The coercion of her daughter to get married is really a mutation of marriage for marriage

■ Wang Changlian

The news of a "daughter was married by her mother by her mother to marry a blind date" in the High Court of Jiangsu Province attracted attention. Under the stress of his mother's words, Zhou and Fu Mou registered to get married, but there was no feelings between the two, and there was never a husband and wife life. Zhou was sued to the court and asked to revoke his marriage relationship with Fu Mou. The court tried that Zhou now requested that the marriage between him and Fu Mou complied with the law, and then decided to revoke the marriage relationship between the plaintiff Zhou and the defendant Fumou. (August 10 "Southern Metropolis Daily")

In today's society, marriage is prohibited, but the phenomenon of families in disguise for young men and women has not been eliminated. Obviously, the daughter's marriage with her mother with death and blind date is a mutation of arranging marriage. It should be said that parents are not malicious to care and even plan their children's marriage. The problem is that parents violate their children's wishes and adopt various methods such as intervention and even coercion to interfere with their freedom of love and marriage choices, which is an over -participation.

In particular, the daughter's marriage with the mother by her mother is a illegal act. Article 1046 of the Civil Code stipulates that "marriage should be completely voluntary, and it is forbidden for any party to force any party or prohibit any organization or individual interference." This clause shows that when the two parties decide whether to get married, the marriage party is forbidden to force the marriage party to force another other One party also prohibits other organizations, family members and anyone other than the marriage between the marriage parties interfere with whether the marriage parties conclude the marriage. Because of this, the court revoked this marriage relationship concluded by the mother.

It is undeniable that parents' over -intervention and even arranging marriage have caused harm to their children's physical and mental and affection. Marriage and love were originally a very personal problem, but parents' over -intervention and even the marriage of children have many risks. For example, the personality and habits of the marriage between the marriage will cause potential risks to the future marriage life. Lare.

Poor parents in the world. Every parent wants their children to find the other half with superior conditions in all aspects, and hope that their marriage is happy and happy. However, marriage is a matter of life. The personal wishes and choices of children should be placed first. Parents should respect their children's freedom of marriage and love. Do not guide them from the side. Measures to interfere with the choice of children. With the rationality of affection and dealing with the child's marriage, it does not affect the performance of "parents' love".

What kind of marriage to choose should be taken to the helm by themselves. Children are excessively intervened and arranged, and many sequelae will also cause family disputes and tragedies. Relevant departments, especially the Women's Federation, and judicial organs. For the behavior of this disadvantage of children's marriage, this kind of family soft violence should also conduct necessary intervention and punishment.

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