The live broadcast made her make money, can she really save her?

Author:Xindi Time:2022.09.03

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I found that many women in rural areas and counties recently are doing live broadcast. Most of them are eaten. They have some commonality, in the age of 20-40, they do not have a formal work, and there is a problem with marriage. Either divorce or divorce.

Quite interesting. I explained one by one.

Why is it eaten?

In the words of an anchor, it was fortunately encountered the Internet. "Without the Internet, I go out to sell clothes, don't want me in clothing stores, do you know why? Now the waiters have to be high school students. What is it? I graduated from junior high school. "

They are not high, have no skills, and do not have an advantage in the workplace. After the divorce, they have to pay for the child, and even only pay for themselves. Eat, as long as- "can eat". They are willing to fight.

Why do live broadcast?

I squatted for several days in their live broadcast room, one obviously discovered that they lived in live broadcast, three sentences were inseparable from "money". Money is the biggest temptation for them to live broadcast -money can be rented after divorce, the child's tuition and living expenses can be paid, and they can even ask their children to teach. Even more, some have made heads and earned a lot of money. They can buy a house and give their children's school district houses.

Money also seduces many people. I checked the data, and the women mentioned above eat bloggers, and 90% of the viewers are women. This has also attracted some women to follow her for eating and broadcasting. Similarly, divorce, or marriage is not smooth, and want to rely on this way to independence.

Of course, there are not many women who can get ahead. However, there are too many women who are eager to rely on this road.

The live broadcast gave these grass -roots women a way out of economic return, which allows them to have the courage and power from the bad marriage.

This is extremely important.

Today, I want to introduce you, why is this road important? And, I want to discuss with you even more, is this a real way out?

Marriage was once considered a livelihood of women.

Just like the life experience shared by the bloggers -his father died early, he came out to work when he graduated from junior high school. This incident was completed, and it was a "explanation." In the explanation of her family, she has the support of life -marriage.

Of course, this is not the case. Her marriage was crumbling, and so is her life. She did not work, she assumed a heavy parenting work, but she could not charge living expenses, let alone a emotional care.

She wants to divorce. But do you know? Her mother is not allowed.

I sound shocked in one detail and felt uncomfortable. In order to keep her daughter's marriage, she closed the couple who was about to divorce in a room overnight. Thinking about it, this marriage could be retained.

Do she not love her daughter? of course not. She wants to retain her daughter's marriage, and she also wants to retain her best living on her daughter. At least, there are husbands, family, and children, there are "bottom".

But, not at all.

I do n’t know if you have any physical feelings. The younger generation of women is getting lower and lower.

I went back to my hometown and heard who the daughter's daughter was divorced, and who had a divorce of elementary school and who had divorced. But the older generation, very few.

Remember Aunt Su Min? She lived with a suffocating husband for decades, and finally bought a car and went away.

However, Su Min is a wife who is away, and is a wife who cannot be divorced.

This is why, the livelihood of the live broadcast is very important for these women who "have no bottom." Entering marriage, no work, losing the ability of independent life, the next step is to slide into "poverty".

This is why I love to stay in their live broadcast room. I see that they made money, saw them dare to sign on the divorce agreement, and see them dare to mention the grievances and disregard of being suffered in marriage.

At least, they do n’t have to deliver everything for the family like that middle -aged aunt who fell in love with “fake Jin Dong” like the middle -aged aunt who fell in love with “fake Jin Dong”. In the end, I was laughed at the end of "crazy", and I didn't have to experience the distressed crying. "I have never enjoyed love in my life."

However, when I stayed in their live room, the longer I started to doubt:

Can this way out really save them?

Looking back at the blogger above, she should be one of the most successful broadcast bloggers I saw in my vision. Starting from a sip of braised pork, there are dozens of people.

She bought a house. I bought it for my son, school district room. I hope he will go to college in the future, not like her, graduate from junior high school.

She bought a house. Buy it for my mother, pension room. Her father died early, leaving her sister and her. Her mother was not in good health. "Now the house is bought. At least in the village, there is no faceless person."

She bought a car. Write the name of my sister. Her purpose is, "In order to make the villagers look at us."

It's not so easy to get this. She showed the scars on her hand, which was the scar left when pressure and depression.

I admire their weeds' vitality, and that motivation must support life. If I change the position with her, what she can do should not be one -tenth.

But I am a bit sad. real. When others ask her, why don't you buy a house for yourself? She smiled and said, what kind of house I want, I don't need.

I don't know if you understand my feelings. She walked out of the live broadcast, a way to leave the bad husband, a way to support the life of mother and child, and one proved that she could stand for her divorce. The road.

This is what I want to say most today:

I was very happy to see, and the live broadcast gave some women out.You can earn money and have the right to choose.

I especially want to share a data:

In 1997, female netizens accounted for only 12.3%. In 2021, the proportion of Chinese netizens and women and women was 51.5: 48.5.(Data source: CNNIC, National Internet Information Center)