If you work hard in the right direction, the child’s future will have real happiness

The recent hit drama "One Years No Work", the encounter of the heroine He Yu, played by the hot -bewither, triggers how many people resonate-

"Where is my life?" Where is it? "

"How can you make life not so hard?"

"What is the meaning of hard work?"

He Yu, 32, worked hard in a financial company in Shanghai. Her dream was romantic and simple -she had a large flat layer that belonged to her own, and went to the island to have a beautiful wedding.

She desperately worked, and has not been invited for a day off in 10 years, and has always been an excellent employee.

She worked hard and faced with the blame of leaders and the difficulties of customers, and always smiled.

However, the promotion and salary increase on the eyes of the eyes disappeared.

Picture source: TV series "One Years No Work"

The middle -aged life came with a sudden brake, and she was painful and painful, and finally began to think about the best path of life -as Teacher Liu Run said in the book "Under the Logic", "The direction is wrong, try hard. On the wrong track of the track. Running all the way, the more you work hard, the faster the speed of destruction. "

How cool is it in the right direction? I especially like to watch the schoolba interview column. Those childish teenagers always talk about their future planning in the face of reporters' interviews. But too many children, in the face of questions, they only say, "No idea", "I don't know", "Let's talk about how many points to see the college entrance examination" ...

The child's confusion also reflects the anxiety and helplessness of parents to a certain extent. How to guide the child to think about their future, so as to finally cherish every step of the present? "Do what you love" from South Korea gave a new perspective.

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Maybe the occupation will disappear, but the talent will not

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Gorky once said, "Genius, as far as its essence, is just a love for career and work.

When a person finds his own field and gives full play to his talents and enthusiasm, he will bloom a genius wonderful.

Unfortunately, when parents can't understand this, what industry is still using, what unit to enter, and what kind of profession is to plan a child's growth path, it is probably difficult to have a good result. When the monk hit a day for a day, he lived in chaos, and the whole person fell into a state of anxiety or depression, and he could not find his own positioning and value.

This year's market changes and industry changes have caused many people who have been out of school and people to middle -aged workplace encounter a cold winter. When they wake up, the worst result is not that the company is gone, which may be gone -this makes parents frightened. In this situation, how to do career planning? Professional -oriented planning will definitely usher in such a challenge, but maybe occupations disappear and talent will not.

"Do what you love" will specify and detailed the key behind the career -personal advantages and traits. 33 kinds of life traits will help us re -understand our most precious talent, so as to accurately position the appropriate competition road.

The change of career is normal. Yesterday, I also told you that the child who wants to be a "astronaut". Today, I will vowed to be on the bustling stage to realize the "singer" dream in the future. I must be a "designer" in elementary school. "Judge". Occupation choices will change, but the characteristics and values ​​of life are relatively stable.

Occupation will change and disappear, but the characteristics are relatively stable

What's more, for children, occupations are always out of reach, and general professional science popularization picture books and children's books are busy explaining which occupations and specific work scenarios of these occupations. But there is a few books, which can remind children from a more tight and longer perspective that what kind of life do you want to live in this life and which kind of person to be?

Explore inwardly to give children the opportunity to take the right direction

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Only in love can we work hard to live well

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I once brushed a video. My father found that a 12 -year -old child was only 12 -year -old. He did n’t want to learn all day long. He mixed with the social idlers all day long. In desperation, he sent the child to a martial arts school on the mountain.

What Master speaks first is to be my apprentice. The most important thing is to be a man. Master hopes that you will be a responsible person, who loves to learn, and shake hands with your children and hug. In this way, the original and full -bodied teenager slowly had light in his eyes.

Why did he tell the child to learn to learn, but he couldn't hear it? Why do children say that they want to learn well, but they can't sit still on the bench?

Often because they never felt from the heart that learning was their own business. Why are they working hard? For the requirements of the school and the teacher, the hard work of the parents, in order to see the invisible future ...

The children who were made by these strips and frames did not know what talents they had, but they just walked step by step. In this state, confusion is inevitable, and anxiety is normal.

However, now there is such a book that allows children to see -they can choose their favorite life and become the person they want to be:

It can be a person who has a high driving technology, who is good at repairing, and likes to cook. In the process of hand -to -hand operation, feel the passion and sense of accomplishment of creation;

Those who can understand all kinds of plants, who like to observe the stars, understand insects, and travel. In the intimate contact with nature, they abundant their souls;

It can be a person who cries, loves to laugh, listen, and strictly keeps secrets. In the emotional world, follow your own heart, live a calm life ... All the possibilities of life can be found here. The bottom version, you can also explore here. When a child clarifies his favorite life, he knows that this is the happiness he wants to reach by his efforts. Every effort and every persistence in his efforts is meaningful.

The initiative of life is in his hands. As long as you are a loving companion, remind and help in a timely manner, accompany him to enjoy the landscape from calmness — is it much more interesting than the roar of Studi?

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Seeing the future, this magic has magical power

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Open this little book, each chapter of life characteristics, the first thing that refers to is a large illustration, such as those who like to write, wearing a berets and black -frame glasses, holding a hand in my hand with a one in my hand with a one in my hand holding one in my hand In the letter, the background is a pencil and a letter paper, a big love and a shiny star ... Do you bring you into the situation all at once? Such visual stimulus and memory will make the child's brain fully associate -you must definitely be Believe that seeing the future is a kind of magic itself.

As a professional planner, I often use the magic of "seeing the future" to help children find their ideal status of life, so as to provide a steady stream of motivation for the current efforts. In this book, every characteristic and talent has wonderful illustrations complement each other. The delicate text and fresh illustrations allow children to shuttle in the future world unknowingly and feel what the favorite life looks like.

The clearer and vivid the picture you see, the greater it can give children support and help.

Einstein once said, "Everyone is with talent, but if you use the ability to climb trees to judge a fish, it will think that he is stupid throughout his life."

In this era, we are all very happy. We can have full opportunities and resources to help children explore. His talent and mission can avoid the tragedy of Einstein.

"Do what you love" is such a children's book full of tool attributes and romantic and romantic. Instead of finding and touching the wall in the external world, it is better to try to explore inward to help children discover their love and clear themselves themselves. His talent gives him the opportunity to bloom his unique flower of life in the field of suitable him.

(Beijing Science and Technology Press)

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