Always talk about love, you may also have the characteristics of scum men and scum women

"Human disqualification"

Author | Lin Liqing

Grade -Cool Brain Creative

Artist | Old carving worm

Edit | Taozi

"Scum" is not to say that you like to play with feelings, but to refer to self -centered self -centered and selfishness in interpersonal communication; in intimate relationships, it is difficult to operate long -term relationships and lack of love.

01 how the scum man is practiced

It is said that talented loves, there is a famous scumbag in the Japanese literary world. He has a well -known mantra: I am sorry for being born.

He is Dazaizhi.

The biographical film "Earth Earth" shows his decadent and scum man's life.

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The classic scene at the beginning was the story of his love with others -the other party died, but he survived. After a while, he continued to fall in love with others.

In his short life, there are few emotional empty windows, and most of them are the chaos history of many boats.

Some people say that he is like an emotional parasite. With a period of deformity love, he has a steady stream of creative inspiration.

His book "Slip in the Sun" is said to be based on Ota Yako's diary.

Who is Toto Yoko? She was the book of Dazaiji. After the spring night, she was coaxed by her words to make her diary. After Dazai Zhi took the diary, she disappeared into her life.

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What is this use?

Not only that, he also opened a house with others without guilt during pregnancy, and his name was love.

He was always able to fall in love with a strange woman quickly, and quickly got tired, turned his face away, and couldn't even say goodbye.

Drink and make fun every day, do not care about the lives of his wife and children, and make flowers everywhere.

You can't see the light of love on his face, and you will only doubt that he doesn't love and doesn't love yourself, just use love as a tool.

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But it is difficult for you to completely hate him, because his decadent and dark life background has been destined to face up to his emotional outlook from an emotional alienant family background, not to mention how to run a healthy and long -term intimate relationship.

Love is not only an antidote for his frustrated life, but also his poison.

Sometimes, the scum of the scumbag comes from the lack of a certain piece in his heart. He tried to constantly ask for love in the way of himself, but ignored the other party's feelings, and the last two defeats were hurt.

02 Do you also have residue traits?

No one wants to be a "scum man/scum girl" in other populations, but we may bring some scum traits.

The "slag" here is not to say that you like to play with feelings, but to refer to self -centered self -centered and selfishness in interpersonal communication; in intimate relationships, it is difficult to operate long -term relationships and lack of love.

"Scum" is not all subjective malicious choices, as well as the impact of innate personality traits and nervous system composition.

Via: Lucid EVE

For example, the temporal junction area participates in many important cognitive processes, such as understanding his emotions, identification and handling of other people's emotions, and moral judgment and decision -making. It is particularly close to Li's decision -making.

If the gray quality part of your brain area is small, it is more inclined to make selfish behavior, put your own interests first, and show your selfishness in love, and it is not good at understanding. The emotions and psychology of others can not experience the needs and emotions of their partners, and naturally it is difficult to make appropriate emotional feedback.

For example, Dazaizhi is not responsible in love, but in other relationships in life, it may not be reliable.

He did not deliberately be an indifferent person. The introverted and self -closed side of the innate character made him habitually isolated others outside his world.

Only by understanding your relevant personality traits and understanding whether you have potentially to become a "scum man/scum girl", can you have direction to improve the relationship and make you not be labeled with "slag".

Recommend "Evaluation of Standard Content", it will help you interpret your overall slag from the two dimensions of "personality slag content" and "intimate relationship", and carefully dismantle under these two dimensions To solve the specific influence factors, analyze your source of slag, and give suggestions to help you effectively go to "slag".

Via: Lucid EVE

It can give you:

1. Interpret you

"Personality slag content" and "intimate relationship containing slag"

2. Analyze the specific manifestation of your slag characteristics,

Possible problems

3. From the perspective of neuroscience and psychology, behind the "scum" characteristics

Psychological motivation and brain nerve operation principle

4. Understand how to go "scum",

Establish a healthy interpersonal relationship and intimacy

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-The measures of the crowd-

1. Suspecting people who love incompetence

2. It is difficult to have a stable love relationship

3. People who have been labeled "scum men" or "scum girls"

4. Curious people who are dark in their hearts

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