There are 6 boys in the same dormitory in Beijing 985 University. The real life of 15 years of graduation is regrettable

A major event happened during the 11th holiday last year.

I caught up with a 15 -year party for a college roommate.

In 2007, it has been almost 15 years since the financial major of a 985 university in Beijing.

The six brothers in the dormitory also vowed to say that they would gather every year when they graduated, and then gradually became a gathering of 5 years and together in 10 years.

This holiday was also because many people did not have a travel arrangement. When the boss of the dormitory proposed, everyone gathered together, which was not easy.

Although he has not been together for many years, six people have met, and the friendship of each other comes back in an instant.

After eating, drinking and playing, everyone talked again for a whole night, and it was inevitable to recall the past youth years, and exchanged the recent situation.

How to say, many of what happened in 15 years, many we have imagined, but we have never thought of.

A lot of emotions are hard to say.

The real life of 6 college graduated from 985 colleges and universities, I tried to take a look.

People to middle age

I can't do anything

Let's talk about A first, that is, myself, I have passed the university for 4 years.

After graduation, the postgraduate entrance examination was frustrated. After a year of review at home, I was admitted to the graduate student. I have grown up since then, knowing how to work hard.

After graduating from graduate students, he entered the headquarters of a securities firm as a freshman. In recent years, he has caught up with the dividend of the financial industry and hopped twice.

The overall position and salary are not bad now, and the work intensity is also within the controllable range.

His wife is a younger sister in graduate school. He has been together since his student. He has been married and had children not long after work.

Now it has entered the mainstay of most middle -aged people who are experiencing "old, down, and small".

Outsiders are harmonious, but I have also broke out for more than a year due to the bottleneck of work. I have opened a middle -aged crisis for more than a year. Later, with the encouragement and help of my wife, I opened the sideline of the media.

In the past few years, I have been lucky and continued to have positive feedback, but it also means that there is no rest time.

As a result, because of the lack of exercise, the physical strength decreased significantly, and the naked eye could see fat. On the other hand, there was no time to control the children and the family, and always had guilty.

I also discussed with my wife: Do you want to be so tired?

Later, I wanted to understand that when people are middle -aged, they can't everything. God gives you, so pick it up first.

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Nearly 40 years of single

B is the "house" of our dormitory. The family is the best. His father is a local civil servant.

At the beginning of his sophomore, he firmly became the heart of going abroad. He studied the TOEFL GRE every day, spoke fluent English, and went abroad to study abroad as soon as he graduated.

After returning to China, he went to a state -owned investment company, and it has become the director until now.

Although he became the director in the state -owned institution, he did not decrease at all.

The nature of the years of work has led him to 365 days a year and more than 200 days in the world.

Doing projects, waiting for approval, broke the heart, and exhausted my body ...

Because of running around, he made a few girlfriends one after another.

Obviously it was the "Grass" of the year, but it was nearly 40 years old.

A few years ago, his father died, and the biggest regret was that he did not see his son getting married.

But for this matter, he seems to have "Buddha".

No matter who we want to introduce him, he refuses.

It is really painful.

No mountain, no road

One person has changed the fate of the whole family

C is the worst family in our dormitory. Parents work in northwestern rural areas, and their brothers and sisters are also in their families.

He applied for a student loan at the university and went out to teach diligence and study hard every day, but this did not affect his achievements.

Before he graduated, he would go to a well -known investment bank to work after five levels, and then basically disappeared from the classmate ...

He didn't have time to go the previous parties. This time, he knew that he had jumped to another small investment bank in these years. He had become MD (general manager), and he also married a female colleague who worked at the investment bank.

The couple are people who have no backing and no road. They work hard in Beijing with bare hands, and they buy two houses with themselves, a large flat floor of Chaoyang District, and a set of Xicheng school district houses.

Moreover, his sister who graduated from college found a job in Beijing and prepared a wedding.

Now that my sister has been married and has children, my brother has come to him this year.

He changed the fate of the whole family alone. To be honest, we didn't expect him to be so powerful.

It can be seen that sometimes the poverty when young was a catalyst.

However, he said that he also had regrets. In recent years, because he was busy fighting with his wife, he did not dare to stop for a moment, and went on a business trip all year round.

Stop and have children? He and his wife couldn't let go of his career.

Many things are really difficult to do.

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I want to step on the wind, but I didn't catch up

There is a house at home, there is no burden of making money

D is the only Beijing boy in our dormitory. When he was university, he was much more relaxed and free than us. He always went home to live and gave us delicious food.

After graduating from undergraduate, he first went to a state -owned bank branch. In less than a year, he changed jobs and went to the "four major" (four famous accounting firms).

Then these years, although he and I have a total meal, but every time he sees him, he basically changed his job.

During the "trust" fire, he went to "trust" to do the project. When "mutual gold" fire, he went to "mutual gold" as a management manager. In the past two years, he has made financing in real estate. Let's say that, basically he will do whatever fire, and he wants to step on the wind.

How much do you actually step on?

He told us the truth this time, basically he didn't catch up, and he was chasing and falling. Until now, he is just a senior employee in the company.

However, with the understanding of various industries, his benefits in investment and financial management have always been good. According to him, he has made more years more than going to work in these years.

And he is from Beijing, with a house in the family. There is no burden. Usually, he is skiing and diving.

His wife is a "post -95s" I met during diving. She just got married this year and is now a father.

A 40 -year -old middle -aged man holding a baby, but the whole person's state is particularly refreshing and young.

We can't help but feel sorry: the mentality determines everything!

Divorced, had depression,

Welcome to a new life after resignation

E is the boss of our dormitory and the monitor. At that time, he was a figure in the school. He also chased the Banhua, which made us a group of people envious.

The boss has a high comprehensive quality. After graduation, he has been admitted to civil servants. It is 10 years as soon as he graduated.

He did not catch up with the last division of the unit, and his own income could not afford the room. Even the marriage with Banhua was naked.

Ban Hua was dissatisfied with this, and he was dissatisfied. These were inadequately accumulated, and Banhua finally couldn't bear it. He proposed a divorce and took away their 5 -year -old children.

In the year of divorce, he had depression, and he couldn't even work in the worst time.

But no one said that he told us that the situation improved this time.

At the same time, it also stimulated him, forcing him to resign from the system 5 years ago and went to a fund company.

The income has indeed increased several times, and the workload has doubled several times.

Over the years, many colleagues in the system have begun to think about jumping out, and he also helped several colleagues find a job.

Some people insist that some people are not adapted, but in his words, it is good to know what the real world is like outside!

By the way, he has been married recently. After 5 years of divorce, he finally had a new beginning and was really happy for him.

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The work is decent and the happiness index is the highest

But for many years of entertainment, weight increased by 50 pounds

F was the only one who graduated from our dormitory to return home.

Although he has been studying scum for four years, he is particularly enthusiastic and optimistic, and he is the best popularity in the dormitory.

This time he knew that he was going to meet, he also deliberately rushed from his hometown in the south to Beijing to participate. Everyone was moved.

After returning to his hometown that year, F went to work in a local city merchant bank. He has been working stable in these years, and now he has become the vice president of the branch.

His wife was his colleagues in the same system. After giving birth to two babies, he was full of full -time at home. Now the two are busy chasing three babies.

F can be said to be the highest happiness index in us, the pressure of life is not great. Parents help bring their baby, relatives and friends take care of, and work is decent and there is almost no unemployment crisis.

A few years ago, I went to him to go on a business trip. He had a food and traveled all the way. There was a sense of control of "the world in my hands", which was really enviable.

Of course, he said that he also had troubles and worked in his hometown.

So after leaving the school for 15 years, he grew 50 pounds, and suffered from hypertension and fatty liver. He entered several times when he was in the hospital. He was afraid of it.

At the end

This is the same 985 college and 6 financial men in the same dormitory. The real life after 15 years of graduation.

No one rushed to the clouds, and no one fell into the bottom. Everyone dangled back and forth on the line that belonged to themselves.

However, there are always people taller, and some people are lower; some people are stable, and some people shake a bit.

Overall, in our era, admitted to a key university in Beijing, there is a high probability that it can give the future life.

But how far can go up at the bottom?

When people reach middle age, everyone has their own happiness, and everyone will inevitably worry about it.

In this world, everyone was snowing, and each of them had the vagueness and brilliance of each person.

But our six brothers sat down to sum up, and we were still more happy than troubles.

In other words, at our age, the ability to resolve trouble has also increased a lot.

Think about when you were young, who was not dismissive of the kind of life at a glance, and he liked to blow the cow, and spit out mediocrity and stability.

But after these years, I discovered that you either work very hard or very smart to barely live in the "mediocre" and "stable" life.

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Before leaving, everyone agreed to get together for the next 5 years to see what each other became, and what new feelings and troubles had.

Life is like this. At each stage, it is painful to see the present, but it seems that it is okay, but it will definitely get better and better.

By the way, before leaving, everyone scrambled to pay, but in the end I made a account.

Who makes me full of reason:

Today, your stories will become my writing material, and you should pay your copyright fee in advance.

Everyone heard it, haha ​​laughed.

Some people are willing to tell the story of a group of middle -aged men, some people are willing to listen, and some people are willing to write.

Author: Uncle Ren, Source: Uncle Pan Money (ID: Bigmoneyball), understand finance, and understand you better.

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