Wang Xiaofei: "Three Keys" opens a new life

Luwang, August 10 (Reporter Xie Wenming) At the "Family and Masterpiece" organized by the Senior People's Court of Shandong Province on August 4th, at the Excellent Family Judge's Experience Exchange Conference of the Provincial Court of Family Courts, the Qianxian People's Court's rapid layout, and Judge Wang Xiaofei, the head of the mediation center of the family dispute, wrote a wonderful speech at the meeting with the title of "The People's Court of the People's Court to solve the family dispute".

(Wang Xiaofei reports a report video screenshot at a meeting of the High Court of Shandong Province)

A total of 7 judges in the province made typical speeches at this meeting. Wang Xiaofei was the only one in Rizhao City.

Judge Wang Xiaofei's speech, surrounding "rational" to serve people, moisturizing the problem silently; moving with "emotion", showing a tender message to show care; with "harmony" as expensive, the pre -complaining mediation promotes home and other aspects, and the experience of promoting home and other aspects has introduced experience It was well received by the participants.

In the past two years, the Minxian People's Court's family disputes before the mediation center to mediate the pre -complaint of family disputes, especially divorce cases, and created a comprehensive service platform that integrates power propaganda, legal consultation, psychological counseling, and family mediation. The "one -stop" resolution of family disputes has been achieved. At present, 781 cases of family disputes are resolved, and 359 divorced couples choose "good gathering and scattered" after mediation. Social effect.

The word "reason"

Jurisprudence, jurisprudence, judges are inseparable from the word "reason". Although in the business marriage of daily marriage and family, the word "love" is emphasized, but the disputes between the marriage and family are inseparable from the word "reason". "A moment of confusion. Through the judges, they wake up these dreams in these dreams. This requires Wang Xiaofei to seize the psychological timing of the parties, tell the law, truth, and ethics, and completely solve the "heart knot" of the parties.

(Wang Xiaofei and team members on -site mediation)

The men who divorced the case together, because of their children's support and property division, emotional excitement. I once wrote such a ruthless saying "listening to the teacher's explanation in the morning and touched a lot of soft places in my heart, but I still insisted on me. The bottom line can no longer get a little bit, unless her family is dead! "In order to protect the legitimate rights and interests of the parties related to the cases and prevent malignant incidents, Wang Xiaofei and the two psychological counselors of the family mediation center together were patient. Carefully listen to the emotional course of the man, listen to his review with his wife for 20 years with his wife, and work hard to start a business. In communication, Wang Xiaofei seized the time to set up his body to make sense, analysis, and ethics to him, and the mediation was twice or twice. He finally gave up the extreme ideas of the fish dead net. The husband and wife's common property presented his adult son, and a contradictory and sharp divorce case was successfully concluded.

Since the operation of the family dispute mediation center, they have conducted a total of 12 psychological counseling of 12 parties with extreme tendencies to help them get out of their emotional dilemma and misunderstandings, calming their resentment and anger in their hearts. It's a matter of people. His experience and practices "Display the" One -stop "resolution of Family Disputes" was reported by the People's Court Newspaper, and 28 foreign brothers courts came to study for inspection.

Crack "love" sticky

"What is a husband and wife? Love each other for a lifetime, quarrel for a lifetime, and care for a lifetime, this is the husband and wife ..." This is a message from Wang Xiaofei's death of young pigs who breed. After getting a verdict that was not allowed to divorce after getting the verdict, the 50 -year -old couple took her a message, and after reading silent, thanking, she left. Since then, Wang Xiaofei has never received their complaint again. No message should be the best news.

As a post -80s female judge who has been engaged in civil trial for nearly ten years, a mother of two children, Wang Xiaofei deeply realized that he should work with the deep feelings of the parties to the case. Sometimes he cares about To say a word, do a little more work, you can save a family and one person. To this end, she pays great attention to talking with the parties to the case: "love" with love and affection to discover the nature of their human nature with love and affection, bridge the emotional cracks of these harmful people, re -enables the old dream, and paint a layer of warmth to the legal provisions of Lengbing. Colors make them feel the tenderness of justice.

Freshman "He" words

For the case -handling judge, the case is only the first step, so that the reconciliation of the family cases in the case of family cases is the result of the people's judges. To this end, Wang Xiaofei will run through the mediation of the word "He", seize nodes such as the front of the complaint, the middle of the law, and the door -to -door adjustment. Words.

(Wang Xiaofei and team members come to the door to mediate)

Before the Mid -Autumn Festival in 2020, a divorce dispute was transferred to Wang Xiaofei to mediate before the complaint. Through early communication, she learned that the root cause of the contradiction between the two sides was that the wife thought that her mother -in -law had too much interference in the life of the young couple. Seize this breakthrough. Wang Xiaofei came to his mother -in -law's house to mediate with the two mediators. Regarding the complaints of daughter -in -law, this mother -in -law is also full of grievances: "I care about the small couple's eating and drinking Lazar, and in the end, I didn't come to a good person ..." Two young children also tears on the side, watching helplessly, watching helplessly. Wang Xiaofei them, which asked Wang Xiaofei, who had only had a child after work for a few days, had a sour nose. Before the comfort, the tears were about to fall. At that time, she thought: must let their mother go home as soon as possible. While Wang Xiaofei recognized the contribution of the mother -in -law to take care of the young couple's family, and remembered it, they grasped the opportunity to criticize the time and criticized. After more than four hours of exchanges and drizzle, the mother -in -law finally realized that she was mixed with the young couple. There are too many things, affecting the independent life of the young couple. When the child becomes a family, he should let the child run to run his own marriage and family. Then they quickly communicated with the woman while they were hot. A few days later, the man called and said happily, "Thank you, my daughter -in -law finally returned!" In the Mid -Autumn Festival, a small family and four, one of the fourth generations of the fourth century, spent the moon.

Starting from "reasoning", the "love" has been brought to fit, the pursuit of "harmony" results, and the new life of the parties. After more than two years of exploration, Wang Xiaofei and her team have explored the "three keys" created by the building, which effectively opened the shortcut of family mediation and achieved joyful results.

Although as a judge, Wang Xiaofei's career is a trial case, her biggest wish is "no lawsuit in the world." Therefore, in every marriage and family case, she always hopes that her mouth is dry to mediate to solve the heavy knot of the two sides; her affection can be exchanged for the awakening of their lives on both sides, and the mirror is reunited.

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