"Guiguzi": the higher the cognitive level, the more happy and quiet

I have read such a sentence: "The first reaction of trouble can reflect a person's cognitive level. The higher the cognitive level, the more you happy."

Static braking is the philosophy of life in our traditional culture, which is reflected in the "Ghost Valley" to the fullest.

"Guiguzi" was written by Wang Xian, the originator of the family, Feng Menglong once evaluated his "thoroughness, people cannot reach".

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Although Guiguzi lived in a troubled world, he seemed to have escaped out of that disturbing era, looking at the world from a wise perspective, and his "life -like life" philosophy of life. And it is worth thinking about.

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"Guiguzi" said: "Anxu is quiet, the soft section is set first."

The quiet people seem to be weak, but they are magnificent in their hearts, and they can plan their lives in an orderly manner from beginning to end.

During the Emperor Hanwu, a prime minister was named Gongsun Hong. He was reused by Emperor Wu, and his life was quite complete. The smoothness of his life lies in the wisdom of indisputable.

Gongsun Hong was very frugal, and he was always very frugal. He even had a rough rice cloth after making the prime minister.

But his colleagues couldn't see him, so he said to Emperor Hanwu: "Hongzhong San Gong, there are a lot of Lulu, but it is cloth cover, this fraud is also."

As soon as Emperor Hanwu heard it, he asked Gongsun Hong if he was "you pretended" as he said?

Gongsun Hong replied:

"Just as I said, as a prime minister, I covered the quilt, which really damaged my official power. Thanks to his advice, I could let His Majesty hear these truths."

After hearing it, Emperor Hanwu was very happy. Not only did he reward him, he also praised Gongsun Hong.

Another time, Gongsun Hong and the Ministers discussed in the court. They had said that everyone played together in advance. However, when the emperor asked the emperor to settle, Gongsun Hong temporarily changed his ideas, and what he stated was inconsistent with what he said before.

In this regard, Ji Dan was very angry. He rebuked Gong Sun Hong: "Qi people are more fraudulent and ruthless.

Facing the accusations of Ji Dan and the complaints of everyone, Gongsun Hong was silent and argued.

Later, when Emperor Hanwu asked him why he did not argue, he said: "The people who are familiar with the ministers are loyal, and those who do not know the ministers are not loyal."

Emperor Hanwu nodded again and again, and reused Gongsun Hong.

Among the many difficulties of colleagues, Gongsun Hong retired, and won the reputation of "humility and generosity" without fighting.

Lao Tzu once said: "The good is as good as water, and the water is good for everything.

The hustle and bustle of the world, timely quietness is not only a kind of experience, but also a kind of cultivation.

Mature people often choose not to fight for, do not compare, and keep their own heart.

There are mountains and seas, quiet but not arguing.

Knowing how to be indifferent to nature can get blessing and peace.

It's quiet

"Guiguzi" said: "It is not shocked when it comes to change."

It is inevitable to encounter some difficult things in life. The more anxious, the more you will be in a hurry.

Only by calming down can we see the essence of the problem, clarify its context, and find a solution.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao led the army to conquer Tao Qian.

Lu Bu took the opportunity to attack Cao Cao's rear Luzhou. Overnight, Luzhou almost fell all over the world, and only a few cities left on Cao Cao's hands.

At this time, Cao Cao was sitting behind the town. In the face of this critical situation, he was not panic. On the contrary, he performed very calmly.

At that time, the Yuzhou assassin Shi Guo Gong heard that Lu Bu attacked Luzhou, and he also led the army to come and want to take advantage of the chaos, and he also proposed to meet with his sister.

After learning about Guo Gong's request, his subordinates all panicked and persuaded him not to be alone, but he did not panic. He analyzed it reasonably: "Guo Gong and Lu Bu are not associates. If you want to wait and see the situation, we should persuade him before he is determined to help Lu Bu, even if he can't use it for me, at least keep him neutral. "

In the end, Guo Gong was persuaded, led his troops away, and promised to keep neutral.

Master Hongyi said, "If you do things, you are afraid of irritability, but irritability is dazzling first. Why not treat things?"

When encountering things, the more impatient people, the easier it is to be affected by emotions and acting impulses, and often make bigger mistakes.

Instead of complaining, it is better to come down and try to find a solution in the predicament.

The water is extremely extremely visible, and the heart is extremely wise.

If you are not frightened in the event of an incident, you are calm and calm, which is the real pattern of a person.

The heart is still wins

"Guiguzi" said: "If you want to have a lot of heart, your heart is scattered, the heart is dispersed, and the decline is not to think."

If you want too much, your heart will become more and more scattered, you can't find the goals and directions, and finally lose yourself in confusion.

Perhaps, keep peace in mind, and less demand, but will gain more.

On one occasion, Emperor Han Guangwu gave a group of tribute sheep to the officials in the DPRK and asked for one person, which made the officials responsible for the sheep very headache.

Because of the batch of sheep, there are fat and thin, and the difference between good or bad is not good.

Many officials also discuss how to divide them there: Some people say that all are killed, just fat and thin match; others say that the size of the size is better.

When the ministers were constantly arguing, the doctor Zhen Yu stepped forward and took the thinnest sheep.

After seeing the officials present, they were embarrassed to hold the biggest sheep, but went to the youngest sheep in the remaining. In this way, the sheep will be finished, and everyone has no complaints about it. Later, under the recommendation of the ministers, Zhen Yu was promoted to the prince, and the name was covered.

"Zhou Yi" has a cloud: "Tan Tantan, Youren Zhenji."

Most of the people's lives are paying for their desires.

In contrast, those who are quiet and less desired seem to be easier to get happiness.

Because, a quiet heart is enough to go to the dust of life.

One of the people's lives, in fact, is a mood and a quiet.

The hustle and bustle of the world is like flowers, and after all, it is quiet.

In the process of being quiet, people analyze themselves, self -reflection, and find their own satisfaction.

The real quietness is not far away from the world and lived, but is in a downtown, still maintaining a quiet and indifferent heart.

May you live for the rest of your life.

Author ｜ Xiaoxiao, who is not rain, is a knight of the book, and a scholar who competes with the sword.

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