Mengwa first entered the park, parents did this

In September of this year, another group of children going to kindergarten. For new students who are about to enter the park, they are curious in the face of strange environment, but they are not suitable for them. Parents are ecstatic and anxious, and they are happy to grow their children, and anxious children can adapt to kindergarten life well. The reporter interviewed many kindergarten teachers in our city to understand that helping the freshmen to go through the "anxiety period" smoothly not only relying on the teacher's careful teaching, but the parents' preparations are equally important.

Less anxiety and more guidance

"My child is about to go to kindergarten soon, but I am very anxious recently and I can't sleep for several nights." Ms. Zhou in the urban area told reporters that her daughter was 3 years old this year. Ms. Zhou said that because the child was going to enter the park, she began to worry a few months ago. "My child has a more introverted personality and usually does not take the initiative to play with children. I worry that children will be isolated in kindergarten. I also feel that I may be too worried, but I don't know how to adjust my mindset."

In response to the concerns of children's parents, the reporter learned from the professional teachers of professional children. "The reason why some parents have separation of anxiety in the park are a large part of the reason is that they think that children will not be able to leave their parents. Worried that children in kindergarten will be bullied and worried that the teacher is not teaching well." Teacher Li in a kindergarten in Jining High -tech Zone said, " When children go to kindergarten, there are generally situations where crying and reluctance to happen. Our children must understand, care, help, and educate their children in their hearts, so that parents and children's problems will be solved. "Teacher Li told reporters When some anxious parents, some parents always want to hold more children and kiss their children when they send their children to kindergarten. Some parents are very reluctant. Some parents are worried that their children will always wait outside the kindergarten door. In this regard, Teacher Li suggested that when parents deal with the teacher, it is best to talk to the basic situation and leave decisively. Teacher Du, who has many years of preschool education experience, told reporters that for the first time to go to kindergarten, in addition to paying special attention to the children's separation anxiety symptoms, parents' separation anxiety cannot be ignored. In her teaching career, she also encountered parents who called the teacher and kept sending WeChat to the teacher during class. In this case, parents especially need to adjust their mentality and control their emotions. "Parents can find things to divert their attention. If the anxiety is more serious, you can share it with friends." Teacher Du said.

Take your child to familiarize the environment in advance and cultivate your ability to take care of yourself

From the perspective of the city's Red Star Kindergarten teacher, for children about the newly entered the park about 3 years old, leaving the familiar family environment and entering a new strange environment such as kindergarten is normal. "Some children are more extroverted and adaptable. They may spend a few days in a few days. Some children with slightly introverted children, or children with obvious anxiety of their parents need to be longer." Sheng Shi said that the child first entered the park, and the child first entered the park. Faced with children's discomfort, parents should calm down. Parents' emotions will also affect their children virtually, making children feel that kindergarten life is "terrible", and it will produce a resistance, and is not willing to go to kindergarten. To cope with this issue, at the beginning of the school, Red Star Kindergarten adopted the child's approach to admission with parents in batches. Sheng Shi introduced that the kindergarten will arrange a teacher to visit the teacher before entering the garden, so that the children and the teacher will contact each other in advance, so as to familiarize themselves with each other and reduce their strangeness to the teacher after entering the park. When entering the park, in order to ensure that each child can adapt to the kindergarten life, the kindergarten will enter the park in batches, and the parents will be familiar with the new environment with their parents to help them through the anxiety period. Sheng Shi suggested that parents can give their children a "prevention needle" in advance before their children enter the park, make enough preparations to enter the state in advance. "A few months before entering the park, parents can let their children learn to eat by themselves, cultivate their self -care ability such as eating, toilet, and changing clothes. At the same time, they must also consciously communicate with children to socialize and communicate with children of the same age. Treating their interest in kindergarten life can also help them adapt to collective life early. "Sheng Shi said.

Reminder from entering the garden

Psychological preparation: Increase your baby's familiarity and recognition of kindergartens, teachers and children. Parents communicate with their children in advance, describe the kindergarten to the child interesting, so that the children yearn for the kindergarten from the heart.

Environment preparation: Adapt to the environment in advance, parents may wish to lead children to the kindergarten to visit and observe, watch the learning and game activities of teachers and children, and encourage children to participate in experience and actively evaluate.

Ability preparation: Making children learn simple life skills and efforts is an important foundation to adapt to the collective life of kindergarten.

Time preparation: It is necessary to help children understand the schedule system and familiarize the day of life in kindergarten. At home, parents can develop a scientific schedule for their children.

Reporter Su Qianqian

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