After watching the details of the well -known male star rejected Miss Etiquette twice, what am I realized what is high -level education?

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Previously, the well -known male star Zhang Songwen attended a red carpet, and the details of them were impressive.

On the same day, the sky was drifting in the sky, and Zhang Songwen wore a gray suit and stepped into the red carpet and waited for taking pictures.

Miss Etiquette supported the umbrella on the top of Zhang Songwen's head, but unexpectedly rejected Zhang Songwen.

He also pushed the umbrella towards Miss Etiquetan, letting her support the umbrella, but she stood in the rain.

Later, Miss Etiquette pushed the umbrella to Zhang Songwen, but was rejected by Zhang Songwen again.

Zhang Songwen pushed the umbrella to Miss Etiquette and asked her to hold the umbrella herself.

In sharp contrast to Zhang Songwen's twice refusing Miss Etiquette, a female star who appeared behind Zhang Songwen.

One person entered the venue, but three assistants served her next to her, two of them supported her umbrella.

No wonder many netizens have praised Zhang Songwen's words and deeds:

"This is the responsibility of men. At this moment, Zhang Songwen is not a star, but a gentleman!"

"Such high -quality actors are too attractive!"

"He is really good, a small move to see the character, this is not installed ~"

Pascar said a paragraph:

"Don't estimate a person's virtue from special actions, and observe from daily life behavior."

A person's education is enough, and small details are enough to see.

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Ni Ping has hosted a public welfare show.

As the host, every time Ni Ping saw a helping person, before the official start to talk, she always explained to the other party: "My legs are not good, so I won't stand up."

In the early years, when Ni Ping filmed, because he was soaked in the cold water for too long, his legs were cold. Now that he only needs to stand for a long time, he will have pain.

After the first episode, how many helpers, Ni Ping will repeat this explanation.

Later, someone asked her puzzled: "Every ask for help, you have to explain it again, don't you feel troublesome?"

Ni Ping said after hearing:

"I am not just facing a helper, how can I only explain one person?

A person knows that I have a bad leg, and it does not mean that everyone knows.

The trouble is more troublesome, but this is the minimum politeness and respect, so it can better pull closer each other's distance and relieve their tension.

Therefore, I will still explain them one by one. "

Even if it is a very small detail, Ni Ping does not let go; even if it is constantly doing this is cumbersome, Ni Ping insists on it.

As the saying goes: See you with details, and small things see people's hearts.

The more difficult to detect the details, the more you can see whether a person has advanced education.

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Liao Yimei wrote a sentence in "Pessy Flower":

"Repair is the manifestation of dignity and education. It must be used to use the power of personality. Those who are all opportunities always use all opportunities to express their desires, while weak people always submit their desires. They do not know how to restrain."

Too many adults always succumb to desire and make their levels lower and lower.

Only when we learn to restrain and learn to converge can we become a high -level education person.

1. Don't overestimate yourself

When Confucius traveled to the country, he met a 7 -year -old child on the way to Jin. He asked him to answer 2 questions before he gave way.

The first question is: "Why is the sound of goose loud?" Confucius replied: "The goose has a long neck, so the call is loud."

The child said, "The frog's neck is short, why is the crying sound?"

Confucius couldn't answer, and said to the students ashamed, "I'm better than this child, he can be my teacher!"

As a college question home, Confucius can still find his own blind spots, not to mention you and me.

But many people think of themselves too well, and they are full of superiority.

Shirley McCinen, who plays Chanel, once proposed a 20-40-60 rule. What I want to say is:

At the age of 20, you are always worried about how others think of you;

At the age of 40 you woke up: "I don't care what others think";

At the age of 60, you discovered that no one cares about you at all.

In the final analysis, most of the time we are not as important as ourselves.

Therefore, don't overestimate yourself, learn to lower your posture, and treat everyone around you equally.

2. Live a principle life

Principles refer to the basic rules based on a person's act of acting.

In life, every day, each of us will encounter various events. Without principles, we will easily destroy our bottom line and easily destroy the boundaries with others.

Writer San Mao described her experience in studying abroad in "West Wind Unknown".

Before studying abroad, San Mao's parents repeatedly told her to let her learn to endure everything.

San Mao keeps his parents' words. By the time, she readily accepted the request of the roommates.

However, Sanmao's blindness did not make her comfortable. On the contrary, her roommate began to enter.

Slowly, almost all miscellaneous things became Sanmao alone.

One night, the roommates ran to Sanmao's bed to play crazy.

The unbearable Sanmao broke out at that moment, and she grabbed the broom to sweep it towards the roommate.

After that night, the roommates no longer dared to pointed at her, but became respectful.

Keeping your own principles can make people agree with your boundaries, and it is easy to keep the boundaries between people.Each adult should sort out their own principles as soon as possible and live a principled life.

In other words, you must clearly understand your own principles, persist in decision -making and action in accordance with your own principles, and actively iterate the principles to form a personal principle system.

Mr. Wang Zhongqiu said in the book "Details Decisions":

"There are too few people who can do big things for all beings. Most people can only do some specific things, trivial things, and monotonous things. Perhaps it is too bland.The lack of foundation. "

Perhaps most of life is a trivial matter, but these trivial things can clearly reflect your level of life.

mutual encouragement.

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