Parents and friends, please accept this non -anxious guide to entering the park!

Go to kindergarten!

Hello kindergarten!

There are children together,

Learn a new skill with the teacher, really happy!

But,

Leaving Mom and Dad for the first time,

A little sad ...

Well,

When I grow up, I just cry and laugh.

Ask mom and dad to accept this "Guide to Children's Infuse"!

On the first day, how can I say goodbye correctly?

Chen Lei (Director of Shanghai Tongya Kindergarten) Suggestion:

When parents leave, just say "goodbye" to their children. Letting children know that going to kindergarten is what everyone has to do. Moms and dads have to go to work, the baby wants to go to school, say goodbye to the baby in the most peaceful way, and let TA think that this is a very common thing.

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① Give expect

Tell the baby that mom and dad just leave temporarily and pick him up, and will kiss the baby well and give the baby the favorite ...

② "Four Tabies"

Two steps and three steps back

Avoid reluctance

Avoid visiting

Avoid the urging

Pinghe said "goodbye" and turned decisively and left.

Parents can let the teacher know the child's life in a letter, text messages, etc., instead of repeatedly dingling at the kindergarten door every morning, such as "Teacher, our children do not drink milk", "teacher, our child ...". When doing this, you are passing a message to your child -mothers are not assured.

Some parents will leave quietly while their children are not paying attention.

I don't cry on the first day, what should I do if I cry?

Chen Lei (Director of Shanghai Tongya Kindergarten) Suggestion:

If the baby's health is normal, you still need to stick to kindergarten. Do not stop up and stop, so that the baby can feel that as long as you cry, you can not be in kindergarten. Adults' persistence is important. Getting to Kindergarten as a natural experience in the growth of the baby. At the same time, I hope that my mother can communicate more with the kindergarten teacher and get the special "love" of the kindergarten teachers as much as possible.

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① Don't stop your child

② Hug the child

③ Proper transfer of attention

For example, when the child is crying, ask the child: "Do you need a paper towel? Do you want to drink saliva?" Let the child feel your care and feel that you don't pay much attention to his cry. To fade instead of entangled in the matter "Why are you still crying?" For another example, moving with games is still attentive.

Avoid discussing "whether to send children to kindergarten"!

To relieve separation anxiety, you can do this

Pan Jie (Professor of Preschool Education Department of East China Normal University) Suggestion:

Chinese -style families often have anxiety when they come to kindergartens. There are several adults around a child at home. If he has any needs, he may not have said it yet, and the adult has been "keen" to observe and satisfy it. In kindergarten, a teacher has to face many children, and it is impossible to be "responding" for each child. This change is difficult to adapt at once for a 3 -year -old child with strong attachment.

Parents should be sensitive to grasping their children's emotional needs. If children have some special needs, such as holding toy bears while sleeping, parents should communicate with their teachers in time. The teacher will definitely understand and satisfy the child.

Guo Zongli (Shanghai Preschool Education Special Teacher, Special Principal) Suggestion:

First of all, parents and kindergartens should allow their children to understand the environment of the park in advance as much as possible, so that he has psychological preparations and reduce strangeness.

Second, to teach children how to express their demands to the teacher, especially eating, drinking, going to the toilet, etc., the teacher will be satisfied.

Third, for a period of time when I entered the park, letting children bring their own attachment, preferably daily necessities such as water cups and quilts.

Fourth, parents must not "intimidate" children: You can't do this in kindergarten, you can't do that, otherwise the teacher will "scold"; do not force the child to be "polite". It will only increase children's dislike and fear of kindergarten.

What should I do if my baby does not say hello?

Chen Lei (Director of Shanghai Tongya Kindergarten) Suggestion:

We must turn our children's requirements into their role models.

Two or three -year -old children dare or say hello, which may be caused by various reasons. At this time, you don't have to force your child to do anything.

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When we come to kindergarten, we first and actively, and the master master, the children, the parents, the parents, and the teacher: "Hello!"

When the child observes our behavior, we will know that this is like this, and then imitate and learn us.

If my baby does not eat, what should I do?

Chen Lei (Director of Shanghai Tongya Kindergarten) Suggestion:

This problem is complicated, it depends on the specific situation. First of all, is the food made by children like to eat? It does not meet the taste of the child; secondly, it is mainly a problem of children's diet, and a healthy eating habits are a long -term development process.

On the issue of eating, sleeping, and toilet, the teacher has fully recorded the situation of each child through home visits to ensure that every child who is familiar with his class.

In the early days of entering the park, children generally allow their living habits to first correct or change them immediately. For every child, we give a considerable time and patience. In fact, the entire stage of growth of 0-6 years old is helping children to develop good living habits, which can not be changed in one day.

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① Don't eat if you don't eat

At lunch time, some children would say, "I don't want to eat! I don't want to eat!" The teacher would answer, "Okay, then we don't eat it." The teacher would not force or threatened, but allowed him to not eat first. However, kindergarten is a professional institution, and we must ensure the intake of children's food. ② Give your child the opportunity to choose

Why do children like to eat buffet? Because you can choose the happiest. We have done an experiment. We said to the child who was crying, "Okay, don't eat it if you don't want to eat. You go to see what you like to eat." At this time, no child is unwilling, stop It's right. We just make children enjoy eating and fun.

③ According to the teacher's records, the homeland collaboration and balance of nutrition

Teachers will make detailed records of their children's diet every day, and inform parents of parents and children to eat that day, nothing to eat, and which type of food should be supplemented at home.

What should I do if my baby is settled in kindergarten?

Mao Hongmei (Director of the Shanghai Early Education Guidance Center) Suggestion:

On the one hand, parents should take the initiative to contact the teacher (in general, the teacher will contact the parents of children who do not come to the garden), understand the child's situation in the park, and find the child with the teacher's unwillingness to go to kindergarten.

On the other hand, parents need to talk cordially with their children and inform them that they must go to kindergarten. Do not stay at home with the child's temperament. In this way, children will be more reluctant to go to kindergarten.

Pan Jie (Professor of Preschool Education Department of East China Normal University) Suggestion:

In this case, it is not that the child refuses to say, but because he is young, it is difficult to express it clearly in words. Parents should communicate with the teacher as soon as possible, and the teacher will definitely analyze the reason for the reason to help the children solve their troubles. But sometimes the reason will not be found all at once, the child's heart knot is not unlocked, and it is still strongly refused to go to kindergarten. At this time, parents may wish to allow their children to stay at home for two days, slowly, transfer their attention, and send them away when they feel good.

In the long run, everyone will suffer setbacks in the process of growth. Children are frustrated in kindergarten. Parents do not have to make a fuss. Instead, they should cooperate with the teacher to alleviate the child's negative emotions due to setbacks, so that his psychology can better develop better development Essence

Guo Zongli (Shanghai Preschool Education Special Teacher, Special Principal) Suggestion:

Children are not good at expressing. Parents should understand his true thoughts and problems. There are two ways: one is that parents deliberately praised the kindergarten teachers and children one by one. The toys, facilities, etc. are praised separately to see how the children are excluded.

Another method is that parents can contact the teacher to analyze what the child feels aggrieved because of the matter, and then communicate with the child targeted, first listen to the child, and then tell him that the teacher has helped him to solve Welcome to his arrival.

Conclusion

In fact, separation anxiety is human attachment instinct.

Children's entry into kindergarten always from uncomfortable to gradually adapting is a necessary experience for social development. Parents should pay attention to children's mood and difficulty encountered to better companionship and support.

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