For those who are away from negative energy, life is smooth

Emotions are contagious.

Author: LEYLA

On one occasion, Cai Lan chatted with friends.

Friends asked Cai Lan: "You have always followed people. Whether you have garbage or market hawkers, you can talk a few words. Do you have someone you don't like?"

Cai Lan said, "Yes. People who don't like negative. The long -sighing person who sighs and does not actively improves life. In contact with such people, energy can be easily absorbed."

Indeed, a person full of negative energy is like a black hole that will absorb the good emotions of everyone around.

Be far away from the negative energy.

Staying with them for a long time, your life will become a mess.

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It is a consumption with people with negative energy

Psychologically, there was a well -known "emotional infection experiment", which was studied by Professor Gali Smel, a professor at the University of Los Angeles.

He asked a smile with a smile on the same room as a frowning person, and observed the emotional changes of the two.

As a result, less than half an hour, the person with a smile became frowning.

Smel subsequently made a series of verification.

Experiments have proved that human bad emotions will be transmitted to others unknowingly, with a maximum of less than 20 minutes.

In other words, when a person with negative energy appears around you, you receive negative information.

So even if you are positive and upward, you will continue to be consumed.

Blog@博 博 博 has told such a story.

When she first graduated, she was very advanced, but it was always difficult for a colleague to persist.

When she wants to lose weight, her colleague will say, "Forget it, fat is not so low."

When she wants to take a professional certificate, the colleagues will say, "These exams are inside, don't waste time."

When she wants to make the details of her work perfect, her colleague will persuade her to say, "No matter how good you do it, the boss will not pay you a dime."

So in the persuasion and not optimistic, Shu Di's enthusiasm was extinguished.

The various exams that have been arranged have stalled, and they have become as frustrated as colleagues every day. They feel that the future is slim and hopeless in life.

Writer Li Shanglong said:

As long as there are more than a friend with more than one negative energy, you stay together every day, and your life is basically deserted.

Those who exude negative energy often deliberately or unintentionally transmit pessimistic and negative emotions to the people around them.

After getting along for a long time, you will unconsciously contaminate his bad mood.

Over time, it will distort your views on the outside world and erode your confidence in life little by little.

In the end, he will become full of breath and depression.

Everything in this world is costly. Those who are full of negative energy will be intertwined, and what will eventually drag it will only be their own life.

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Stay away from negative energy, life is smooth

In the "Strange Conference", Mr. Xu from the media, Mr. Xu, once complained that he was injured by the Internet spray.

Cai Kangyong asked her why she didn't hack the other party.

She said she didn't want to be black.

Cai Kangyong replied, "If you can pull black but not black, you agree to hurt you."

Similarly, when you meet a negative energy, you and him will only make the other party even more unscrupulous.

While indulging others, it is actually self -aggrieved.

Stay away from time to time, life can be stable and comfortable.

A while ago, I tried to delete a friend.

During that time, the company's business was large and the pressure was too large. I often needed to go to sleep until three in the morning.

But one time, just after I was ready to sleep, my friend sent a long string of WeChat to complain about the bitter water of life.

Either complaining that customers are too difficult and difficult to communicate; or they complain about the leadership, as if they are forcing him to leave in disguise.

At the beginning, I think this is a trustworthy manifestation.

So I always actively help the other party to make suggestions, standing from the perspective of the other party, thinking about whether it can help solve the problem.

But for a few days, he came to me to say the same question and talked about the same bitter water.

And no matter how I cheer up, it is still sighing and complaining.

His pessimistic mood has seriously affected me, and even as soon as he heard him complaining, I would become anxious.

His decadent frustration not only made me struggling, but also invisibly put a more pressure on life.

So after thinking about it, I had to invite him to my circle of friends.

Interestingly, I originally thought I would be sad because I lost a friend.

But I did not expect that I had a sense of relief, and my life became much easier.

There is a saying in "Broken Leave":

If a person always stimulates your anxiety and you can't change, maybe leave, it is the best choice.

Sometimes the reason why we suffer is because of the deep obsession and entanglement for too long in people who are not worth it.

However, everyone's energy is limited, and the affordability is limited.

As a friend, we can occasionally solve problems for each other and relieve our hearts, but we cannot always be the "trash can" of each other's emotions.

When the negative energy of others has seriously affected our lives, and turning away is the best solution.

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Walking with people with positive energy can be counted in this life

David Hawkins, a well -known American psychology professor, said:

The impact of energy on us is incredible. When a person's heart is full of negative energy, it is not only herself that hurts, but also makes the surrounding magnetic field disorder and bad. When a person with positive energy appears, his magnetic field will lead everything to become orderly and beautiful. People with positive energy can always find the cuteness of life and infect the people around them with positive attitude.

Getting along with such people, it seems that bathing in a warm sun makes people feel comfortable.

Writer Lin Qingxuan was a rebellious young man when he was in high school.

He was deeply tired of the school's homework, and often went to the city to watch movies and visit the bookstore.

Therefore, the subjects are often hung at the end of the expiration.

For his grades, the family was anxious, and Lin Qingxuan became more and more inferior.

When he was determined to drop out of school, a new lecturer was transferred in the class, named Wang Yucang.

Teacher Wang is open -minded and optimistic, and a rosy cheeks often smile.

Soon after school, Teacher Wang shouted Lin Qingxuan to make dumplings at home, and then enthusiastically praised him:

"I have read your article in the newspaper, and I wrote it well."

After eating dumplings, Mr. Wang held Lin Qingxuan's shoulder and said:

"What do you have, you can come to the teacher to talk at any time, Lin Qingxuan, don't you want to abandon yourself!"

Teacher Wang's affirmation made Lin Qingxuan's encouragement and let his life reappear hope.

In the following days, Lin Qingxuan was angry and rushed to study and writing.

Not only has the results leaping, but more and more works are also recognized by the magazine agency and published and distributed.

Many years later, Lin Qingxuan has become a well -known writer. He wrote in the article:

"The dream of becoming a writer is the floating wood in high school life in the sea, which makes me not be over.

Teacher Wang was the person sitting on the floating wood with me, and helped me adjust the direction of the floating wood. "

San Mao said: "People are alive, not how beautiful and spectacular the scenery, but who I met and who was warmed, and then I hope that one day, I can become a small sun to warm others."

Life is only 30,000 days, and you can enjoy the real beauty with people of positive energy.

Because they will inspire your love for life in a subtle way, and drive you away from the haze in a warm voice.

Over time, your world will be full of sunlight and fragrance.

For the rest of your life, people who are close to positive energy, you will also become sunny and cheerful, and live every ordinary life.

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Feng Lun wrote in the book "The direction is right, so I'm not afraid of Lu Yuan":

A positive portrait of the sun, where to shine, the negative portrait moon, the fifteenth day of the first fifteen. We want to go like sunflowers, follow the sun, and bathe the sun in the sun, instead of hurting the sorrow of spring and autumn in the sunny moon.

A negative person will deny you, judge you, doubt you, attack you, bring you from the cloud to the bottom;

People with positive energy will appreciate you, understand you, tolerate you, and achieve you. Even if you are surrounded by a sludge, you can give you courage, so that you have enough confidence to deal with the storms in life.

Stay away from those who consume you, go closer to those who can nourish you.

When your inner positive energy is ignited, even if the current life is unsatisfactory, the future will be more and more smooth.

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