The 17 "Mom Rider" was on fire!They are running all the way to life, so beautiful!

Author: Siqi

Source: Marriage and Family Magazine

ID: hunyinyujiating99

With such a group of female riders, they are wives, mothers, and herself.

They have been on the road, chasing their dreams, guarding their families, and creating their own beautiful life.

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Zhijin County is one of the national poverty -stricken counties, but in recent years, it is not the same as before. It has withdrawn from poverty -stricken counties in 2020. The local employment opportunities have increased greatly. Many women for their wives and mothers have also joined the team of takeaway army.

Like the takeaway brothers, these women rider shuttled around the streets of Weijin County every day, and they were a beautiful landscape.

They are half of their families, riders, mothers, and themselves.

Each of their stories is a tireless book.

Do examples for children, self -reliance and self -reliance

Weajin County is located west of the central part of Guizhou Province. There are nearly 180 takeaway riders in the small counties, 17 of which are mothers. Xu Xiaocui, born in 1991, is one of them.

Xu Xiaocui has been a takeaway rider for almost 3 years. It is difficult to imagine that a beautiful post -90s girl is willing to be a takeaway rider and can persist for so long. In the wind, I do n’t say it. I only wear work clothes all year round, and even makeup is avoided. This is what Xu Xiaocui could n’t think of it before.

Once, Xu Xiaocui worked in a fast food restaurant in Weijin County, and later went to work at the fruit shop in front of the house. Here, she met several riders who often came to the restaurant to pick up meals. After learning that the time of riding a rider can accompany the child, Xu Xiaocui decides to challenge himself. Her husband did not agree, worried that she could not eat this suffering. But she was so hard that her husband had to let her try it.

At that time, in the peak season of August, Xu Xiaocui went out at 7 o'clock in the morning and returned at 7 o'clock in the evening. He climbed the stairs every day and climbed his legs. After returning home, he shouted his leg pain. Sometimes he didn't even want to eat dinner. What is even more disturbing is that Xu Xiaocui wrestled more than once when riding a bike, not only fell to his own nose and swollen, but also lost meals. How can I go on this way? Her husband was so anxious to let her choose one two: either take good care of the child, or change to work relaxed. Xu Xiaocui has to choose the third item: Continue to be a take -out rider.

Xu Xiaocui has her own ideas. If she does not go to work and is idle all day, wouldn't she make a lazy model for the two children? The point is that the rider can eat and take advantage of the time, and the time is very free.

"We only take 8 hours of work every day to go to work, and we can pick up children. When we do not explode, the scheduling and webmaster generally will not care about us."

Considering that the female rider is not just a rider, but also a mother. The Meituan takeaway gold delivery station stipulates that they have 4 hours of rest time every day, and the order time can be adjusted in conjunction with their own conditions. What happened to the female rider? As long as you call, within 5 minutes, the nearby rider will be sent to support.

In the end, her husband couldn't help Xu Xiaocui, but could only support it. "In fact, until now, my husband was reluctant to be a rider. He was worried that I would not run safely on the road every day, and I was afraid that I was too tired." Xu Xiaocui said happily. She and her husband are very loving, which is also her courage and reason to marry.

Xu Xiaocui met her husband in a shoe factory in Fujian. He was divorced and had a 5 -year -old son. Xu Xiaocu's mother said nothing. "I was stunned by love, and I recognized him. Nine -headed cows couldn't pull back, hahaha!" When saying this, Xu Xiaocu's free and persistence overflowed with words. Fortunately, Xu Xiaocui married love. After marriage, her husband loved her, and the steps also fond of her mother and son with her.

Xu Xiaocui also loves her husband and family in her own way. "He is decorated with exterior wall coatings. He hangs on the outer wall like a spider man at work. It is dangerous and tired. In order to let my husband eat ready -made, I rush home to cook after get off work, and then take care of the child to eat for dinner. Cons the children to do homework. "

In order not to let her husband worry about himself, Xu Xiaocui rarely shouted and talked in front of him. Sometimes, if she encounters more uncomfortable things, she runs less and spend more time at home. Anyway, the child needs to accompany it.

"My house is in the center of the county seat. When there is no order, I basically be at home. Sometimes I am not busy at about 10 am, and cut the dishes and cut the rice cooker to cook rice. Come back to cook and eat with your child. The same at night, tutor the child to write homework after eating, will not let the child sleep after 9 o'clock. "In Xu Xiaocui, children are far more important than making money. On the child.

Interestingly, when I had a meal, the first -year son talked to her unhappyly: "Mom, classmates said that you are a leg running, sending people to others, why do you call you?"

Xu Xiaolu's heart is not a taste, but when you think about it, this is a good opportunity to convey the correct outlook on life and values ​​to his son, and said with a smile: "Son, the riding is also a good job! You see, the mother does not steal it without stealing it. Two do not grab, make money with all your hands, and not shame at all! "The son nodded like understanding the place.

Since then, Xu Xiaocui will find the opportunity to talk to his son from time to time, so that he can see that each job has its irreplaceable value, regardless of expensiveness. When a classmate dislikes Xu Xiaocui's job, the son was polite back like a little adult: "What happened to my mother to be a riding? Teaching too! Xu Xiaocui laughed and gave his son several likes. Escort for home, laugh the most brave to the mother who lives

The post -80s Guojin also attaches great importance to the education of children. Before taking a takeaway rider, she took care of her children in her rural hometown and her lover repaired a large truck in Shanghai. In 2018, the couple bought a commercial house in the county's loan, and more than 2,600 yuan a month, and the family burden was heavier.

"Several children are reading. It was okay to have a mortgage in the countryside in the countryside. Now I and the children and I have to spend seven or eight,000 yuan a month, but the children’s learning environment is very good." From the perspective of Guo Jinxiang, It is worthwhile to provide children with better learning conditions.

Because the sister -in -law was a takeaway rider, after Guo Jinxiang decided to find a job, he was introduced by Xunzi to work at the Meituan takeaway station of Weijin County. At the beginning, I did n’t know how to play smartphones. I do n’t use the order app. I am not familiar with the route and merchants. Although she has the help and encouragement of my sister -in -law and colleagues, she still often feels powerless.

"The most tiring thing is that when the order is exploded, sometimes it is too late to jump out of seven or eight orders at once. Sometimes because of a single order, the rest have to be postponed, and some people complain and bad reviews." Guo Jinxiang. I often feel sad, and I don't even want to do it anymore.

Fortunately, the lover who worked in Shanghai was considerate, and took the initiative to take the responsibility of educating the children. Every day, she video and called with the children to guide the children to learn. The lover advised her not to do it. Guo Jinxiang insisted on reducing the burden on his lover with his own efforts. He also persuaded him: "It's good to be a rider. I can earn about 4,000 yuan a month to subsidize the family."

The new partner Shi Huiqin came for a month, and soon realized the hard work and difficulty of this job. In recent years, Shi Huiqin's lover, herself, and father -in -law have been sick. The family owes more than 100,000 yuan in debt. The two children go to junior high school and primary school respectively. Economic pressure can be imagined. Because of this, the takeaway rider has become a good choice for Shi Huiqin.

"Everyone said that it is inevitable to have grievances and tiredness to be a rider. I am not afraid of these. In fact, this job is very good. It has given us a way out of these mothers who are inconvenient. I can earn money to subsidize the home. "This is the words of Shi Huiqin. She couldn't bear to spend money when she went to the vegetable market to buy food before. Now, if she has income every day, she can buy more children what children want to eat.

Life gradually improved, Shi Huiqin was more motivated, and he loved it even more. "Difficulties are temporary. As long as you continue to work hard, the life of my family will get better and better." Shi Huiqin's face was sunny.

Like Shi Huiqin, the female rider Zhao Ping loves to hear the tips in the mobile phone: "Ding Dong, you have a takeaway sending list, please send it as soon as possible." Zhao Ping said frankly that he cherishes the current work because of this Work made her live more calmly.

Eight years ago, Zhao Ping divorced his husband and worked hard to get his daughter's custody. After the divorce, she should take care of her daughter to her mother, go to Guiyang alone, from the ground to making snacks. In 2018, her daughter was going to elementary school. Zhao Ping resolutely gave up Guiyang's good job opportunities and returned to her hometown. She finally decided to be a takeaway rider in order to take care of her daughter's life and school.

As soon as I just ran a rainy day, Zhao Ping accidentally fell because of the slippery road. If she couldn't care about the legs of the injured, she checked the takeaway for the first time, and found that the meal was sprinkled. She could only pay for the full money.

What made her unexpected was that although she had not mentioned this in front of her daughter, she would call her daughter to remind her to ride a bit slowly every time she was not good. Zhao Ping was moved and sad. She couldn't bear her daughter for worrying for herself. Later, she paid special attention to safety when delivering meals, and set up for customers. She received praise from customers and made zero -bad reviews.

Today, by running the list day after day, Zhao Ping and her daughter have no worries about their food and clothing. She also formed a new family with a male takeaway rider, happy life, and work happily.

Pursuing dreams, love is different

Different from the sisters who work for a living, Shao Yun is full of love for the job of takeaway riders. For many years after marriage, Shao Yun has never been at work. After sending children to buy food and go home every day, it is 3 o'clock every year. The life is too tight, and people are almost depressed.

In November 2021, considering that a pair of children in elementary school was very well -behaved, the school provided post -class service, and she made a takeaway rider under the introduction of an acquaintance.

At first, Shao Yun also felt that the running list was a bit difficult, but it didn't take long for she to adapt. In order to accompany the child more, Shao Yun divided the two breaks every month into 4 half -day breaks. Take the children to play and eat delicious food everywhere. The children are happy. I can earn 4,000 to 6,000 yuan a month, and I have money at any time. I used to be afraid that the children would eat snacks and did not dare to take them to the street. Now, the children eat from the street from the street. "

Shao Yun really fell in love with this errand. "This job can take care of the family and children, and can also contact different people. The colleagues are like brothers and sisters, and the whole person is more fulfilling." Not only do you like it. After one month of takeaway riders, Shao Yun also persuaded the taxi ’s lover to be a rider. The lover was tempted, but thought of the relevant regulations of the taxi company, I had to give up the idea. The introduction of her lover was unsuccessful, and Shao Yun introduced several friends to join in. She happily said that in the future, she has to be a takeaway rider until she can't move, which really explains the meaning of love.

Shao Yun said that colleagues like this job very much, and 29 -year -old Huangsha is one of them.

There are 3 children in Huangsha. They choose to be a rider to take care of the children. Everyone around her knows that Huang Shasha can do better work. She has worked in Shanghai for many years. After returning to her hometown, she will sell building materials. When I see the world, I can say it.

In fact, her body is not suitable for this job. She had suffered a car accident in 2009. She is still troubled by the sequelae of the car accident. When she feels tired or encounters the weather changes, she will be affected by enteritis, stomach problems, migraine headaches. Torture. Therefore, when she was preparing to be a takeaway rider, her husband resolutely disagreed, but Huangsha still stubbornly stubborn into this circle. Seeing that the protest was invalid, she chose to develop in the neighboring county so that she would go home as soon as possible to take care of her and the children when she was uncomfortable.

Like most colleagues, after entering the industry, Huang Shasha was rejected by customers more than once, encountered bad reviews, and paid meals.

Once, she came to the door, knocked on the door without responding, and did not answer the phone. In desperation, she could only go to the station. Who knows, when the site passed, she also ordered "delivery", and the customer contacted her again, asking her to deliver secondary delivery, which affected the distribution of other orders and caused the delivery timeout. Afterwards, Huangsha was very depressed, and he couldn't be happy when he returned home. Over time, Huangsha understands that life is his own, and it is not worthwhile to affect his work and mood for these small things.

In fact, after being familiar with work, Huangsha is very happy. As long as time is too late, she will make a light makeup and welcome the work of a new day. "My mouth is sweeter. Most of them are very happy to communicate with customers. They are also as good as friends. Everyone is like friends." Now, she has already handled her work.

In the end, Huang Shasha also found a lot of movements around him. Sometimes when the customer places an order, he leaves a message: "Don't worry, slowly get a little bit." Sometimes the client will send her umbrella to her. One morning last winter, the weather was particularly cold. The first order of Huangsha was given a young lady. When leaving, the younger sister handed her a chocolate: "Sister, the weather is cold, take care of herself." Huang Shasha's heart was warmed, and the mood of that day was beautiful.

Two years ago, Huangsha's loan bought a car, and then she had a longer -term plan: "My husband's hometown is in the suburbs of the county and will be demolished in the future. At that time The restaurant, breakfast shop is also good. Hey, I like to eat. "Everyone has a dream. Huang Shasha believes that in the future, he will enjoy work and life better.

In Weijin County, in addition to these mothers riders, other female riders are also full of positive energy. In the two years, Chen Jinmei, who returned 200,000 yuan in foreign debt at home, struggled with the desire to realize the desire of two children to "travel to Beijing" ... They provided the best service to the unclear customers, and supported their families. Also work hard to meet yourself.

While paying and growing, the takeaway female riders also expect their labor rights and interests to be better guaranteed, longing for more understanding and caring, hoping to have the sense of gain and security they want to have a sense of gain and security at the same time as wind and rain. And happiness, so as to work happily and live happily.

After all, their bravery is admirable and respectful, and it is also worth seeing.

Source: Marriage and Family Magazine. The leaders of the happy life of Chinese families, focusing on women's growth and marriage happiness, and exploring how to better love themselves and family. Produced "Marriage and Family" magazine. (WeChat/Weibo/Today Headline: Marriage and Family Magazine)

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