The highest goodness is to treat the pillows

Author: insight · Su Mo

The last passbook of life is a wife.

Harvard University has a famous "Grant Research".

The experiment lasted 76 years, followed the life of 268 people, and finally found:

The most critical factor in happy life is not wealth, not fame, but partners.

A person's attitude towards his partner determines his quality of life.

As Oswald said, "Being a pillow is the essence of a happy life."

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The person who ignores the pillow is the greatest stupidity of a person. I have seen such a story:

After his death, he was beaten into hell. He was very puzzled and appealed:

I tried my best to help others during my lifetime, why not be sentenced to heaven?

The judge did not speak and waved his hand.

I saw that he looked at the unit in the unit, but at home, he was dazzling, the child was crying, the water opened, and the rice was boiling.

After running before and. After running, I was like an uncle at home.

In front of outsiders, gentle and elegant, but to her lover, even if they are a little unpleasant ...

This is the true portrayal of how many people in reality.

Always give the best side to outsiders, but leave the worst side to the lover.

As everyone knows, the people who ignore the pillows are actually buried in the second half of their life.

"When you are lying on the bed, it is not someone else, but your lover," this sentence has never been talked about whether you are lying on the bed.

Some time ago, there was a faint man from Fuxin Federal Mining Hospital in Liaoning. He had a big bleeding of his brain and stem. The condition was very critical and lived in the ICU.

The doctor inserted a tube to the man, got on the ventilator, and only waited for the family to sign it.

After my wife came, I thought about it for a few minutes, and as a result, the two words were "pulled".

Everyone was stunned.

Later, I learned that the man had been derailed for more than ten years, and spent all the money he made over the years on the small three, leaving his wife and children regardless of care.

It really should be the old saying: plant melon and melon, grow beans, what causes you will have a result.

Su Yan said: "Love is an unable to renewable resources. Once disappeared, it is difficult to come back. Don't look at so many people in and out of your life. It will be good to you in your life, and there are few."

Parents will grow old, children will have their own home, only love talents are your last reliance.

The most important thing in life is your lover, the last passbook of life, and a wife.

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Waiting for the pillow is to treat yourself well. As the saying goes: people's hearts change their hearts, and half a catty changes in eight two; true feelings change true feelings, you are really more true.

People are relative, and their feelings are mutual.

If you treat people at the pillow, he is often what he looks like in the future.

The world knows the love of Qian Zhongshu and Yang Yan. In fact, the love of a pair of wall people is equally amazing.

That is Lin Yutang and his wife Liao Cuifeng.

At that time, everyone had abandoned Lin Yutang from being poor. Only Liao Cuifeng would never give up and really treat him and believe in him.

Lin Yutang, deeply moved, torn off the marriage certificate on the spot while getting married, and vowed: This certificate can only be used when you get married.

The meaning of words will not be divorced in this life.

In order to support Lin Yutang to study abroad, Liao Cuifeng sold all his dowry without thinking and funded her husband.

Think of this, Lin Yutang's life is dedicated, even if he became famous later, he was still loyal to his wife. He often said to his wife: Feng, rest assured, I only have you in my heart.

In those poor days studying abroad, Liao Cuifeng, a young lady who had not been stained with Yangshui, started working to make money for life.

Lin Yutang looked in his eyes and hurt in his heart. He always tried his best to help, take care of his wife's mood, and never quarreled with him.

Thus, left the classic perception:

"How to be a good husband? When your wife likes it, you follow her. When the wife is angry, you should not be angry with her."

In this way, the two supported each other with each other and walked together for half a century.

Yang Lan said:

"Marriage requires another bond other than love. The most tough one is not a child, nor the benefits and money, but the spirit of liver and gallbladder."

This righteousness is the kindness of the heart than the heart.

If you treat me naked, I will love it.

In "Classic Yong Zhuan", the feelings of the famous movie star Luo Jiaying and Wang Mingquan are more emotional than Jin Jian.

When Wang Mingquan was suffering from breast cancer, Luo Jiaying raised all the jobs on his hands, as well as a good future to take care of her.

Later, Luo Jiaying unfortunately suffered from liver cancer, and Wang Mingquan also resolutely put down everything to accompany him to cross the difficulty.

Love is a circle, and will eventually return to myself.

Treating the other half of you is to be kind to the second half of your life.

As Luo Jiaying said:

If you have half of your life, I also have half of my life. The two of us have a life, dependence on each other, and get old.

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The highest goodness is to treat people on the pillow. Liao Yimei said, "In this life, when he meets love, he is not rare when he meets.

When love walks into the marriage, the passion is bland, and the rest is the trivial and collision of chai oil and salt.

Therefore, in a marriage, the most rare thing is to be able to think in other places, see each other's hard work and dedication, and know how to treat and cherish it.

The love of the famous host Wang Han and his wife Yang Lele is talked about.

Knowing that his wife is not easy to get pregnant, no matter how busy with work, he never misss every check -up, and after running in the hospital. During production, he was nervous than anyone else, and he worriedly covered his face outside the delivery room.

After the child was born, he was even more considerate of his wife's difficulty. He took the initiative to bear the work that he could wash clothes, change diapers, feed powder, soothe sleep, etc., just to let his wife take more rest for a while.

In an interview, the host praised Yang Lele's blessing.

Wang Han laughed and said, "When you find a man who loves a woman infinitely, this woman must do more."

Xu Zhimo said, understanding, is the most tender language.

The happiest look of a marriage is that you can set up a place between your lover and understand and tolerate each other from the perspective of each other.

Because she knows the hardships of a woman's filial piety and care for housework, she is willing to tolerate her small temper;

Because it is not easy to know how to work hard in front, he can understand his occasional bad emotions.

For the pillow, the person is the deepest kindness.

The best dowry of a woman is a thoughtful and warm heart;

The best gift for a man is the love and love of a lifetime.

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Hayao Miyazaki said:

"When you meet each other in the vast sea of ​​people, no one will be smooth. Only a heart that is willing to pay for gratitude can you have a lifetime of love and happiness."

Compare your heart to the heart, and the heart.

Like a praise, treat the people of his pillow, and work together with the other half to warm up.

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