Why are we getting closer to those who are closer?

I don't know if everyone has such experience

I am always grateful in front of others

Only in front of the closest person

Can't control your temper

Always "export hurt people"

Why is this?

Come and see together

Native

turn out to be

In the relationship with the closest person

It will produce a feeling of attachment damage

It is when you are hurt by one person

When I feel painful

I will expect the other party to comfort themselves

If the other party fails to get to your point

Can't go up to comfort

At this time, it will cause attachment damage

This damage is a traumatic event

It will hurt each other's relationship

If you fail to deal with timely processing

It will fall into a continuous vicious cycle

Until the relationship is getting worse and worse

After being hurt by attachment

Not only affects the mood

It will also make you feel inferior

In fact, this attachment damage can be avoided

Just express your emotions correctly

Don't let the other party guess

What you need to express

Review of this article: Dr. Tao Ning, Associate Professor of the National Institute of State Research

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