Night Reading | Practicing yourself

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Difficulty, Yuru Yucheng.

If a person wants to become a big device, he must be touched by hardships.

The sharp sword has a thousand hammer, and the fine iron is made into steel.

Knock fiercely and carve them carefully. Only in this way can you be indomitable and strong.

Following yourself is an analysis of the table and inside, and it is also transformed from the inside out.

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Performing personality, outer circle and inside

In life, there are often two kinds of people, one is stubborn, with a clear edges and corners, and does not know how to change and compromise.

Another kind of person is accustomed to catering and compromising. There are few principles and bottom lines. The first contact feels very kind, but after a long time, he feels doubts.

The previous kind of person is too square, and he does not know how to change his mind to see more about things; the latter one is too round, only smooth and compromised, without the bottom line of behavior.

And the wisdom of human beings is neither too square nor too round. Perhaps the outside of the outside is the best personality of a person.

Just as "Cai Gentan" says: "There are real slaughter, there are round machines."

Everyone must have a firm principle in the hearts of everyone, and do not fall down with the wind; and in practice, they must learn to be integrated and flexibly handled.

According to legend, there is such a small interesting thing between Ji Xiaolan and Qianlong.

Qianlong knew that Ji Xiaolan had a great ambition to Dingguo Anbang.

One day, Ji Xiaolan accompanied Qianlong to take a walk in the wild. Qianlong wanted to test Ji Xiaolan, whether he was loyal to the liver and daring as usual. Then asked Ji Xiaolan what was "loyalty", Ji Xiaolan answered without thinking: "Jun wants to die, and the ministers have to die, for loyalty."

Immediately, Qianlong made him loyal as a king and wanted to see how he responded. Unexpectedly, Ji Xiaolan first stunned, and then really left.

After a while, Ji Xiaolan came back again, saying that he would ask Qu Yuan to ask a question.

"The minister just went to jump to the river to commit suicide, but he was stopped by Qu Yuan. He said that at that time, it was because of Chu Huai's faint and incompetent, so he had to jump. Is it a faint monarch? If so, the minister will not be late. "

After Qianlong listened, Long Xin was happy, and he praised Ji Xiaolan's talent and intelligence and knew how to change.

While Ji Xiaolan's inner principle, Ji Xiaolan ended this joke in a roundabout manner. This is the wisdom of the outer circle and inside.

In interpersonal communication, the personality of the inside of the outer circle is a person with "win -win" wisdom, which can satisfy others and satisfy himself.

In principle, people in the inside of the outer circle know "seeking common ground while depositing differences."

Get along with people in the outer circle, making people feel like a spring breeze.

Personal personality does not follow the flow, nor does it be firm. Practic themselves into a person who is a circle and "versatile".

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Follow the pattern, take responsibility

The editor -in -chief of "Fortune" magazine, Ji Fuko, said: "The pattern determines the ending, and the attitude determines the height."

The success or failure of a person is hidden in his pattern and attitude.

Those who have a small pattern are negative in the face of dilemma and are easy to complain. They even choose to evade responsibility to deal with the problem.

People with a large pattern are active and brave when they face the predicament, do not complain or frustrated, and want to do everything possible to be invisible.

People with a pattern not only have a wide -minded and broad -mindedness, but also have a responsibility and responsibility.

At the end of 2018, the hammer mobile phone founded by Luo Yonghao announced bankruptcy, and individual owed 600 million debt.

He could have taken the bankruptcy procedure and set the boundary of 600 million debt, but he did not do so.

Faced with the overwhelming and ridicule of swearing on the Internet, he did not refute, but accepted it, gritted his teeth, and actively repaid the debt.

Luo Yonghao settled in the Douyin platform and began to bring the goods live.

At the beginning, because he was not proficient, he often finalized product details with all aspects before the broadcast, and strived to be the best.

In the live broadcast room, he introduced the wrong product and bowed to the audience ninety degrees; when he encountered product quality problems, he took the initiative to expose himself and give compensation.

Some people think that Luo Yonghao lives with the goods and the idols collapse. It is disappointing to make money.

Luo Yonghao posted a Weibo response: "I don't make dirty money as anchor, I admire myself."

Belief, persistence, patience, pattern.

Even if you are in darkness, you should work hard to become a beam of light to illuminate your life path.

In adversity, the courage to bear is the mind; dare to do it, it is courage; not fear of difficulties, it is a pattern.

The more difficult it is to polish yourself into a large pattern, the more brave you are; the more abusive and rebuke, the more you want to pay.

Practicing yourself into a large pattern, the more wind and rain, the more you have to meet the difficulties;

Follow the pattern and let yourself face a different life with a different vision and heart.

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Solving ability, thick accumulation

Xunzi "Persuasion" has a cloud: "Perseverance, rotten wood is not discounted; perseverance, gold and stones can be cut."

Meaning: Use a knife to engrave things, give up halfway, and the decaying wood cannot be carved; persistence, the golden stone can also be carved successfully.

Any abilities need to be polished. By learning to polish intelligence, to persist in polishing, and to polish strength through practice. Zhuang Xiaoying, one of the female journalists with the highest appearance rate in CCTV-7, tells us with her personal experience that from an unknown female high school student to a well-known CCTV female journalist, it has to go through a few years.

10 years ago, she was still determined to be a journalist to do my best to "great cause".

During the university, she was responsible for the school youth news agency. There were more than 300 campus news reported by the main author, accumulating experience in this training.

Not only that, she also served as an internship journalist for the People's Daily Online, China Youth Network, and Chinese college students to train her actual combat ability through internships.

In order to polish her professional skills, after graduating from college, compared with other students to choose a relatively easy way, she gave up the olive branches of China Youth Network and chose the postgraduate entrance examination to study without hesitation.

After being admitted to Communication University of China, she often got up when her classmates got up before they got up. At night, the classmates fell asleep before returning to the dormitory. Sometimes because I was too focused, I didn’t have time to eat.

After graduating, Zhuang Xiaoying successfully entered CCTV. She would not be relaxed as a reporter, but she did not relax. Instead, she was more desperate.

It can be a front -line report, but also takes into account the director behind the scenes; analyzes the hard core military content. She is out of manuscript, not timid, her words are clear, their expressions are free and firm.

No matter how young, multiplied by 365, it will become extraordinary.

Every outstanding ordinary person has countless experiences behind it. The reason why it is called "outstanding ordinary people" is because they have passed from the sharpening field.

Like the line in "Farewell My Concubine": "If you want to be expensive before, you must be ancestors and then suffer."

Wait silently in those unknown days, waiting quietly, just for the moment of bloom, amazing.

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Rather than asking for itself, it is better to return to yourself.

Pushing yourself is the best investment.

Only to polish your personality can we have a good relationship and better deal with intricate relationships.

With the pattern of polishing, you can include everything, and you are fearless when facing difficulties.

With the ability to polish, we can always maintain competitiveness and not be eliminated.

Put attention on yourself, constantly polish yourself, improve yourself, the path of life can become more and more open, smoother and smoother.

People need to grind in things before they can stand.

May we all polish an extraordinary life in ordinary days.

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