[Zi Niu Toutiao] A 58 -year -old teacher is lying on the bed and took the first wedding photo with his wife

Author:Yangzi Evening News Time:2022.09.10

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The wife wore a white wedding dress and stared at her husband with a smile; her husband held his wife's hand in one hand and looked back affectionately. This is a common mode for many wedding photos, but this wedding photo is very special, and the two protagonists are over half a year. The old man in a shirt was still lying on the bed, just to wear a formal shirt to take pictures, which was "feat" for him in serious illness. The old man was Teacher Wang, who was unfortunately suffered from kidney cancer when he was about to retire at the age of 58. He has been weak in his body. He has always had a regret -because of family poverty when he was young, he did not take wedding photos with his wife. So, recently, with the help of his daughter and medical staff, he lay on a bed with his wife to complete a group of wedding photos. In an interview with the Yangtze Evening News, Mr. Wang's daughter said: "For Dad, the wedding photos have completed his great wish. Thank you for the hospital. , High quality of life. "

Kidney cancer was detected in May

Seeing his father's condition suddenly turned down

"You see, my dad is thinner now, and his eyes look much bigger." Wang Jie (pseudonym) pointed at the photos in the album, full of distress. This album is made of wedding photos specifically for this Anning Institute, and there are also a few photos taken in the middle of them. The three generations in the photo, with a smile on the face, even the teacher Wang who had just completed the operation, still seemed very energetic.

"My father found had kidney cancer in May this year. He had been saying back pain before, but he was unwilling to go to the hospital." Wang Jie told Yangzi Evening News Zi Niu Journalist that the family had the best thing to be stones or cysts. The pathological results showed that I had kidney cancer. "Our family really felt that the sky was collapsed. My mother hurriedly called me, called my sister, called relatives, and cried."

Wang Jie said that his father's illness was late, and the cancer cells had just spread along the lymphatic. "My father underwent surgery and cut off a kidney, but his body collapsed soon." Wang Jie said that his father then received immunotherapy. Some patients with the same drug were also serious, but some of them were also very serious, but they were also very serious, but they were also very serious. After two years. At that time, they were also full of hope, except that the "miracle" did not appear. Mr. Wang quickly appeared immunogenically pneumonia. The physical condition turned straight down.

"My father is a primary school math teacher. At the age of 58, he is about to retire. He was full of longing for his life after retirement: he should take his wife to Beijing Tiananmen to see the flag raising, go to Tibet to take a self -driving landscape, and all plans were disrupted by illness. "Wang Jie said.

Teacher Wang has always had a regret in his heart

Want to take a group of wedding photos with his wife

The two elderly people showed their thoughts that they wanted to take wedding photos. When a medical staff conducted a routine inspection room, the medical team eased the medical team of the medical department talked about a regret in his heart. Mr. Wang and his wife did not take wedding photos because of family reasons when they were young. They wanted to make a group after retirement. I did not expect that they would get sick before they could realize it. After listening to the elderly, the medical staff present at the time were deeply felt. "We decided to take a group of wedding photos for the two elderly people." Dr. Zhou Zhi, the Department of Medicine of Nanjing Mingji Hospital, told reporters.

"We received my mother's WeChat that I learned that the hospital had a plan for taking wedding photos for them. My mother asked me if I had time with my sister and wanted to take a family portrait together." Wang Jie said that she felt a little bit when she received WeChat. Accidentally, because the parents were particularly simple and romantic in her eyes, "I didn't expect my father to have such a regret in my heart."

Wang Jie told reporters that in the impression, her parents always mixed their mouths, "Other people are always harmonious in their homes, but they are always noisy. Later, they gradually understood that their relationship is probably everyone's joke. '! "Wang Jie said, Dad is not good at expressing his feelings, but he did more than he said." Mom is a housewife. He usually has a lot of farm work to do it. Although the father of a teacher is not very good at work, he always It was silently helping the mother to set up a handle. I still remember for a long time. Dad taught my father during the day. Mom set up a morning to make money to subsidize the family at the school door. Preparation, Dad always gets up with her mother to help prepare the ingredients, and wait for the mother to go to work. "Wang Jie said that Dad was a math teacher in a primary school in Anhui, so he was very serious, so he was usually a science Thinking, not so active, "but my dad also has an interesting side. He once helped the music teacher take a period of time. He also bought a nursery rhyme tape and practiced children's rhymes at home. I tune it, but he thinks he is the original singing, and he is particularly confident. We have been amused by him. "

Four people to help with a shirt

But everyone didn't cry this day

Wang Jie said that this wedding photo this time is not only the wish of his father, but also the best record for the love of his father and mother to see the true feelings. "Therefore, we are ready to be very attentive."

Dr. Zhou Zhi told the Yangtze Evening News reporter that the hospital also made a lot of preparations, almost linking the situation of the patient's resource assessment patients, layout of the ward, contacting photographers and caring makeup artists. With the joint efforts of everyone, the personnel and materials are in place soon, and all preparations have been completed in one day.

The staff is taking pictures of them

"Before taking a wedding photo, the social worker accompanied his mother to pick the wedding dress. The makeup artist also painted a beautiful makeup to his mother." Wang Jie recalled that when the photo was selected in a good state, but even so, only the spirit of changing the part of the part was a little bit more spiritual. The shirt is also very difficult for him. "You look at the shirt in the photo, which was worn by me, mother, sister, and nurses to put on my father together. I originally wanted to give him a tie, but his tumor was transferred to his neck. With a lump, it hurts when it touches, and we can't lift our heads, so we can only change the tie for him. "

The entire process of shooting, the medical staff carefully and escorted the whole process. "The patient's safety must be the first."

Wedding photos of Teacher Wang and his wife

Considering Teacher Wang's condition, this time the shooting did not have a lot of equipment as usual in wedding photos. It only used the most streamlined props and the most intentional cloth light and shooting to complete the whole set of photos.

After the shooting was completed, the photographer team was urgently processed. After the photo was washed, the multi -disciplinary team of the medical department jointly gave the photos to Teacher Wang and his family. The mother Wang and the two sisters in the photo smiled. "We said before the shooting, we can't cry, and we must leave the most happiest look of Dad in this set of photos." Wang Jie said.

The staff took the family portrait for them

Thank you hospital for your father's dream

To a certain extent, it relieves the pain of his father

After getting a wedding photo, Ms. Wang was very satisfied. After watching it for a long time, she sent a thank -you voice to the social workers as soon as possible. Wang Jie said that since Dad's illness, the family members are very sad. "We will continue to conceive that if my dad checks early, can he live for many years; if there is no surgery, immune drugs are not used, is it a father’s? Will the situation be better than now? "But every choice of a cancer family is a" one -way line ". Whether the other road of each" fork "will lead to a better result, there is no chance to verify. Wang Jie said: "After seeing the photo, my father and mother showed a long -lost smile."

The medical staff showed Teacher Wang for wedding photos

Wang Jie told reporters that since her father was sick, she watched her dad's big man with "little pride". She was tortured by pain and lost his dignity, unable to eat, and could not sleep. "Dad was really too painful for that time. I really thanked Nanjing Mingji Hospital for alleviating the medical department to treat my father, and in this way to fulfill my dad a dream."

"Now my mother sometimes sends WeChat to tell us that today's dad has two eggs, she is very happy. We are also very happy because if they are at home, Dad can't eat anything at all." Wang Jie said, now she just wants Dad to pick up Don't be so painful when you come down, "can be as happy as possible!"

"Our target is not only a patient, but also a family member, but the entire family." Dr. Zhou Zhi said that at present, domestic tranquility treatment has begun, but whether it is the number of beds or service quality, there is still a lot of distance to meet the needs of patients to meet the needs of patients. gap. Anning therapy requires doctors, nurses, social workers, volunteers, nutritionists, psychologists, etc. to form a team to help solve the problem of the entire family, leave patients to leave dignified, and let the family members say goodbye.

Zi Niu News Reporter | Yang Yan

Edit | Zhang Bingjing

Editing | Wan Huijuan

Editor | Chen Dichen

Video Picture Source: Camera Ding Yu (Internship)

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