From WeChat red envelope, see if a man loves you

Some people say that men love you, just look at WeChat red envelopes.

Some people think that it is not important for money and no money, just good for me.

Indeed, everyone has their own criticism standard for love.

But it is undeniable that in the emotion, the least taboo is talking about money.

The red envelope is only the appearance, and the feeling revealed in it is the focus.

You know, people will only be at ease when facing things they like, so if a person loves you, you can know one or two from the WeChat red envelope.

WeChat red envelope determines your position in his heart

There is a saying that those who are willing to spend money do not necessarily love you, but if you refuse to spend money for you, you will not love you.

It makes sense.

When men treat love, they are not so twisted, and they will show their minds. They just don't like it.

Zhihu has a blogger who has shared his own blind date.

The friend introduced himself a young man, 1.8 meters big, with a clear eyebrow, the first impression is quite good.

After careful talk, the girl knew that the boy was working in a foreign company and was still a small leader in the company.

The two got along for a while, and they were interested in each other to determine the relationship of love.

A few months later, when the Qixi Festival, her boyfriend was discussed, and the girl took the initiative to send a 99 yuan red envelope that implied the "long time".

The boyfriend also led the gods, and sent 3 "5.20" red envelopes, and also attached a sentence: "You understand."

The friend asked the girl, what surprise the Valentine's Day boyfriend had prepared, the girl just smiled embarrassingly.

When she thought about the date of these days, the other party was invited once and asked once.

When she saw something suitable for boys, she would place an order directly, and the other party asked her if she wanted to surprise her.

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And this Valentine's Day, she never thought that there would be hundreds of thousands of red envelopes, but when she saw 5.2 yuan, her heart was still cold.

The girl is not short of money, nor is she admiring vanity. She just suddenly understands:

An adult man who has a decent and economic ability, only willing to send 5.2 yuan red envelope in the festival, is really not very concerned about her.

For women, sending red envelopes is actually a man's attitude. Through the WeChat red envelope, you can see your weight in the other half.

Zhang Ailing once said:

"Spending his money is happy in his heart. Women are not money for men, women use the money of men to express their love."

The WeChat red envelope does not represent a bunch of cold numbers, but a man's attitude towards you.

People who are willing to send you a red envelope are not because of a lot of money, not because of people stupid, but at that moment, he thinks you are more important than money.

If a man is about to send WeChat red envelopes, how generous can he expect him to treat you in the future?

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The man who really loves you, will not give you a red envelope

There was a screen post on the Internet:

Are you willing to marry a man with 100 for you, or have 1,000 men spending 100 for you?

One of the answers is said:

"There is no right or wrong to choose, but the former, it is difficult for you to meet again in the future."

Think carefully, it is true.

The degree of a man loves you has nothing to do with his attitude of spending money for you.

If he doesn't like you so much, every penny spent on you will feel a pity.

And the man who is really good to you will not think you want too much, you will be afraid that you will not give enough.

There was a very hot video on Douyin.

The man returned home, took out the fruits that his wife loved to eat from his arms, and then gave a stack of money to his wife with a smile.

This man is not a rich and noble person, and he doesn't make much money, but he will work hard for his lover and do his best to give his lover a better life.

As someone said, "If a person likes you, please wait until he takes care of you again."

In this world of love, there are all kinds of poses, some people simply use the "red envelope" to speak, and some people are expressed in action.

Although it is not possible to judge the other party's mind by WeChat red envelopes alone, it really reflects a person's mind.

The man who really loves you is not just talking about moving love, and you can not be able to suffer in the "money" aspect.

Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yongyi participated in a variety show together. In the show, Zhang Zhilin was asked by the show team: "If only 24 hours are left in your life, what will you say to Yuan Yongyi?"

Zhang Zhilin said affectionately to the camera: "Yuan Yongyi, if one day I really left, is your money enough? You say enough, then I will be at ease."

It may not be the only way to express love, but it is indeed the most direct way.

Don't feel that talking about money in love is too vulgar, remember San Mao said:

"Love, if it is not implemented in a real life such as dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it is not easy to last forever."

People who send you a red envelope may not love you, but the man who really loves you will not give you a red envelope.

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The love of adults is to transfer and marry you

On Weibo, there was an article that "secretly buying a mortgage when talking about marriage and marriage" caused heated discussions.

The woman has been in love with her boyfriend for 3 years. The two are preparing to get married to buy a house together, and the two parties have been agreed to each other. The room book writes the name of the two.

Unexpectedly, her boyfriend bought a house secretly with her loan. The down payment was made by the man's family, and the house was registered under her boyfriend's personal name. The girl felt that she was deceived and ran to ask the boy, but the answer was: it is more convenient to go through the formalities.

The boyfriend's parents also pretended to be kind, saying that the woman was not kind to buy a house, and she could not get her to suffer.

The two sides have been deadlocked for a long time, and the wedding is postponed.

What is even more surprising is that since then, large and small holidays and anniversary, her boyfriend not only spends a lot of money to buy a house, there is no need to rectify those red envelopes of the brain, but also want girls to bear all the decoration and home appliance costs.

Girls were relieved and lifted their marriage contract.

In the emotional world of adults, it seems that the advantages and disadvantages are always weighing.

They will say a lot of love to love you, but don't do something that loves you.

The man who truly loves you will give you no reservation, and will never let you make a completeness in money.

Money may not be a prerequisite for starting a relationship, but it must be the basis for going.

No matter how enthusiastic love, after all, I want to go back to these small things such as Chai Mi oil and salt. The sweet words are not full, and the mountain alliance is too embarrassing.

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I feel that when you talk about money, you can only show that you don't love enough.

For women, I can afford some things by myself, but what you give it, the meaning is different after all.

What I bought for myself was independent and satisfied, and what you bought for me was petting and happiness.

The WeChat red envelope seems to be a small thing that is inadvertent, but behind it is his thoughts about you.

Good love is real, with bland, and pay attention to material dedication.

Pay attention to the "reader", may you get full red envelopes and sincerity. The loved ones are spoiled in the palm of your hand and can be happy every day.

Author: Uncle, Source: One Monday Book (ID: YER808).

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