Children who have been allowed to eat ice cream since childhood, and children who are not allowed to eat ice cream are obvious

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Whenever the weather is hot, the ice cream in the freezer becomes particularly popular. Ice cream is not only the "happy source" of children's childhood, but also the "artifact" for adults to relieve heat and cool.

In the hot and irritable weather, if you can eat an ice cream, it is a great happiness for many people.

Many people even make such emotions: "Summer without ice cream is incomplete. Childhood without ice cream is a pity."

The ice cream tastes beautiful, but many children do not have the chance to eat ice cream. The reason is that these children have a strict parent.

Whenever I see a child on the road enjoying the deliciousness of the ice cream, the mother will always pull her daughter and leave immediately, and tells: "Ice cream eats diarrhea, not a good thing."

Although I am already a elementary school student, my mother has never bought an ice cream once for her daughter. Even if she begged hard, her mother never agreed.

The reason why the mother does not allow her children to eat ice cream because her stomach is relatively weak. As soon as she eats ice food, she will diarrhea.

In order to prevent her daughter from being damaged, they are suffering like herself. Ice cream and various cold drinks are in the food list that cannot be eaten.

Although he said that he was "clearly" forbidden to eat ice cream by his mother, he still couldn't restrain his desire for ice cream. Once, I bought ice cream and was discovered by her mother. Under the majesty of her mother, she had to throw away the ice cream that was thrown away.

The first "stealing ice cream" plan failed halfway, but she still tasted the deliciousness of the ice cream. This taste made her want to stop.

There are actually many parents like Mom Mom. They have strict requirements for their children and belong to the "exquisite baby" type of parents.

Some children have not been allowed to eat ice cream since childhood, and all kinds of cold drinks and junk foods are not allowed. Their parents think that ice cream and other junk foods are harmful to children's growth and development. Children can not eat them without eating.

Compared with these parents who have high requirements for their children, some parents seem to be very "Buddhist". They do not have such strict requirements for their children. As long as the children like it, they want to try any food.

Which of these two types of parents is better?

If you want to know the answer to this question, we can use parents who allow their children to eat ice cream, compared with parents who prohibit children from eating ice cream to see what their children are different.

Children who can eat ice cream since childhood, and children who are not allowed to eat ice cream, are obvious in these three aspects

※ Children's self -discipline

Many parents think that they have not allowed their children to eat ice cream since childhood, and their children will "insulated" with ice cream in their lives to develop self -discipline without eating ice cream.

But in fact, children are not robots. They cannot blindly accept the instructions given by their parents. They also have their own ideas and their own desires.

A child who has not been allowed to eat ice cream since he was a child, when he left his parents and lived independently, he not only could not do self -discipline, but also had a "compensation psychology" of ice cream. This "compensation psychology" manifests that he may eat ice cream more crazy to compensate his childhood lack.

I have a colleague who likes to eat candy very much. Every time, she will be filled with a variety of candy. Others ask her why she likes candy so much. Her answer shocked everyone.

It turned out that the colleague had not allowed her to eat candy since she was a child. Each of her relatives and neighbors gave her candy, and she would be confiscated by her parents.

Therefore, when the colleague could make money to support himself, he became obsessed with candy, and he had to eat a few candy every day to feel comfortable.

The psychology of this colleague is a kind of "compensation psychology" caused by childhood desire that is not met. This psychology is actually not healthy, and it will also make children unscrupulous.

※ The ability of children's autonomous choice

If parents have various requirements for their children, they are not allowed to eat this, and they are not allowed to eat that. This is also not good for the cultivation of children's self -selection ability.

Within the safety of children, parents let go properly, so that children can grow better.

Just like eating ice cream, parents can fully satisfy their children's desire, adding some color to their childhood. Try too much, and after knowing too much, the child knows what he likes to make a choice for you.

※ Children's social ability

If parents are too strict for their children, such as not allowing children to eat snacks and ice cream, it will have a certain impact on the child's social ability.

Children gather together and often share snacks. Snacks such as ice cream can be said to be a natural "adhesive" of friendship between children.

In hot weather, a few children gather together to eat ice cream, and your sight of me is the memory of many people about childhood.

Furthermore, when children are together, they will also discuss what ice cream has they eaten, what kind of shapes, tastes, etc. are the topic that children communicate.

If parents have strict requirements for their children and deprive their children's right to eat ice cream, the child may be regarded as "heterogeneous" by the playmates and will slowly be isolated.

Therefore, parents should not use the reason for "good children" to prohibit children from eating ice cream. As long as children do not eat too much, ice cream can also be their childhood beautiful memories.

At the end

Ice cream does not actually have a lot of anxious parents as "terrible". As long as the child's body allows, parents can let their children eat some ice cream in moderation.

Parents should not use the reason for "good for the child" to make the child's childhood full of regret.Because the child's childhood is only once, it is extremely precious.

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