Those who love each other, have these characteristics

There is no reason to love each other, and there will be tens of millions of excuses.

People who love each other do not need to prove deliberately, how deep they love each other, these characteristics are silent confession.

01

Stay together.

I have watched a video taken by a video of a video: a couple who graduated from the post -90s junior high school, gave birth to two sons, lived in a rental house of 500 yuan a month in Guangzhou, the husband was a managing worker, and the blogger took the baby by himself. Yu, operating a small video account, barely enough income, but still feels sweet than sad.

The blogger's small video is to shoot every day. What she buys, what she does, the most common is the one -sided, white porridge plus rice. During this period, the blogger's husband was unemployed for a month, and the number of eating meat was reduced a lot, but every day when the husband went out to find a job, he still smiled at his wife and children.

They all said, "Poor couples are sorrowful", but the couple gives a strong warmth.

Rental houses are very busy, and life is also difficult. The hardships of bringing their baby and the pain of making money are unannounced without a trace in the laughter of a family of four on the dining table.

The blogger said firmly that although most people do not choose to eat such suffering, she and her husband have a firm choice. No matter how hard it is, she must be together. Tentacles can reach.

Yes, the future is out of reach. Only by grasping the present can we grasp happiness.

As a writer said, "Don't say that we have a long time, we don't need to promise to the future. What we can control is nothing more than the real love now. In this life, it is composed of countless now. Grasp every moment of every moment. This becomes forever. "

02

Do each other's backing.

In the video of the little couple, the fat hostess dragged two every day and took all the housework, but did not complain. He neither complained that his in -laws could not bring them children, nor did he complain that the husband's income was often not enough. On the contrary, every time I cook, I always think about how the husband's favorite taste is prepared.

Simple pork and vegetables seem to be given unique deliciousness in her thoughts. Even if it is simply cooking, every time I cook meals, her husband praises it. Don't forget to hold the younger son in his arms, so that his wife can freeze his hands and eat a good meal.

One of them made money outside, one inside the family, and the couple cooperated in the division of labor. No one was lazy, no one blame. If you have less income, you can eat easier and more income, so you can improve the food once.

Husband and wife have become the backing of each other, and their lives are very suffering, but they can always see the power of persistence: Although the husband is tired, his reputation is very good. Even if the previous job is gone, you can find it quickly. In a job, the small video account operated by the hostess also became better.

In the past, I sang in the opera: "You have plowed the field to weave, and the husband and wife are sweet and sweet."

In real life, only those who love each other will be so tacit, and they will support each other in the face of suffering days and never give up.

03

Face the challenge together.

For many husbands and wives, it is easy to be difficult to share with each other.

In the difficult days, each other became the light of illuminating life, supporting the adversity, but after entering the "right track", it was no longer flattering.

The movie "Influence" tells such a story: the middle -class full -time wife Connie has a happy family, her husband is a warm man with a successful career and a special Gu family. The children are smart and smart. Their family is an envy of everyone.

But because of an accident, Paul, who was full of passion, was in love. After Konni's husband, Edward, he knew Paul.

Faced with this bloody lesson, the couple finally retrieved the true feelings of the past, and they decided to face them together. The ending of the film was that a family of three drove the car to the door of the police station. After Connie and Edward embraced each other affectionately, Edward walked on the road of "surrendering" without hesitation.

When a relationship entered a bland stage, all kinds of challenges arrived unexpectedly.

How to face the temptation of the outside world and the person who loves each other, you will choose to stand firmly together and face it together, instead of blindly accusing each other. After breaking the jar and broken, tore your face and run into things.

04

End words:

The Song Dynasty poet Qin Guan wrote a word for his lover that he hadn't seen for many years:

The fiber clouds are clever, flying star hate, and the silver Han is dark. When Jinfeng Yulu met, it was countless but countless. The tenderness is like water, and the good period is like a dream. If the two feelings are long and long, how can it be in the downside.

The emotion expressed in the words is that there are individuals in my heart, and I am not alone in my life. The unforgettable love is the true love of life.

Two people who sincerely love each other always break through the danger, want to stay together, face the ups and downs of life together, and walk through the dull but sweet life.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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