Psychological elements of high -quality love

■ Xiaoyue

We don't want to encounter obstacles in love, hoping to build a high -quality relationship. To establish a high -quality love relationship, we must first understand the basic psychological elements of love relationships.

1. Hold

Holding representative security and a basic trust. In the holding, we experience that we have been accommodated by another person, and our strong arms make us not fall. In the growth and development of our lives, we all need to feel being held.

2. Understanding

It is understood that it was seen that TA understood me. In the relationship, we overcome the distance through the communication of our eyes, see ourselves from the other's eyes, and give each other a position. Once we can understand that others are not me, we start to use others as a mirror to understand ourselves.

3. Provide holding

In fact, everyone is learning how to take care of others from beginning to end, provides autologous functions to meet the needs of others, and builds a bridge between each other through care and attention.

In giving behaviors, we can comfort others, as if others were holding us before, to hold others.

Love is one of the basic needs of people. It is the pursuit of a good journey. The parties in love can continue to improve and promote the development of the relationship.

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