After becoming a mother, her choice and life

Mother

If it is a mother's test question, then it has never had a standard answer.

Every mother has their own educational concepts. In a lifetime, they are thinking about how to better accompany the child's growth.

In Luliang, Shanxi, a mother named Ye Fan. Nine years ago, she gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix baby, named Qiqi and Miao Miao.

She is a gentle and kind mother, and she is also a woman with her own thoughts, independent, and self -reliance.

In the past nine years, her kindness, hard work and persistence have also affected her children little by little. Today, two 9 -year -old children have the shadow of their mother.

The following is the story about Ye Fan and the children.

01

choose

At the beginning of the new millennium, Ye Fan, who was studying abroad, came into contact with volunteer activities that he had never participated in his hometown and became a public welfare volunteer.

Since then, helping the old, protecting children, helping disabled, supporting education, greening ... all kinds of volunteer activities have filled her spare time.

When I graduated from college, stand at the fork of life, stay in a big city or return to my hometown?

In this regard, Ye Fan didn't hesitate too much, and she chose to return to her hometown Luliang.

Although this is just a small city of five or six lines, for Ye Fan, here is everything that is important in her life.

Picture | Ye Fan's hometown Luliang

However, when I return to my hometown for a long time, the feeling here seems different from the past.

In the provincial capital cities, the volunteer service system has developed very well. There are many opportunities to participate in volunteer services on weekdays. They can return to their hometown, but they can hardly find decent volunteer activities, and they cannot find people who are like -minded.

Although I went home, for a long time, Ye Fan could not find the kind of solid feeling in his heart when he could not find it.

It wasn't until one time that Ye Fan encountered a childhood playmate Jiansheng on the road. For many years, Ye Fan learned that Jian Sheng has been enthusiastic about doing various volunteer services in the past years.

Therefore, after returning from Beijing, Jian Sheng established a volunteer association in the local area, but the association has just been established shortly after it was established. There is no standardized management. It is a group of bloody youths.

This can make Ye Fan excitement, she sighed: "After looking for so long, I finally found the organization!" In this way, Ye Fan joined Luliang Lili Shi District Young Volunteer Association, regaining the student days The enthusiasm of the heart and the solid feeling in my heart.

At that time, everyone contacted on QQ and asked on the QQ group: "Do you have time tomorrow?" If you have time, you will go to the village to do some activities. Go to the snow together.

Figure | Ye Fan talks with the disaster -owned solitary elderly

Later, slowly, the association had a lot of project -oriented things, and it also became the project partner of the One Fund. The warm bags, water purification programs, and children's service stations were launched in an orderly manner.

02

child

After many years, Ye Fan met her husband. In 2013, they had a pair of cute dragon and phoenix baby, Qiqi and Miao Miao.

After having a child, Ye Fan did not work because of the child's delay in the work of the Volunteer Association. She has been working hard to balance work, volunteer services and life.

That winter, Qiqi in the kindergarten in the middle of the kindergarten pulled out the mother who was busy going out on the weekend to show her fleshy arms: "Mom, look at my muscles! Can I help carry the warm bag this year, ? "

Based on the idea of ​​being able to accompany the child with more time, and to bring the child for a long knowledge, Ye Fan began to participate in the packaging of warm packages with Qiqi and Miao Miao.

Every time in the temporary material library, I saw the uncle's most familiar one fund logo on the disaster relief box that uncle unloaded from the big truck.

Figure | Unload the warm bag to get off the car

Later, as the children grew up slowly, they seemed to start to understand the meaning of warm bags.

This year, after the flood in Shanxi in August, Ye Fan took the children to visit the house.

She found that from staring at the mud stacked on both sides of the road along the way, to the photos of Zhang Zhang who visited, it became quiet and dignified like "Mude" on weekdays. : "Mom, do many children need a warm bag?"

Figure | Seven Seven Seven Contaper Warm Package

When doing warm packaging packaging work, Qiqi will also use his own money to donate a few warm bags.

In 2021, with the support of the One Fund, Luliang Li Shi District Young Volunteer Association launched the monthly donation project raised for Lu Liang's children. Ye Fan also joined the monthly donor team.

Figure | Sweep the code to join Luliang's dilemma children's project monthly donation

After knowing that her mother was a monthly donor, she asked her mother: "Do you have to be a big man to join? Can I join?"

When he heard the child, Ye Fan was surprised and moved, and said, "Welcome you to come." So the children asked the mother to transfer the pocket money into them from their account. Donor.

Figure | Seventy -seven and Miao Miao join the monthly donation

03

influences

Looking at the innocent and kind children, Ye Fan often remembers his childhood, and the two women who influence and change their lives in their lives.

Ye Fan said: "When he was young, he was with the aunt who was in the countryside. The aunt who did not know a big character had the excellent quality of all traditional women in China. In her hard work, she could help countless neighboring folks. And her diligent and simple life also planted a good seed in my heart. "And Ye Fan's mother is the biggest supporter of her public welfare cause. At the last time of the mother's life, she was lying on the bed torture torture torture. In order to let her daughter issue the student's student fund, she was still squeezing a smiley face and told her daughter, "Mom is okay, you go to send money to the children. Bar!"

Ye Fan often missed his mother and said, "During decades, I have never heard anyone saying that she is not good at the death of my mother. Everyone in the surrounding people mentioned her. The quality of helping others. "

The influence of her aunt and mother on Ye Fan has shaped her character and has been affecting her education for her child.

She has always believed in a word, "Say 10,000 sentences, it is better to do it once." So she has always been willing to take the children to volunteer, because she knows that what children see in their eyes are often the most authentic and profound s things.

Figure | Ye Fan and the children visited by the household

On one occasion, Ye Fan took the children to visit the house and went to a family with difficulties in family. Qiqi found that there were only children and mothers at home, and mothers suffered from mental illness. When I walked into the house, the child was cooking noodles for his mother.

After returning, Qiqi was very emotional, because the child was the same age with himself, and he might be one or two years behind, but the child was so strong, so bravely facing the hard life.

Later, Qiqi always entangled her mother, asked her mother to help him send a circle of friends, and called for more people to join the monthly donation and help more children with 1 yuan per day.

Over the years, through the true walk into public welfare and participating in public welfare, Ye Fan saw that the seeds of public welfare have been taken root in the hearts of children.

This also made her more believed and influenced the power. As the mother of the children, Ye Fan never deliberately asked the children to do something, but had been influencing in her own words and deeds, affecting them.

Ye Fan said: "I hope they can love yourself no matter where they are in the future, and have spare no effort to love others."

This is probably the best education that can be given to them during the growth of children.

One fund is based on the vision of "doing our best and everyone's public welfare", focusing on the three major areas of disaster relief, care and development of children, public welfare support and innovation. It is a 5A -level social organization. Thanks to the family for their support and welcome the supervision of the family.

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