cowardly people always look forward to taking care of it, and it is difficult to walk;

The brave people opened the road and encountered water.

Three minutes are doomed, seven points depend on fighting, and compared to the inaction of both hands and one hand, do your best to gain surprise. Colleago Eri once talked about her experience.

She was a statistician from the employee, and later transferred to a financial cashier to achieve the company's personnel manager all the way.

She worked hard, and soon stabilized the heel in the personnel department. Three years later, her work was well received by leaders and colleagues.

At this moment, the company's headquarters has a vacancy of a personnel manager's position and is selected in each branch.

The colleagues around her persuaded her to fight. After all, it was the position of the headquarters, and she was very excited.

She comes in the morning and night every day, while doing her job, she diligently learn professional knowledge in order to add another stroke in her personal resume.

Half a year later, the selection of interviews of the head office came out, and she did not choose.

The colleagues regretted her, but she said it was okay because she had at least more experience in professional skills.

Everything in the world is the norm in life.

After doing your best, you can only forgive yourself and forgive yourself.

Cao Xueqin wrote in "Dream of Red Mansions":

"Half of the man, half listening to destiny."

If you want to gain it, you must be actively aggressive; if you can't ask, you will accept it frankly.

Seven points to win, fulfill the ambition;

Three points follow, let yourself go.

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Writer Da Bing said in "You Bad":

"Life experience can be created by itself, and lifestyle can be selected by yourself."

Choosing different lifestyles will have different life models.

In life, you have to experience the pain of pain again and again to break the waves.

In the second half of life, it is not only luck and IQ, but also thinking, cognition and pattern.

Proper group, occasionally lonely, and the soul is abundant;

Sober in the world, be confused, and have a clearer life;

Learn to fight for, know how to follow, and life is more comfortable.

In this life, the biggest success is to live a lifetime in the way you like, and the best way is just three or seven points.

May you see all the joy, and you are all looking forward to it.

Source: Ziqiao Desk (ID: jxylsy3377)

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