Dad's dad has taken care of paralysis his wife for 9 years and created an indoor "small forest" for him

Jimu Journalist Lin Chuyu

Photography reporter Zou Bin

Correspondent Zuo Muzi Cui Xueqing

Before entering Zhu Yifang's home, I saw a variety of green plants on the bay windows between the fifth floor road downstairs. On the afternoon of September 5, Jimu Journalists knocked on the house of Zhu Yifang's old man and learned a romantic story of "special touching".

The 73 -year -old father Zhu Yifang is an old party member of the party with 52 years. In the past 9 years, he has carefully taken care of the paralyzed wife, and has also created an exclusive indoor "small forest" for his wife. He wrote a romantic story that belongs to them. In May of this year, the Civilization Office of Wuhan City, Wuhan City, widely collected the "most beautiful balcony" of residents' homes, and Zhu Yifang's balcony was successfully selected.

Afraid of getting sick wife loneliness, creating "the most beautiful balcony"

Zhu Yifang and his wife Mo Taohua

On June 12, 2013, this day is an unforgettable day for Dad Zhu, because on this day, my wife Mo Taohua was sick, and from this day, my wife never said a word. Faced with the blow, Dad Zhu started taking care of his wife all day after a short sadness.

"I went to liberate the park as usual that morning. When I went home at noon, I found that she (Mo Taohua) was unclear, so I hurriedly sent her to the hospital. Nine years ago, Grandma Mo had hemiplegia because of cerebral infarction. At that time, Grandma Mo, who was not notified by the hospital at the time, was better in the next day. After staying for more than 5 months in the hospital, Dad Zhu Grandma Mo was taken back home, and this care is 9 years.

Because Grandma Mo was ill and lost the language function and could not act, Dad Zhu was afraid of his wife's loneliness and began to learn to grow flowers and grass. In this small bedroom less than ten square meters, there were two beds. Flowers and plants, orchids, silver willows, dragon fruit ... This piece of green makes the whole room bright and moving, and a bunch of green pupa hanging in the air makes the entire bedroom full of vitality. The 75 -year -old Mo Taohua was lying on the bed, and from time to time, she looked at the green plants above her head. Sometimes I watched TV again. When she saw the reporter's arrival, she moved the corner of her mouth. He said that he picked up the comb and combed his wife.

Every day, Dad Zhu began to water the green plants on the bay window, and every plant in the house devoted him to his efforts. Dad Zhu told reporters that before Grandma Mo was sick, she had never planted flowers and plants. "I am a man, how can I know how to clean up these? There is a patient at home. I learned it later. "Although it has been paralyzed for 9 years, Mo Taohua has a rosy complexion, and there are long bedsores on her body. Although the room is small, it is extremely neat and clean. Her wife Zhu Yifang.

More than 3,300 day and night take care of your wife like a child

Zhu Yifang and his wife Mo Taohua

In 9 years, Zhu Yifang wrote two notebooks, and the notebook was densely written with a daily physical condition, blood pressure and bowel movements in the past 9 years ... In the past 9 years, it has not fallen for a day. Let's say "have developed habits."

Zhu Yifang recorded the physical condition recorded by his wife in 9 years

Due to the difficulty of swallowing Grandma Mo, in addition to making her meals every day, Dad Zhu needs to make three meals a day for her wife. Bone fish soup, picked out the fishbone after the soup fed her after meals ... "

In 9 years, Dad Zhu will help his wife and massage her legs and feet every day, so that her muscles will shrink as much as possible. And Dad Zhu will change the pad for his wife every 2 hours. "Don't look at her that she doesn't look heavy, there are more than 90 pounds. Every time I turn her body, it also requires a lot of strength."

For Dad Zhu, taking care of his wife in life is his compulsory course every day, and in 9 years, Dad Zhu has hardly left his home for more than two hours. In 9 years, sleeping a consciousness is almost an impossible for Dad Zhu. "She has to turn over or urinate at night, so I have to get up to see her, see her asleep and snoring, and snoring. I just sleep with confidence. "

Zhu Yifang helped Mo Taohua to comb his hair

During the interview, Dad Zhu also talked to reporters the story of him and Grandma Mo when he was young. "I am a native of Enoshi. She is from Wuhan. When she had two braids, she was very beautiful. We married in 1973, but in fact, after I transferred from the Air Force logistics forces to Hubei Department Store in 1978, we really lived together every day. " At the time of these past years, Dad Zhu's face was full of smiles. Because of her complementary personality, the old couple had almost no red face and quarreled. Since the marriage, Grandma Mo has hardly been chef. Grandma made a lifetime meal.

"I hope she can get up to quarrel with me." At this time, Dad Zhu looked a little lonely, but soon, he laughed in cheerful, "But I still believe that the miracle will appear, I hope she will one day she will appear. I hope she will one day. It can be better, just like the doctor had judged that she could not live long at the time, did I take her care well! "

Zhu Yifang pouring flowers

Dad Zhu is very frugal everyday, but there is always a small amount of expenses every month at home, that is, electricity bills. "She can't be hot or cold, so the air conditioner in the summer is always open. In winter, I will drive. The heater. "In 9 years, Grandma Mo hadn't had a cold once. More than 3300 days and nights, Dad Zhu took care of his wife like taking care of his children. Although her wife couldn't speak, every look and every humming, Dad Zhu could understand. What he persisted was the affection of couples for many years. Dad Zhu said that his children had their own work and life, and the pressure was very underway, and he tried not to bother the children as much as possible.

Use action to interpret "I only love one person in my life"

Over the years, the child was distressed by Dad Zhu and changed his hands for him. He hoped that he could walk around and relax for himself, but Dad Zhu always had to rest assured that Grandma Mo had to go home for a day or two. "I know she is inseparable from me, and I can't do without her."

Cui Xueqing, deputy secretary of the party committee of the Jiefang Community, told reporters that before the Spring Festival this year, the co -construction unit donated a group of love materials. She and the grid staff came to condolences to Grandma Mo. After the photo was sent in the circle of friends, it attracted a lot of likes. In May of this year, the Civilization Office of Laoukou District collected the "most beautiful balcony" of residents' homes, and she recommended the special balcony of Zhu Dad's house.

The story of Zhu Yifang's husband and wife is also talked about in the neighborhood. Grandma Hu said: "Lao Zhu is a good person. He usually sees him always laughing. It is really not easy for 9 years. It is worth learning from all of us."

Unconsciously, next year will be the "golden wedding year" of Dad Zhu and Grandma Mo. When talking about the future, Dad Zhu expressed his hope to accompany Grandma Mo. "I hope my body will always be tough, so that I can take care of her all the time "Dad Zhu told reporters that in fact, what she did was what a husband should do." I always think this is a very common thing. The husband and wife are one, and the other half is sick. As a wife, I have obliged to take care of it she."

"The letter was very slow in the past, the car and horse are far away, I only love one person in my life." One house and two people, three meals and four seasons, and even ordinary days can become poetic. The 73 -year -old Zhu Dad explained the best love with practical actions. Essence

At the end of the interview, when the journalist who left Zhu Dad's house was left, he looked up and saw the green plant in the room was full of dazzling business, just like the love of Dad Zhu and Grandma Mo, although it was unknown but long love ...

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