The best way to live in middle -aged people: the courage to carry things, the ability to do things, and the pattern of the article

The best way to live in middle -aged people: the courage to carry things, the ability to do things, and the pattern of the article

2022-06-23 18: 32 · Fan Deng Reading APP

Tagore said:

"When people reach middle age, they will give up the illusory world and unrealistic desires.

After decades of life, he suddenly discovered that when he was middle -aged, he had not ushered in the glory of the opening, and was still an ordinary person struggling in the mud.

As the so -called young and unaware of sorrow, middle -aged party knows everything.

It is not easy to recognize life, so it is getting stronger in the difficulties of destiny;

I am used to a single shot, so I gradually matured in the changes of the role;

After seeing the warmth and warmth of people, in the end, it was calm in the impermanence of the years.

Looking back at half a life, I gradually understood:

The best way to live in middle -aged people is to have the courage to carry things, the ability to do things, and the pattern of cultivation.

I have read a word:

"Learn to dance according to the wind when the wind is in the wind, and learn to support a umbrella for yourself when it is raining."

No one is easier than anyone else's life.

In middle age, when suffering, you can be a strong person, and you can carry it when you encounter something.

I have seen a difficult years of Ni Ping.

In 1999, Ni Ping presided over the Spring Festival Gala. She was still dignified in front of the camera, and she was still in an orderly manner in the series.

However, she was on the verge of collapse at that time.

Shortly before the Spring Festival Gala that year, his son Huzi was found to have a problem with his eyes. It is suspected that congenital cataracts are suspected. If not treated in time, it may be blind and even life -threatening.

The sudden bad news made Ni Ping unacceptable.

As soon as the Spring Festival Gala ended, she flew abroad with her son and began a long way to seek medical treatment.

The price of the sky -high medical expenses quickly hollowed out the bottom of the house. Under the huge debt, her husband Wang Wenlan was also overwhelmed and chose to divorce Ni Ping.

As a result, the burden of taking care of her son fell on her shoulders.

In those years, Ni Ping flew back and forth at home and abroad. He took the cheapest economy class, rushed back to China to shoot, and immediately flew back to take care of his son.

You can even bow your head and knew your knees just to take pictures of the director.

Ni Ping was upside down day and night, working non -stop, seeking medicine everywhere, and had no time to take care of his appearance and image, so he gradually walked away, and people quickly aging. She criticized her voice on the Internet.

In the face of huge grief, Ni Ping could only comfort himself silently.

Finally, the ten years later, Ni Ping came over.

His son's illness finally recovered, and Ni Ping became stronger, and now he lives very happily.

Li Xiaoyu once said: "Many people bump into the storm of life. Even if life is fragmented, they will continue to grit their teeth. This is the power of ordinary people to support the umbrella."

After middle age, he had been beaten throughout his life and was defeated by reality.

But as saying in "Heart":

"The more I get up, the more I hang up by a breath. As soon as the qi leaked, the person collapsed."

If you are not strong enough and you can't carry things, you will be trapped in suffering and setbacks, and slowly fall into collapse.

If the psychological toughness is strong enough and the courage to carry things, although the journey is difficult, one day, you will survive the suffering of life and taste the sweetness of the years.

When people reach middle age, they do not have the eaves that hide from the rain, and learn to support themselves.

Zeng Guofan said:

"Anyone must be peaceful and slowly, if you are in a hurry, you may be wrong.

After the middle age, the work is busy, the life is trivial, and the accident is always sudden. If you do not panic, you can see the trick and turn the crisis into peace.

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Ogawa Corporation hosted a high -end customer thank you party and invited the famous pianist to perform.

All members of the company attached great importance to it, carefully prepared for a long time, but did not expect that there was an accident on the day of the performance.

The sound and equipment at the scene suddenly failed, resulting in continuous noise, and the pianist was reluctant to perform in such an environment.

The employees were panicked, and some people began to complain about unlucky. Some people began to shirk responsibility, and some even made a noise to the person in charge of the theater.

At this time, Ogawa's leaders came forward in a timely manner. He first adjusted the quarrel between the two sides, and immediately coordinated the backup equipment and communicated with the pianist at the same time to see if he could perform under the condition that there was no sound.

After the coordination of the three parties, Ogawa's leaders urgently wrote an apology letter, and came to the stage to sincerely apologize to the audience, sincere words, and sincere attitude.

The final performance went smoothly, and the audience also reported warm applause at the end.

Before an unpredictable accident, Ogawa's leadership was not shocked, and he calmly cope with it.

Master Hongyi once said: "When there is nothing, quit a stealing word. When something happens, quit a mess."

The intention is that when you are fine, you must be safe and plan ahead; don't panic when you have something, but calm down.

The more difficult it is to deal with, the more emotional stability.

When people reach middle age, they are under pressure to pick up their shoulders and carry their family burdens, which is even more likely to be full of situations.

At this time, the more impatient, the easier it is to lose it due to small; the more panicked, the easier it is to worsen.

Only by calming the heart and calmness can we figure out the context of the matter and find the magic weapon of doing things.

Do not panic when it is happening, it is the wisdom of adults and the practice of middle -aged people.

I have seen a small story:

One day, former British Prime Minister George and friends went to the yard to take a walk. Every time a door was passed, George always closed the door. My friend asked very puzzledly: "Do you need to close these doors?"

George smiled and said, "Oh, of course, there is this need. I have been closing the door behind me throughout my life.

When you close the door, keep everything behind you, whether it is good achievements or annoying mistakes.

Then you can start again. "

Indeed, always living in the past emotions will only make us heavy and unable to welcome a better future.

When people reach middle age, they don't have to regret past regrets.

When Rousseau was 20 years old, his fiancee was temporarily regretted marriage and walked with another man.

As a result, he was hit, and felt that he had disappeared in the village, and quickly fled his hometown.

Thirty years later, Rousseau became famous and became a famous writer. When he returned to his hometown to visit relatives, his friend mentioned the "fiancee" to him.

Friends said that after leaving him, the "fiancee" had a lot of downturn, and these years have rely on the relief of relatives.

Everyone thought he would be happy for this, because the person who betrayed him that year was punished.

Kedau said that he had already let go and no longer resent it.

Mo Yan said in "Fatigue of Life and Death":

"The world is like a book, one page turns over. People must look forward and turn over the old account of history."

The old account of the old age repeatedly turned, but it was getting deeper and deeper.

Half a lifetime, those who regret us to regret our embarrassment will leave them in the door behind them.

And we only need to remove the heavy burden, let go of the shackles in our hearts, close the door behind us, and continue.

Mr. Yu Qiuyu said:

"Middle -aged is the extension of young people and bid farewell to young people.

This farewell is not only a variation of a series of concepts, but a mature person who finally stands self -reliance, and is confident in dealing with various problems as you want. "

When people reach middle age, there is no eaves to hide from the rain, so I learned to support myself umbrella;

The object that does not rely on, so it becomes its own backing;

There is no harm of harm, so I learned to turn over the past.

You can carry it in the event of an incident, grit your teeth and swallow the suffering of life, so you can taste the sweetness of the years.

If you are not shocked, try to cross every hurdle, life will always be dark.

Forget it, learn to close the desperate door, and happiness naturally arrives.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can become a better self in the grinding of life.

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