Dink family, pension He Yi

Author:Jinan Times Time:2022.06.20

The term "Dink's transliteration, the abbreviation of Double Income No Kids), entered the country in the 20th century, is a family of" double income, no children ". After more than thirty years, in the face of pension problems, what are the preparations, what are the preparations, what are the pain points? Recently, the reporter interviewed the "no child" couple of the ages of 40, 60, and 80 years old. The young "Dink" still felt that it was not enough to reserve seven digits. The separation of medical care; young people and the older who cares about keeping dignity together.

Husband and wife age 45 and 42 years old

Life state: Ski on weekends, no baby "light"

Pension: After decades, "salted fish is thirsty"

Su Wei, who has been married for 10 years, has always enjoyed the "two -person world". At first, her parents wanted to hug her grandson, but she knew that she "didn't like children and didn't think they were particularly cute." She reached a consensus with her husband: not to have children.

How do I pass my parents? "I have been independent since I was a child. I am not an obedient child." The Guangzhou native now works with her husband in Beijing. The economy is completely independent. It does not require parents to help invest in buying a house. She also funded her parents to swim in the world. "They looked at their friends around their grandchildren at home. They were not free and tired of being ill.

Su Wei said that without children, they have more resources to devote themselves to themselves, and shopping is more likely. Before the epidemic, the couple traveled to two countries a year. Weekend, swimming, and skiing together, "more played with young people in their 20s." In Su Wei's opinion, Dink not only loves himself, but also "loves the other half".

Relying on the concept of children's elderly, Su Wei did not agree: "Children are independent individuals and have free will." The couple have invested in real estate, funds, and stocks. insufficient.

"Pension is a problem in the world." Su Wei used to study in the United States. "The living environment in developed countries is better and the quality of caregivers is higher, but the elderly are still lonely. Go to Hangzhou to explore the "fusion of young and old" model. Low rent allows young people to stay in the elderly home. At the same time, it takes a certain period of time to complete the volunteer service. She thinks this may be a possibility.

Su Wei, who is in her 20s as young people in her 20s, has not planned a particularly clear plan for the pension. "Wait until the seventh old and eighty, and you have been happy for most of his life.

Husband and wife age is 60 and 58 years old

Life status: Memorial day shopping, maintaining young romance

Pension: First of all

Huang Yun, who retired for 3 years, has lived without a child for more than 30 years. As a "dual employee" family, she and her husband were very busy during the day before retirement. When they were tired, they would eat outside. Don't worry about cooking soup for the child. After returning home, there is a free time to "return the soul" to the brain.

Many old husbands and wives moved to their children with their focus on their lives, and slowly forgotten the commemorative day, but the two of the Huang Yun couples still retained a sense of ritual. The festival commemorative day will meet to go shopping and enjoy the same romance as young people.

The elderly in the family had a high age, and recently lived in the hospital, making Huang Yun exhausted. She even felt: "The most important thing is to raise a good body, and no matter how much money is, it is not as good as health." She had no time to work before. After retirement, she often took a walk to the river to exercise. While they can move now, they travel everywhere, Hongya Cave, Kuanzhai Alley, Huanglong ... A variety of punch photos are posted in the circle of friends.

Seeing that parents are getting older, what are the elderly preparations for themselves? Huang Yun said that the fund stocks invested in recent years have now more stable positioning value of more than 500,000 yuan. In her 20s, she recommended a business pension insurance because of her friends, and now increased nearly 10,000 yuan each year. "I felt a lot more than thirty years ago, and now this money is nothing."

Because parents are still, Huang Yun, who is a daughter, has not thought about his old age: "First of all, home -care, really can't go to the elderly." In addition to relying on herself, there is a group of good friends. "Usually gather together, live a happy life, and help each other if you have anything."

Huang Yun is most worried about the pain that cannot be autonomous at the end of life. I still remember that she had visited an old leader who was seriously ill. At that time, the other party was so weak that he couldn't speak, and he looked at everyone with tears. "We have seen the leader's look of spiritual spirit, and this situation is very uncomfortable." If she was in this situation in the future, she hoped that she had the right to pain.

Husband and wife age is 89 years old and 84 years old

Life state: more than 20 years in the elderly

Pension: Looking forward to the "elderly home+elderly hospital" mode

Liu Yiming has been in the public home for more than 20 years. "Many people shook their heads as soon as they mentioned the elderly home. We didn't matter. We were older and gout, and did not want to trouble relatives and young people. Although they were happy to help, young people had their own lives after all, and often took care of them. Reality, sometimes visiting is enough. "

"We are here at the villa." Liu Yiming's old home was near the Liuxi River, pushing the window to see the green, and was a five -star pension institution in Guangdong Province. He went to some old friends in Hong Kong to live in the elderly home, "Just like the old village and towns, the environment here, the environment here is much better." In the old home and his wife, support each other and do not need to rely too much. Both husbands and wives worked in the system before. The rent, food, and care costs of the elderly homes were nearly 4,000 yuan, accounting for less than half of the monthly pension. "The prices of public home areas are very favorable. In addition, there is a public medical treatment for medical treatment, and there is no burden on life." Liu Yiming said.

In the past year or two, Liu Yiming did not continue to live in the old home. He suffers from long -term diseases, and he has to go to the hospital once or twice a month. The epidemic prevention and control needs. "It takes half a month at a time, and I just moved out temporarily."

When you return to the home in the city, you have to rely on himself to buy food and cook. He and his wife are obviously exhausted than when they are in the elderly, and they have to sit down and rest for five minutes. "Now the couple can still take care of themselves. The most afraid of one of them is what to do." Liu Yiming said, "If the elderly also has a three -level hospital with a three -level hospital."

His elderly home is equipped with an elderly hospital, and the conditions have better than most of the elderly. "The elderly hospital is a secondary level. It is okay to deal with minor illnesses and small pain. Severe more than three hospitals that are transferred to the outside." At present, the elderly hospital is expanding as a whole. The Greater Bay Area has a third -level comprehensive hospital with the characteristics of the elderly and the national demonstration elderly hospital.

"The combination of the elderly home and the elderly hospital can provide two major services of daily living and medical care one -stop, which can truly solve our worries." Liu Yiming is looking forward to it. "This also reduces the pressure of public hospitals and the burden of young people. It is very social. "At present, the old home of the supporting hospital is still rare.

(At the request of the interviewees, Su Wei, Huang Yun, and Liu Yiming were all pseudonyms.)

(Source: Guangzhou Daily)

Edit: Han Luying

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