21 -year -old single mother vs, a graduate student for a rest school: What is the difference between reading and not reading?

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Two days ago, a hot search of a#how to look at the female graduate students of the Social Sciences was at a time, which ignited the public's emotions.

The female graduate student of the Social Sciences is Nanyi. Born in 2000, she is a minority girl who came out of poor mountainous areas.

The place where it was born in the south, in Cangyuan County, Yunnan Province, this place had just removed the poverty hat in 2019.

Poverty means lack of educational resources and extremely low college entrance examinations.

Someone found that only 5 of the 705 college candidates in Cangyuan County in 2020, and only 5 people on a line were on the line, and the college entrance examination rate was only 0.7%.

Nevertheless, Nanyi still passed the 985 university of the Central University for Nationalities from such a ravine.

The hard -won results, how many students in the poor areas are difficult to achieve throughout their lives.

What's even more rare is that in August this year, Nanyi stood out from the 5.2 million postgraduate troops and became a graduate student of the Academy of Social Sciences.

In addition to academic achievements, Nanyi also has an identity: Internet celebrity blogger.

With her own efforts and wisdom, she earned the first bucket of gold in life, and used this bucket of gold to buy a ticket for her family, took them to Beijing, and saw the dream of Tiananmen.

Everyone thinks that this optimistic girl will have a bright and bright future.

But just two days, she announced a news that shocked everyone's chin: Because she met her lover in her hometown and was pregnant, she decided to take a year at home for one year and be at ease.

When everyone learned that the man who made her decide to take a break was a rural hairdresser with only junior high school education, and netizens' anger was almost overflowing the screen:

Love brain! Reading can't change fate. She came out of the mountain, but her thoughts did not come out. Pregnancy is not a simple break for one year. After giving birth to a baby, will they let you go? Are you willing to leave yourself ...

The comment area was noisy, and he did not shake Nanyi's determination to go to school.

Her response is simple: not accepting the opinions of netizens, and will be responsible for her choice.

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In the past two days, it has also attracted attention as the "South Yiyi School" incident, and there is also a single mother who sent takeaway at a 21 -year -old takeaway.

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In 2018, at the age of 17, she married the same young husband under Zhang Luo, the matchmaker and parents.

"In the countryside, as long as you don't read, someone will continue to meet you."

When she said this, she was always filled with a smile, and her big eyes were flashed, and she seemed to accept such fate.

It wasn't until she talked about her husband that her eyes began to dodge.

Blog: What industry is your other half engaged in? Xiao Chen: No. Blog: Nothing does? Xiao Chen: I died in 2019 ...

It turned out that Xiao Chen's husband died of a car accident when the child was born five or six months old.

One month after her husband died, the mother -in -law's mother -in -law got the compensation and drove her and the child (daughter) out.

The reason why Xiao Chen came out to send takeaway is because of high salary and can bring children.

When recalling this past, her eyes were red, and tears rotated in her eyes.

But when the blogger lamented that her life was not easy, her tone immediately made it easy: "What is not easy, when does not suffer hard now, it is only 21 years old, it is time to endure hardships."

In the entire interview process, Xiao Chen did not complain, did not blame, and some were just tenacious and optimistic.

Two days ago, Xiao Chen, who was on the hot search, also posted a Weibo.

She wrote like this: "I only have the level of junior high school. I only know what happened without escaping or giving up. I love my child and will not give up my child."

Everyone was admiring her optimism and generosity, but I found her helplessness and remorse hidden in her heart.

After Xiao Chen became popular, the blogger made a return visit to her.

The blogger said that because Xiao Chen became popular, many single men came from recommendation. The implication was to ask her whether to consider remarriage.

As a result, the girl shook her head again and again: "Because of the trauma that he has suffered a lot, he will not get married and have children easily."

Xiao Chen said that her current goal is very clear, that is, "engage in money."

Why do you make money? I hope to make her daughter a better school, and hope that she will continue to study at the university and not get married early as herself.

What is the difference between reading and not reading, maybe only the talents come here.

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Nanyi and Xiao Chen are both women who are poor, and they are married early, early marriage and early childbirth. The only difference is education.

Xiao Chen's early marriage was because she had only junior high school education, she had never seen the outside world, and she didn't know what kind of future she could have. Therefore, she had to obey the arrangements of her parents early and marry a child.

It wasn't until the suffering of life that she found the importance of reading, which can be seen from her hope to her daughter.

And Nanyi's early marriage was her own choice. As for this choice is good or bad.

Many people think that Nan Yi's decision not only destroyed himself, but also exacerbated the dilemma of other girls' postgraduate entrance examinations.

Do not discuss her choice of good or bad, after all, "good" is still "not good" is a very subjective feeling. Let's take a look at an objective question first, this decision of "suspending school", does she have the right to do?

The writer Cai Bailei analyzed this way: It is actually very simple to have the right to have the right to have the right. See if it is illegal, and the other is to see if she has infringed on the rights of others.

This place was indeed admitted by herself. Not others were poor and gave her a quota. Since she was admitted through legal means, how to do it in the future should be her right.

Cai Bailei hit a very simple analogy:

Does she violate others' research rights? No, if you act within your own scope of rights, you are also invading, then I am particularly ugly and cause psychological discomfort to others. Is it necessary to prohibit me from going to the street or collect my taxes? Did I be admitted to the interests of all those who did not pass the admission? There is no violation, mainly depending on whether I have the right to and whether you have the right -that seat is not yours. Which of the rights I invade?

In summary, Nanyi's decision did not infringe on anyone's rights.

It can only be said that her decision is a pity, after all, it is a graduate student who has finally passed the admission.

But to be honest, I am not worried about Nanyi's future.

Because she was young, she had enough time to try and error. Even if she found that she had betrayed her for one day, her education and insights were enough to support her back to the city from scratch. Her future is infinitely expected.

Xiao Chen, who is also married early, is not the same. She is trapped in her education and insight. She does not have much options for work.

When a female rider is just because of this job, she pays high in her academic qualifications and is convenient for children.

Everyone knows that takeawayers are very hard. If there are more choices, no one wants to choose like this.

In this regard, Xiao Chen is not free.

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The cold windows are hard to walk out of the mountains, not to stay in the city, but to have the right to choose, and have the freedom of returning home to get married and having children.

Now Nanyi is free to go back to my hometown, but if you do not walk out of the mountain, it is not free.

What is the difference between reading and not reading?

The difference is in the choice of life.

Finally, this passage of Dragon Yingtai in "Dear Andre" ended:

"Child, I ask you to work hard, not because I want you to compare with others, but because, I hope you will have the right to choose in the future, choose a meaningful and time -time job, not forced to make a living. When you The work is meaningful in your heart, and you have a sense of accomplishment. When your work gives you time and does not deprive your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity, give you happiness. "

mutual encouragement.

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