She took care of her sick husband in 42 years -green silk turned white hair for love for love

She is an ordinary family woman who supports her parents and children in most of her life. She is also a great wife. From 27 to 69 years old, she took care of her mental illness Zeng Chungui, who took care of mental illness for 42 years. She is Zhang Xianglan in Quananggang District, Quangang District.

Encountering a change of husband's mental disorders

At 5 o'clock in the morning, before the day, Zhang Xianglan got up to buy rice to cook porridge, then put on a sanitation work clothes, and went to the village to start a day of sanitary cleaning. This job can bring more than 1,000 yuan in income every month, coupled with the subsidies of pensions and husband's disabled, the family income of about 2,000 yuan per month. At around 11 o'clock, she returned home, stood up with the porridge, and feed her husband to eat one bite.

Zhang Xianglan was born in December 1953 in Hui'an Tongchuan Town. In 1976, at the age of 23, she became a husband and wife with Zeng Chungui in the neighboring village. Zeng Chungui has a talented talent and has a strong heart. He is a famous "high student" in the village, which makes Zhang Xianglan, who has lost his father's love since he was a child. A few years after marriage, she was responsible for handling housework, and her husband continued to study while working nearby. The three sons were born, and the family lived and warm.

In July 1980, Zeng Chungui fell into the college entrance examination again, and his mood was very lost. One day, he suddenly shouted at home, crying and laughing, and no one couldn't persuade him. Zhang Xianglan took him to the hospital for a doctor, and the doctor diagnosed a mental illness. In the hospital, the husband's condition can still be controlled, but it will recur shortly after discharge. In the repeated cycle of "hospitalization -discharge -hospitalization", the high medical expenses made this unwilling family who couldn't breathe.

She picks up the burden alone outside the family

Since then, the original five -mouth house of happiness has undergone tremendous changes. The burden of the family was pressed on Zhang Xianglan. She got up at 4 o'clock every day. In addition to taking care of her husband and children's daily life, she also had to take into account the field labor. The food and vegetables in the ground must be taken care of. As soon as she was free, she ran to the nearby to make zero -jobs to make up for the family. After returning home, she had no time to breathe, and she quickly cleaned, laundry, cooking, and feeding chickens and ducks. When all this was busy, she was often approaching the middle of the night, and she was paralyzed.

Over the years, Zhang Xianglan searched for medicine for her husband. Whether it was introduced by a friend neighbor or the advertisement, as long as there was a hint of hope, she would do her best to find it. I heard that a traditional Chinese medicine from Shanghai was very effective. She tried her best to contact the manufacturer and urged the other party to mail it. Husbands are very exclusive to taking medicine, often lose their temper, and even beat people. Zhang Xianglan was annoying, and she was patient to coax her husband for medication on time. "I take care of him for a lifetime, as long as I am there, I won't treat him."

Do not leave and hope to go hand in hand

On the evening of 2014, her husband had not returned, and Zhang Xianglan guessed that he might go to the mountains and glory. Due to mental problems, the husband was always worried that Niu would be stolen and ran to see it after a while. Zhang Xianglan found a large lap along the mountain road, and finally found her husband in the grass on the side of the road. I do n’t know if it was tripped into the head or stroke or a stroke. Since then, the husband has been bed in bed, three meals a day, eating and drinking Lazar, and it depends on Zhang Xianglan to take care of it. For safety, she specially put on a wooden railing in front of her husband's window. Today, the husband's condition is gradually stable.

Husbands can't afford to bed, and Zhang Xianglan needs to eat and drink.

When her husband was ill, Zhang Xianglan was only 24 years old. The neighbor advised her to find another good family while she was young. "What others say are other people's affairs, I can't do that. When I marry him, the family is good. If you can't see him sick, you don't care. And I still have three children. I must persist. The family has hope. "42 years later, Zhang Xianglan had no regrets about the original persistence. The three sons have grown up to become a family. Although they are working and their income is not high, they will also help take care of their father.

Today, the Zhang Xianglan couple still lives in the old stone room of the 1980s. The 42 -year time will wear the corners of the stone room, but not flattened Zhang Xianglan's affection for her husband. For the future, she has no more extravagant thoughts, she just hopes to accompany her husband to go on.

□ Quanzhou Evening News reporter Wu Zhiming Correspondent Lianlian Lianlian Lu Bifeng text/picture

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