Electric vehicles have caused contradictions between husband and wife, Pingshan mediation agent "six -step method" ingenious disputes

In recent years, with the rapid development of socio -economic development, people's economic, work, and living pressures have increased, and the contradictions between marriage and family that followed. Recently, Liao Xia, a member of the People's Judicial Bureau of Pingshan District, Shenzhen, participated in the mediation of a conflict between marriage and family. She used the "six -step" mediation method to successfully resolve the dispute and obtained the praise of the parties.

It is understood that the relationship between Wang and Hu is a couple. In mid -May, Hu Mou quarreled because he was prevented by his wife Wang by his wife Wang. Wang pulled Hu with his hands, causing Hu to be angry, and then the two sides had physical conflicts.

It was a trivial matter using electric vehicles, but who knew it caused serious contradictions between husband and wife. Frozen three feet is not a day cold. It turned out that the husband and wife had been married for 5 years. Wang was a housewife, and Hu had a partnership with people. Because Hu maintained intimate interaction with female colleagues for a long time, Wang suspected that there was an ambiguous relationship with his female colleagues, and the accumulated cold war and violent communication caused the two sides to deepen the grievances, which caused Wang to suspect that Hu went out to find his female colleague. This causes conflict.

▲ The picture is the mediationist Liao Xia, which is mediation for the residents, and has nothing to do with the case in this article.

After receiving the mediation case, Liao Xia, a member of the People's Meditation of the Pingshan District Judicial Bureau, replied to the dispute. According to the statement of the two parties, Liao Xia used the "six steps" mediation method:

The first step is to sort out the contradictions of the appearance;

The second step is to dig deep behind the dispute;

The third step is to guide the two to build a healthy interactive communication platform. Wang tells the doubts of her husband Hu in daily life. Hu explained and clarified the behavior;

The fourth step is to focus on the contradiction between the relationship between the two husbands and wives.

The fifth step is to repeat the difficulty of Wang and Hu's family responsibilities in their family life, guide the other party to understand each other, and rewrite the close relationship between the two people who still exist between the two parties;

Step 6, through recommending marriage operation skills, recommend the two parties to learn "non -violent communication" to improve the daily communication method, guide the two parties to trust each other in daily life, love each other, understand and tolerate each other, support and respect each other, and encourage them. Wang expanded the communication circle and strengthened the connection with the outside world to distract.

In the end, under the mediation of the mediator, the two parties reached a settlement. The couple agreed to reconcile, and promised to understand each other in the future. conflict.

Text/Picture: Sixinxuan, Pingshan District Judicial Bureau

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