Comments 丨 The community launching a daughter -in -law to wash her feet for her mother -in -law. Can she improve my mother -in -law?

How to effectively alleviate and improve the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law is the test of "symptoms".

On August 7, a community of Xintai District, Xingtai, Hebei launched a "good daughter -in -law" scene to wash their feet for her mother -in -law, which caused heated discussions. Many netizens expressed questioning, "Where's the son?" "When did the son -in -law wash your father -in -law?" A staff member of the community explained to the media that the event was to promote the relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law. In terms of difficulty, we also engage in this activity to enhance the family teaching, the new style of the trees, and the promotion of family harmony. "

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Evaluation of an activity, we might as well try to answer a few questions: Is the starting point of the organizer be good? Is the activity content consistent with the target of the activity? Is the experience of the participants happy? Is the evaluation of the onlookers positive? Is social feedback positive?

The starting point of the organizer is to promote the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law. Of course, this starting point cannot be wrong, and the relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law is also an important part of family relationships. However, the problem is that the content of the activity is not related to the event goal, at least it is also the fate of the wood. What is the tense relationship in the countryside? The reasons are complicated and diverse. Some are multi -child families. The elders may not be able to flatten a bowl of water, which has a contradiction between mother -in -law and 妯娌; some are young couples to work together and have to keep their children staying. The conflict of people; some are different daughter -in -law and mother -in -law's living habits, and they are accumulated in bumps; others are unable to reconcile the concepts of the two generations, or the elders or the dark or dark men, or they still hold the "male protagonist foreign heroine. The "internal training is equal to the gender advocated by young people, and there are quite a lot of gaps ... These are only common problems, and the differences in individual getting along are even more enumerated.

In this reality background, how to effectively alleviate the relationship between mother -in -law and mother -in -law is testing the effort of "symptoms". Then, the daughter -in -law washing her mother -in -law could neither solve the problem of implementation, nor could it be met. Even this activity is not only useless, but also disconnect with the culture of the times. I do n’t know when it started, “washing their feet” became the manifestation of “filial piety culture”. In life, people often see that someone organizes children to open their feet to their parents and let the children learn to be grateful. Let's not say that parent -child relationship should be love and respect, not grace and reward. Even if we recognize our feet to express their filial piety, it should be that my son -in -law was washing his feet to his mother -in -law together.

This activity was disgusted by many netizens in public opinion. One of the most recognition of the activity was "to wash it is to wash it." Other netizens pointed out: "To put it bluntly, it is still a pillar of housework as a housework, and the young one must wait for the old." Although it is a bit sharp, there is a certain basis for facts.

Community organizations organize cultural activities, or active communities or entertainment. The organizers must first enhance cultural accomplishment and cultural connotation, laughing and generous activities, and not to be good.

Edit Wang Yitao

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